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Ramblings of whatever is on my mind
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The Shock Of My Life
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Posted:Nov 21, 2016 11:01 pm
Last Updated:Dec 16, 2016 8:46 pm
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Found out a dear friend of mine from here didn't really pass away after all. Since February I had believed that he had died in the hospital, his or someone posing as his texted me from his phone to tell me what had happened. Him and I were just friends but were talking about possibly becoming more but he "passed" before it ever got to that.
Well I found out he had been using the site as a couple and had added photos since his "passing". Before he passed he had taken the one photo that he had up off the site and he had his profile as a single male and said he wasn't seeing anyone so apparently he's been a bit busy in the after life! LOL
I just don't understand why people play such games and especially such cruel ones as this one. I really cared about him as a person and have been very upset over his death. Wouldn't it be much easier to just tell someone you aren't interested instead of having someone pretend to be your and lie for you and tell that you died...JUST WOW!!!!! I've had tons and tons of people play games over the years but I think this tops them all!!
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Beyond Upset...
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Posted:Aug 26, 2015 3:30 pm
Last Updated:Dec 29, 2015 11:18 pm
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Ok so some of you may have noticed that I don't answer my messages like I use to. Quite frankly I am just so tired of so many people thinking it's perfectly fine to waste my time and act like they want something they don't, act interested when they really aren't, make plans when they have no intention of following through. And I'm not just talking about one or two people here and there doing this...this is pattern with I would say 9 out of every 10 men that I've chatted with. I'm seriously blown away!! Why even be on the site?! Why would you even waste your money for that matter?! It's pure insanity!!
So that got me thinking...How can I weed out the time wasters and players from the ones that might be serious, what can I try that I haven't already tried? Well one thing I have noticed just from looking around on the site is some of the women have loads of fans and I mean hundreds where as I have only ever had a handful at a time. Men always like to message me talking a lot of shit and wasting my time but yet are fans of other women. Hmm that doesn't really make a lot of sense so I have decided that I would start giving priority to my fans and ONLY my fans and see if that changes things at all. Cause it really does all come down to you aren't going to be a top fan of another woman and then try to get me into bed...sweetheart there might be a lot of dumb women on this site but I'm not one of them. I might not say a lot but I see through a lot of the games.
As they say talk is cheap...lets see some action for a change cause this site is really boring me to tears. There have to be some real men on here who actually want what they say they want and aren't playing all these games. I think I have been more than patient with a few of you on here and you know who you are and I have now wiped my hands of you...done with your games, you can find some other chick that will play them cause I've had enough.
Sorry if this post seems mean but something seriously has to change and I don't want to have to ignore everyone 
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Distance Being An Issue
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Posted:Sep 20, 2014 12:31 pm
Last Updated:Nov 22, 2016 12:20 pm
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Distance is something that continues to come up and I understand that not everyone is looking or wanting someone that isn't local or nearby to them and that is ok. But don't act interested and lead someone on if you already know that distance is going to be an issue for you.
I travel quite a bit throughout VA, NC, MD and also other areas from time to time so distance has never really been an issue for me. Now normally I do try and limit my search to a 4 hour radius but there can always be exceptions. It is just easier to try and keep it under 4 hours cause I actually want to be able to see the person fairly often.
I have met some good people on here that I consider friends but what I am ultimately looking for is a regular partner. Ideal situation would be with someone that I have things in common with inside and outside the bedroom. Would be nice to have a travel companion to do things with and to share my lonely nights in hotels with. But I know not everyone can get away and maybe the sex is amazing but we find we really don't have much else in common. That I can work with if that situation were to arise, open communication is the only way that any of this is going to work.
Not looking for someone that is sleeping with multiple women already...I am a very sexual person and if you are already seeing other women then you aren't going to have the time to meet with me regularly. Makes sense right?!
Everyone keeps asking me what I am looking for and rather than trying to explain it over and over to each person that messages me, going to start writing things in the blog.
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Understanding Men
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Posted:May 16, 2014 1:47 pm
Last Updated:Aug 25, 2014 2:05 pm
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I know men and women tend to think very differently and that is ok. The problem I have (and I have encounter this numerous times) is when a man actually takes the time to chat and attempt to get to know someone only for them to disappear when it's time to actually meet. Is it just the thrill of the chase?! There seems to mostly be two kinds of men on here (at least from what I have seen thus far) those that build up to the meet and then flake out and those that chat up multiple women with the intention of meeting every single one of them...basically just going from woman to woman like an endless cycle.
Also if distance is a problem for the guy then why even bother if you already know you don't have the time or aren't willing to at least meet the woman halfway. Distance has never really been a problem for me, I think finding the right connection is far more important. Yes we all have busy lives but if someone is truly interested in getting to know the other person then you make time not excuses.
I get numerous messages daily and there is no way I can respond to every one of them. As much as I would like to, it just isn't possible. And the majority of the messages I get are just men looking for a one time random hookup which I have no interest in.
It really is a shame at the lack of maturity on this site, after all this is an adult site. I mean wouldn't it be easier for everyone involved if we were honest with what we were and weren't looking for? Is it really that hard?! Apparently it is for a lot of people. I guess if you have no idea what you even want it is just easier to act like you want the same things as the other person. Seriously grow up!! A man that actually knows what he wants and doesn't play mind games is extremely sexy however that is a rare thing to find.
Time is something none of us ever seem to have enough of so it is very hard for me to wrap my mind around why so many are all about wasting everyone's time.
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Really Need To Vent...
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Posted:Sep 14, 2013 9:42 am
Last Updated:May 16, 2014 12:09 pm
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I apparently am one of the only few real women on this site or so I'm told so why do all the men just seem to want to use women? I would love to hear some honest answers here...
I am a straightforward woman and I prefer others to be as well. I like to get to know someone a bit before meeting but apparently most men don't even want to know anything about a woman before sleeping with her...hey that's fine if that's your thing however it is not mine! I have 90% or more men stop messaging cause I actually want to know something about them. I am a very sexual person and I am looking for a REGULAR partner however it seems that most men on this site are just looking for couples or one night stands or to just go from woman to woman...again not judging but please don't act like you are wanting lots of sex regularly if you aren't!!
The thing that frustrates me most of all is the ones that actually SEEM sincere and will keep in touch and actually seem to want to get to know you and then when it comes time to meet they either have excuses or they just disappear and then men wonder why women are so bitter and suspicious...
Seriously we are all adults here and lots of us are looking for different things but at least if you aren't interested then be man enough to say so, don't be a coward! So tired of wasting my time on men that are doing nothing but playing games. I won't say names but you know who you are.
I have met a lot of nice people(both men and women)from this site but most have just turned out to be friends which is great cause I probably would have never met them otherwise but I am ultimately looking for my sexual match and I guess I never dreamed it would be this difficult.
Would love to hear from both men and women on the reason behind why you do this or if you have had this done to you...how do you move forward when this keeps happening over and over again?!
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Is Anyone Real Anymore?!
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Posted:Feb 19, 2012 10:23 pm
Last Updated:Dec 16, 2013 12:10 am
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Have talked to lots of memebers here, however most are just playing games for whatever reason. Just really don't understand it at all. Would love to hear other people's experiences especially if you have had better luck than most of us.
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