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Really Need To Vent...
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Really Need To Vent... I apparently am one of the only few real women on this site or so I'm told so why do all the men just seem to want to use women? I would love to hear some honest answers here... I am a straightforward woman and I prefer others to be as well. I like to get to know someone a bit before meeting but apparently most men don't even want to know anything about a woman before sleeping with her...hey that's fine if that's your thing however it is not mine! I have 90% or more men stop messaging cause I actually want to know something about them. I am a very sexual person and I am looking for a REGULAR partner however it seems that most men on this site are just looking for couples or one night stands or to just go from woman to woman...again not judging but please don't act like you are wanting lots of sex regularly if you aren't!! The thing that frustrates me most of all is the ones that actually SEEM sincere and will keep in touch and actually seem to want to get to know you and then when it comes time to meet they either have excuses or they just disappear and then men wonder why women are so bitter and suspicious... Seriously we are all adults here and lots of us are looking for different things but at least if you aren't interested then be man enough to say so, don't be a coward! So tired of wasting my time on men that are doing nothing but playing games. I won't say names but you know who you are. I have met a lot of nice people(both men and women)from this site but most have just turned out to be friends which is great cause I probably would have never met them otherwise but I am ultimately looking for my sexual match and I guess I never dreamed it would be this difficult. Would love to hear from both men and women on the reason behind why you do this or if you have had this done to you...how do you move forward when this keeps happening over and over again?! |
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The reason *why* there are so few real women left on this site is because there are so many men who act like neanderthals. [post 3097853] Come join the half-nekkid fun! Check out HNW Bloggers.  
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People (because women do it too) disappear for a few reasons: they are married/attached and get caught or get cold feet. The fantasy is exciting but when faced with the reality of meeting someone they get scared, some of the lie about their appearance or bank book and are too ashamed to show up. I just take it as part of the game here but I've put a few protocols in place that have worked in cutting down on the fakers and no shows. #1: I don't care how great he seems, if something seems off about how he presents himself, I just don't even bother. 2. Any guy knows up front that there is no sex for the first couple of meets. That weeds out lot of men right there. 3. I only meet in public, a place I got to regularly anyway and no more than 15 minutes from my house. 4. I call the day before to confirm and ask him to call me abut 1/2 hour before so I know he's on his way He doesn't call, I don't go He shows up and looks *way* different from how he described himself, I walk out. Basically, I'm asking a guy to make commitment to show up and few men who have someone else at home or are just running a game are going to bother.
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1 post 10/17/2013 3:47 am |
I wonder is anyone is real here or all are generated by the website to entice memberships. I have become a member here several times under different handles over years and have yet to get a single response let alone meet anyone. Sex is something everyone loves and likes and that is the greatest industry worth billions so Polyamory Date is getting its share from fools like us. Maybe we could get hooked faster in a matter of hours men with women and women with men if we went to a bar and spent a few dollars than spending here and wasting time. I wonder is any of these are real at all.
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Lexi you're a sweetheart and the issue is most guys are on here for a reason. Some aren't getting what they need at home (married). Some can't get anything any other way either because of looks or personality. Some are just plain idiots. And some (like me) are just damaged and don't want a relationship. That and you do live in a pretty isolated part of the state. Sad thing is I'm looking for someone regular as well that won't turn psycho on me and finding that here is damn near impossible. Don't give up tho sweetie. You'll find him. Just have to keep looking.
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11/19/2018 4:14 am |
OMG,because you live in a isolated part of a state,they use that as and excuse??????.I have found a few,but the biggest one is FWB,yes that is the norm now,its a group that is growing.Also the site gives some women free membership just to generate new members,and the only ones that contact me are ones younger than my daughter, ''sugar daddies''are big for this site.I made a mistake,one of the biggest problem'' LIES'' to many say they're looking for LTR,when contacted they amit its only sex they're looking for,then call me names for just asking the question.Long on lies,short on honesty
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