Married and not considering divorce as we have young and the relationship is cruising along with its ups and downs. But I need intellectual sparring and intimacy, both physical and mental. I am looking for ladies who share similar outlook and desires.

My Ideal Person I hope to meet a woman who needs to be discreet. I suppose the emotional attachments along with such a relationship would be natural and expected. I guess what i would like to be is a friend first and if there is mutual attraction, and similar desire and need for discretion, a friends with benefit relationship would be great.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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