I'm going to be straightforward and honest here. I'm not here to play games and try to psych someone out. [COLOR red][B]Seriously. If all you are capable of is sending me an email that says "Let's chat" or "Feeling horny?"...DON'T BOTHER! If you can't do any more than that to get my interest, you're wasting both of our's time! Sheesh![/B][/COLOR] I'm married and my husband knows what I'm doing here. I'm blonde and blue-eyed. 20 years ago I was HOT. Time has done it's usual number on me. I still think I'm pretty but I've put on a lot of weight. Like many women, I have body image issues but I'm trying to work past them. So if that's not what you're looking for, I'm not going to waste your time trying to convince you what I'm not. I'm not an outdoor per (at least not anymore). I'm not a lush, but some wine or a drink with dinner is great. I'm not big into sports, but I follow the Huskers. Movies & TV are safe topics. I'm geeky and artistic. I work in an educational environment. If there's a chance at all that I might be interested in you I'll answer a message. Also, if you're in a relationship and your significant other doesn't know what you're doing here, pass me by as well. Whatever happens here is going to happen damned slow. Let me repeat that . . . SLOW. I'm not sure exactly what I want or how far I want to go. My relationship with my husband comes first and if I think I can't handle where we're going without messing that up, I won't go there. The trouble is I don't know where that line is. I'm looking for someone or something to help rekindle my passion. Maybe this will do it, maybe it won't. I'm also looking at fulfilling a fantasy or two. If you're looking for a booty call that will happen right away, move on. Anything is going to have to involve getting to know you first. There's going to be a lot of conversation before anything else. And staying with the idea of honesty, I don't know when or even if I'll be up to moving beyond that. This is an experiment for me. Again, if you don't have the patience for this, I'm not for you.[B][/B][B][/B]