We are a mid 30's white couple who have been playing with black males for the last few years. Only played with a couple of guys but was a regular thing. We would like to find someone open to regular meetings and a long term arrangement. Not looking for a 1 night stand or sex on the 1st date.

My Ideal Person Someone who is experienced in the lifestyle and understands the dynamics. A mature gentleman who knows what he wants and when to take control. Someone who is our age or slightly older, fit but not a bodybuilder, 5' 10" and above. Would need to be bigger than hubby so 8" and thick or bigger. Non smoker. Open to meeting at least once a week and taking his time to thoroughly please her. Open to some humiliation of the husband and possible bi play.