Sorry for lack of reply. The messages we received are grayed out and unreadable by the site. We are trying this site again as a response to the cabin fever brought on by the pandemic. Last time didn't work out quite so well. We had an ideal upon starting but we weren't really able to convert it to reality. This time we are reversing that by just looking for people we both agree on and could imagine as friends. From there we'll see. We have many intellectual friends in this area but are tentative to broaching the addition of sex due to the insular nature of the community. We are looking again here to see if we can meet anyone who offers both. She is more open to trying a bi experience than she was previously. He has not considered trying bi contact but is more the type to be swept away by the heat of the moment. Last time we were on we sought this. It still sounds good in principle but was tough to create the situation: We are a happy couple and decided together to try something to expand our sexuality and find new friends. The plan is that each of us will explore on our own to find someone attractive as a lover and person. Neither of us is Bi (yet?), so he is looking for a woman and I am looking for a man. What we want to do is create a FWB-like connection with our respective new friends, then eventually bring all four together and see how it goes. We're hoping that the attraction and trust is enough make for really fun, interesting times. (We're also hoping that our new friends don't immediately fall for each other and run off! ;) ) This is new territory for us and we are interested to see who we meet. I'm sure we'll write more here as things progress.

My Ideal Person Ideal person for her: I like men that are perhaps nerdy or clean cut, but have some smoldering sexuality and fantasies underneath. Intelligence is a must. You don't need to be a college professor or anything, just be able to hold a conversation beyond small talk. Have interesting things about you that you are able to share, and be interested in things about other people. This goes a long way with me to create attraction. Respectful and gentlemanly is important too, although we may establish different rules in the bedroom. I like someone average height to tall, and at least HWP. I'm willing to meet someone of any race. Penis size does not matter to me, so if that's your big seIl then you're not the guy. If you have dick pics as your main photo or as the bulk of what you show, you're not the guy. I'll add to this as things come to me.

Ideal person for him: Hmm, haven't had to think about this for a while. I could see it being someone younger, but older is good too. I definitely prefer thinner women, natural boobs, non smoking, I like women who are spirited, but also shy is appealing too. I guess I like everyone! LOL. Really the big factor is when she opens her mouth and I hear what she has to say. I appreciate conversation that is engaging, funny, interesting, or observant. All that turns me on to someone physically. Someone who could kick my lazy butt into shape, perhaps introduce me to rock climbing or a seldom-seen page of the kama sutra. I am always looking to be challenged. Write me if you have any interest and I'll be glad to chat with you at the very least.