Mutual Masterbation?!?!?!?
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Posted:Sep 17, 2015 4:56 pm
Last Updated:Sep 23, 2015 8:21 pm
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Their are 2 different kind of people in the world. Those people who masturbate, and those people who lie. Masturbation is a normal, healthy and all-around awesome practice. And yet, it’s something that is rarely discussed between couples. Men do it, women do it, and they even do it to each other (aka: foreplay) but that doesn’t mean they’re able to openly talk about it. Masturbation is a private show, not a spectator sport… Or is it?
So if you’re currently in a relationship, chances are the both of you are doing at least a little self-loving on the side. And why wouldn’t you? Masturbation has a load of benefits (pardon the pun), from stress reduction to sleep aid to higher overall sexual confidence. Solo sex sessions also enhance your coupled sex life, helping men improve their sexual stamina and women become more orgasmic.
While there’s nothing wrong with taking the “divide and conquer” approach to masturbation, why not share the self-love with someone you love? Yes I am talking about mutual masturbation. You probably remember this practice from your pre-intercourse days.
Back in high school, mutual masturbation was considered a sexual loophole, a way to experience sex and orgasms together without actually doing the deed. Bringing a partner into the mix can make a regular masturbation situation exponentially hotter! And it may help reduce some of the side effects of masturbation. Here are a few reasons why you and your partner should turn your sexual solo into a duet:
It’s a treat for the eyes
As you may have figured out, men are visual creatures. Unlike women, who need to feel turned on in order to actually get turned on, men rely heavily on visual stimuli to get them in the mood. This is the real reason why you watch so much porn. You LOVE seeing a women enjoy themselves sexually, from every single angle. Don’t believe me? Just check your browser history.
Now picture this: Instead of watching a stranger touch herself on a cold, flat computer screen, you’re watching someone you know in real life. Moaning and stroking and close enough to touch - in fact, touching is definitely encouraged!
It’s a total turn-on
One of the things that sets masturbation and sex apart is that masturbation is generally a very private act. The fact that your partner is giving you a front row seat to such an intimate experience - and vice versa - is extremely hot. It gives you a voyeuristic rush, like you are witnessing something that no other person gets to see.
There is something undeniably arousing about seeing a woman take her pleasure into her own hands. For men, bringing your female partner to orgasm is like rebuilding a car engine. It requires dedication, finesse, and perfect technique. When a woman can put the puzzle together in half the time, it shows that she is confident, comfortable with her own sexuality and knows what she is doing under the hood.
You will learn something
Once your partner gets into it, you may be tempted to pull out a bucket of popcorn and an ICEE and enjoy the show. But instead of sitting there slack-jawed while she hits all her hot buttons, take copious mental notes. Why? Because no one know how to pleasure your partner better than she does!
Unfortunately, new lovers do not come with an instruction manual. Every person likes different things below the belt, and the best way to discover the RIGHT way to touch somebody is to let them show you how they like to be touched. Take note of the way she strokes herself and how her body responds to each new movement. Does she go fast or slow? What kind of pressure is she using? The more you pick up from her self-loving practices, the better lover you’ll be!
Now that you’ve got the “why” down, let’s talk about the “how”. As tempting as it might be to invite yourself into her next solo session, it’s safer to introduce the subject ahead of time. Keep in mind that some women might feel uncomfortable at first.. Let her know how sexy you think it would be, and assure her that you will take it as slow as she needs.
To set the mood and help her relax, try lighting some candles (aromatherapy massage candles, anyone?) and turning on a sensual playlist. Sit facing your partner, either on a couch or the bed, and take turns playing with yourself while the other watches. If she feels uncomfortable being face-to-face, you can always sit behind her and have her lean back against you while she masturbates. If she’s okay with it, try running your hands all over her body, kissing her neck and engaging other hot spots while she does her thing.
Once you’re both feeling warmed up and comfortable, turn your solos into a duet. As you get closer and closer to the edge, hold eye contact and mimic each other’s rhythms to bring yourselves to orgasm, simultaneously! Then all that’s left to do is snuggle close and share the intimate moment together.
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8 Things You Didn't Know About Your Penis
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Posted:May 2, 2015 5:48 pm
Last Updated:May 4, 2015 7:37 pm
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1. Use It or Lose It
You need to have erections regularly to keep your penis in shape. "It has to be essentially exercised," says Tobias Kohler, MD, assistant professor of urology at Southern Illinois University School of Medicine.
To maintain a healthy tone, the smooth muscle of the penis must be periodically enriched with oxygen by the rush of blood that engorges the penis and makes it erect, Kohler says.
2. Your Penis May Be a 'Grower' or a 'Show-er'
Among men, there is no consistent relationship between the size of the flaccid penis and its full erect length.
In one study of 80 men, researchers found that increases from flaccid to erect lengths ranged widely, from less than a quarter-inch to 3.5 inches longer.
3. The Pleasure Zone
Many men consider the underside of the glans (head) of the penis and the underside of the shaft to be most sensitive to sexual pleasure.
Researchers asked 81 healthy men to rate the erotic sensitivity of different areas of their bodies, including not only the penis but also zones such as the scrotum, anus, nipples, and neck.
4. Sensitivity Declines With Age
Studies show that the penis steadily loses sensitivity as men age though it's hard to say exactly by how much. That's because different researchers have used different ways to stimulate the penis and measure sensitivity.
In general, the sensitivity of the penis is gauged by the least amount of stimulation a man is able to feel. That is called the "sensory threshold."
5. Vibrators Work on the Penis Too
Vibrators aren't only for women. They work on the penis, too. In fact, vibration is so effective on the penis that often men with spinal cord injuries can ejaculate with the aid of a special medical vibrator. For this kind of treatment, the vibrator is usually held against the underside of the head of the penis.
6. There's More to the Penis Than Meets the Eye
"Most guys would be proud to know that their penis is twice as long as they think it is," Kohler says.
That's because half the length of the penis is inside your body. Just like you don't see all of a big oak tree above ground, you don't see the root of your penis tucked up inside your pelvis and attached to your pubic bone.
7. Your Penis Is a Habitat
The skin of your penis is home to a diverse community of bacteria.
Lance Price, PhD, and Cindy Liu, PhD, researchers at the Translational Genomics Research Institute, in Flagstaff, Ariz., used genetic tests to identify the bacteria found on men's penises. Their study showed there were a total of 42 unique kinds of bacteria inhabiting the skin of the penis.
8. Most Men Aren't Circumcised
Worldwide, approximately 30% of males aged 15 and older are circumcised, according to a 2007 report from the World Health Organization (WH and UNAIDS.
Rates vary greatly depending upon religion and nationality, the report states. Almost all Jewish and Muslim males in the world have circumcised penises, and together they account for almost 70% of all circumcised males globally.
Some research shows that there may be health benefits from circumcision. For instance, circumcised men may be less likely to pass sexually transmitted diseases to their female partners or to develop penile cancer.
A 2012 policy statement by the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) affirms, “Evaluation of current evidence indicates that the health benefits of newborn male circumcision outweigh the risks and that the procedure’s benefits justify access to this procedure for families who choose it. Specific benefits identified included prevention of urinary tract infections, penile cancer, and transmission of some sexually transmitted infections, including HIV.” This statement has also been endorsed by the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists.
In recent years, several studies have shown that circumcised men are less likely to be infected with HIV. The WHO and UNAIDS now recommend male circumcision as an HIV prevention measure. "There is compelling evidence that male circumcision reduces the risk of heterosexually acquired HIV infection in men by approximately 60%," the WHO states.
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Things She's Hoping You'll Do Tonight
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Posted:Mar 23, 2015 7:35 pm
Last Updated:Apr 4, 2015 12:47 pm
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If you really want to wow your girlfriend with your tongue, take some tips. With a little help and the dedication to really get it right down there, you can master giving female head in just a few nights. (Though, if done correctly, chances are, she might beg for it every single time you do the deed.)
1- First things first - remember that your face down there, is a lot to handle. Many women view oral sex as even more intimate than vaginal sex. You’re putting your face down there.
2- While you’re finding your way around, They’re thinking all sorts of things: “Does it smell? Does it taste bad? Is he comfortable?!” We try to relax, but it’s hard.
3- Some women may feel bad asking for oral sex - even when they are craving it. A way to convince her that you like going down? Moan! “Women use many senses while having sex,”
4- Don't completely suck. When you’re doing the deed, remember that the clitoris is not a lollipop.
5- Instead of sucking.... think about it giving her a massage with your tongue. “Eat her like you are sucking on a mango,” Think of it more as a meal you’re devouring and less about cleaning your plate.
6- Delicate fingertips. While fingers are important - pounding away won’t do anyone good. “Slowly massage inside of her. Maybe even use your thumb to massage her clit when your tongue needs a break. If she asks for more, give it, but let her control the speed, intensity and pressure.”
7. Prequel, main event and sequel. Also, don’t think of oral sex as just a build-up. Go down on her when you’re changing positions or when you feel the urge to get her wetter. You’ll love to hear her go crazy.
8- Neat freaks need not apply. And guys, it’s going to get messy. Embrace it.
9- Keep calm and carry on. Just like it sometimes takes time for you to finish when they go down on you, it might take longer than a hot minute to get them off. Don’t rush them and be patient. It’ll likely take them a while to get ready in the first place. Keep the environment sexy and relaxed, have a willing mouth and make sure she is calm, physically and emotionally. 
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'O to Cunnilingus
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Posted:Feb 23, 2015 4:45 pm
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 4:58 am
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Roses are red
Slaves submit.
Let me touch these big tits,
Let me kiss this sexy mouth.
Gently going, going south.
Cherries are red
Lemons are sour.
Open your legs and give me an hour.
Tongues are red
Grass is greener
When i think of you,
I touch my weiner
Strawberries are red
nipples are tender.
Bring your friend
To both I surrend.
Three minds will bend.
Traditions - no way!
So add toys to the fray,
We can romp & play,
T'il the end of the day.
Fire is red
pickles are green.
I like your legs
and the bits in-between.
Cinnamon is red,
They make me sneeze.
Now unzip your pants,
And I'll get on my knees
Clitoris is red
We should have some fun.
I wanna get you in bed
And make you cum(repeatedly).
Mars is red
watches are gold.
I'll get on my knees
and do what I'm told.
Rubies are red
The sky is blue.
Your not here and now my nuts are too.
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Date ideas that don't have to result in sex, but justa good time
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Posted:Feb 17, 2015 4:38 pm
Last Updated:Feb 20, 2015 10:20 pm
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1. Go on your first date… again. Couples that reenact their first date with as much detail as possible bring back the same sweet (or smokin' feelings they had at the beginning of their relationship.
2. Get a little handsy. No smooching over the appetizer required—experts say a little hand-holding or a hug as you walk in the door releases oxytocin into your system. (Oxytocin are good things)
3. Take two, and we'll see you in the morning. If you're feeling like your relationship is tipping from comfy to too comfortable, Just throw a few low-key date-night ideas into a jar whenever you come up with them. Should a few free hours present themselves, pick two and just do them, no overthinking! Sometimes a random night of takeout Chinese and a round of mini golf is just what a marriage needs.
4. Watch and learn. Dinner and a movie is a great date, especially if you time it right. Having dinner after the movie means you're guaranteed more exciting conversation topics than and bills. Plus, experts say that when couples discuss what they loved and hated about movies they saw together, they get more in tune with each other.
5. Go low-tech. The biggest date-night ruiner: distraction. Studies say our phones are sapping the spark out of one-on-one time. Turn them off.
6. Make it a double. The most counterintuitive thing your couple time needs: more people. Invite friends along on your date. By maintaining friendships with other couples solidifies your relationship with your partner and intensifies your attraction to each other.
7. Make them blush. Give your partner a sweet compliment. "Focusing on the positive immediately strengthens the relationship. 
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Not everything is about sex. Helping her with a unconfortable PERIOD
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Posted:Feb 16, 2015 1:00 pm
Last Updated:Feb 16, 2015 1:03 pm
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Even the most beautiful, strong, and powerful women can use help during her period. Maybe the reason she is testy is because we ignore or hide during this time. Here are some helpful and loving tips to make this period of possible thunder and lighting move more smoothly.
Exercise
Besides watching what you eat there are certain exercises you can do to make your period a less detestable experience. Swimming is one option. The motion of swim will help stretch your abdomin muscles enough to help curb cramps and improve blood flow in the pelvic area. Yoga is another from of exercise that will give these results.
Bring on the heat
Don't underestimate the power of a heating pad. When you're lying on the couch, watching your favorite show and groaning about your cramps, a simple plug into the wall provide the relief you need.
Foot-rub
The feet have pressure points for every part of the body. A simple search on the internet will give you a chart that will show where to concentrate your actions.
7 tasks TO AVOID ON YOUR PERIOD
If there's one week you shouldn't veer off your diet, it's the week your period pays a visit. By making a few simple diet choices you can cure your cramps, put and end to bloating and alleviate all the discomfort that comes with your cycle. If you want to go about your week as a free women, then avoid these tasks.
Salty snacking
Sodium seems to be more present than ever in our diets. All the processed foods in our supermarkets today contain high levels of sodium that can make it hard for a gal to keep the bloating to a minimum during her period. While you don't have to avoid you're favorite salty snacks, if you're prone to bloating it's probably smart to steer clear.
Saturated fat intake
Though gals are underated for loving a good steak, red meat contains high levels of saturated fat which will increase the estrogen levels that bring on the symptoms of PMS. Therefore, feel free to indulge any week besides the one of your period.
Disgesting dairy
While calcium is great for alleviating the pains of menstruation, dairy is not so much a cure. Many dairy products, contain higher levels of saturated fat and arachidonic acids which increase your body's procution of prostaglandins. In english, you'll be more prone to painful cramps if you indulge in dairy during your period. Seek calcium elsewhere.
Skimping on fiber comsuption
If you're body isn't getting enough fiber during and before your period, you run the risk of abmoral disgestion rates. Beans are a good source of the extra fiber you need but if your worried about them giving you extra gas, try taking vitamins that promote healthy digestion. Beano is one digestive enzymne that can work to your benefit.
Protesting green
You may not be one to recycle, but eating green veggies during your period is one green movement you shouldn't avoid. They're a great source of calcium and will reduce muscle spasms that lead to painful curl-up-in-a-ball cramps. If you go for the dark green vegetables like kale and spinach, you'll prevent excess bleeding by giving your body a dose of vitamin K.
Giving up chocolate
That's right, you should avoid giving up chocolate. As long as you choose a choclate bar with atleast sixty percent cacao, chocolate will help curb your cravings and boost your seratonin levels. Therefore, you'll be more likely keep high spirits during your period. A peice a day keeps the mood swings away.
Dehydration
If you avoid drinking water during your period beacause you think it causes bloating, we're about to bust your myth. Drinking water will actually decrease your chances of water retention which makes cramps all the more painful and causes bloating. So, keep the water flowing (no pun intented).
And the most important thing is do something she wants. If she is miserable, then go fluff up the pillows on the couch, lay out the heating pad, pop in the Notebook or whatever is her favorite movie, and rub her feet throughout. You would not believe how much this will help, and these good deeds will not go unnoticed.
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How To Give Your lady The SQUIRTING Orgasm Of Her Life!
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Posted:Feb 15, 2015 3:00 pm
Last Updated:Feb 16, 2015 2:41 pm
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Squirting can be extremely hot and surprising if it has never done it before. If she has never squirted before, you could be the greatest lover she has ever been with by employing a few simple techniques. Making your girlfriend or wife squirt is not all that difficult when you understand the physiology of how it is actually performed.
A common misconception is that women who have never squirted before are unable to. This is simply not true. Unless there is an anatomical problem or sexual dysfunction, all women can squirt. Here is a quick guide to squirting so your wife or girlfriend can experience the orgasm of her life.
What Is It?
When most men think about squirting, they think that the girl is urinating. This is not true. Although squirting is a clear liquid, it is not urine. It does come out of the urethra and not the G-spot, but the liquid has no affiliation with pee. Before you try to make your girl squirt, there are a few things that you need to be comfortable with.
When a girl is squirting, there is a slight chance that she could pee. Being comfortable with this is essential. Don’t freak out on her if she does pee a little bit. This is fairly normal for girls who have never ejaculated before. Make sure that she knows you are okay with her peeing if this occurs. If she is nervous she will not be able to relax and she will not be able to squirt.
Getting Her Ready
Before you ever try to make your girl squirt, you need to make sure that she is warmed up. In order to put your girl at ease and get her in the mood, you must start off with a lot of foreplay. Shoving your fingers into your girl without getting her ready is never recommended.
Use a lot of kissing and teasing to get your girl wet enough to start fingering her. Suck on her breasts and nipples while running your fingertips up and down her inner thigh. When she starts to breathe harder you will be able to tell that she’s ready for you to start touching her vagina. Again, don’t go straight for the inside of her vagina. Play with her clitoris a little bit and brush the outer lips with your fingers to get her ready.
The G-Spot
The G-spot is going to be the primary way of getting your girl to start squirting. There are a lot of women out there that are so in tune with their bodies that they can ejaculate by just touching their breasts or their clitoris. However, most women will not be able to ejaculate unless they are being stimulated manually through their G-spot.
If you have problems finding the G-spot, there is a simple guide you can follow. Insert your fingers into your woman’s vagina palm-face up. The G-spot is located on the upper-most portion of the vagina about three inches in. The G-spot is a very fleshy textured patch and you should be able to feel it with your fingers. As soon as you touch it you should see your girlfriend squirm a bit. Search the net. their are only about a billion diagrams of it. Plus its fun to play hide and seek until you find it.
Making Her Squirt
Now that you successfully found her G-spot it’s time to start making her squirt. Start to curl your fingers as if you are saying “come here.” She should moan in delight. If you start to feel the G-spot fill up and get solid, you’re doing it right. Increase the pressure to her G-spot and start going a little faster.
Take your other hand and press down on the area around her stomach and pubic bone. This will give more pressure to the area and add to her arousal. Take direction from her. If she says go faster, then go faster. If says that she feels like she’s going to pee, tell her that it’s okay and to let go. Within a couple of minutes she should start to ejaculate. You might see a small gush of liquid from her vagina or a stream of liquid.
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Disclaimer: Be careful if your licking the clit while doing this. She may accidently break your nose while grinding you. BE WARNED.
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The average size of an erect penis at 14?
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Posted:Feb 5, 2015 12:50 pm
Last Updated:Feb 16, 2015 12:38 pm
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A new study conducted by sexuality researchers (try breaking that career choice to your parents) from Indiana University claims to have definitively determined the average size of an erect penis at 14.15 centimeters, or 5.57 inches, for those of you who think the metric system is the work of the devil.
But the surprising conclusion these researchers drew was not the number itself — estimates on average penis length have always rested in the 5.5 to 6-inch range — but what their results say about the men who self-assess: It turns out we're surprisingly honest when it comes to measuring our members. Needless to say, this doesn't mean you should take your mate's word for it when he brags about the baseball bat between his thighs, but these findings undermine the long-held belief that men cannot be trusted to accurately report on the size of their penis.
Of course, these findings probably won't diminish our obsession with our penises or our concerns about getting bigger down there, or whether or not our size matters, but good, hard data (sorry — couldn't resist) is hard to come by (sorry again). If you find yourself on the larger side of average, give yourself a pat on the back, but don't get complacent: Your size isn't any guarantee of your skills in the sack. And if you're disappointed in how you measure up, get some honest advice on penis enlargement before you shell out hard-earned money on snake oils and shady products.
If we men took the time we waste on fretting and fixating on whether our penises are large enough and applied that to learning how to better use the penises we have, we would be making many more women much more satisfied in bed. While penis size is important for bragging rights, skill is ultimately more important.
This isn't really a "new" study. It's been studied time and time again, but every time someone researches it anew, everyone thinks it's a new study. Basically, women (of primitive times) started choosing men with longer penises because of the fact that a longer penis means more chance at pregnancy, not that it feels any better than an average or even smaller one. Having "a big dick" was brought on in young men as a 'status' symbol. Guys who may (or may not) have a couple inches over another think that they're more manly and can please women better. The truth is that these guys have more chance at getting a girl "knocked up" than producing more orgasms than anyone else. A girl may think that the sex feels better because she feels 'stretched', but again, it's all just a status symbol that's been bored into men and women's heads... mostly by bad porn, but also through the "studs" who spread around rumors about how great the sex was because their supposed size. Both young guys and girls, these days, find it easier to follow the herder than use their own minds.
Ron Jeremy or some other surgical/medicated enhanced stud(?)has more chance of tearing your flesh, causing you long term pain and (in your own head) "ruining" you for other men than giving you more pleasure than your bf with the 4.7" penis. Wake up, people. Stop being led by your crotch and listen to your own intelligence.
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Unleash Her Wild Side
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Posted:Feb 2, 2015 6:16 pm
Last Updated:Feb 16, 2015 12:39 pm
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There are a lot of reasons why it is in your best interest to unleash the passionate and erotic wild side of your mate. The first and foremost is obviously that you both get hotter sex. You might have seen this side of her before and it faded, or perhaps you have no idea what she is capable of. Either way, here you’ll find some ways to help get her groove on.
Buy her a costume
The bottom line with this trick is that if you buy her a costume, she is obliged to put it on at least once and saunter around like a goddess. If you choose well, you may get more mileage out of it on special occasions. Do some discreet research and then go shopping. Beware of scrimping; those $30 outfits on the internet may look hot on the perfectly proportioned lingerie model, but "one size fits all" actually means "this will probably look stupid on your girlfriend." Check her lingerie tags for top and bottom sizes, and if she chops them off, ask someone reliable what they think. If it is more of a small, medium or large issue, it’s a bit easier — check her clothing tags. Some popular outfits include the good old risqué clichés: nurses, maids, corsets, and dominatrix styles. Choose something that is stylish, sexy, well-crafted, and is going to fit her properly, not accentuating areas she would rather hide. Stockings, suspenders and corsets all have good coverage and still have great sex appeal.
Challenge her with erotic dares
Is she a sucker for a challenge? Get her competitive streak working for you by suggesting erotic dares, such as stripping, dancing, or being a shameless exhibitionist. The thrill of breaking her own boundaries will excite her and leave you both breathless. It’s moments like these that stick in your mind and provide great fantasy fodder for later, plus a few good laughs at your audacity. Sexual antics in a public place or games at home can be excellent fun and really spice up your sex life.
Tease her over a prolonged period
The problem with men and women is that men generally want far more sex than women, so a woman can safely assume that whenever she wants it, he will be keen. This means that it is often the men who initiate sex simply because women don’t get a chance to or because they know that they don’t have to because you will. To reverse this on her, withhold sex for a bit and tease her mercilessly. Get her sexual mind active again, and she’ll be all over you like a rash in no time. There’s nothing like a bit of carefully plotted reverse psychology to get her all hot and bothered. Tease her with touches (but stop there), sexy love letters or e-mails, erotic gifts, and of course, sensual words in her ear telling her what you would like to do to her. You will need to exercise some self-control here, but it will be worth it. Try a period of a week, and be crafty in your seduction.
Take command
Be bold, not demanding. Taking the initiative a step further, you can almost dare her to match you, say, in a public place — tit for tat, so to speak. Taking dirty commands is a turn-on simply because it can come out of the blue and be spontaneous. She might find she quite likes it and command you back. One thing leads to another and before you know it, she’s commanding you all over the place. And you love it because she’s doing the deed and telling you what she wants.
Bring a camera
Cameras are always risky business but can be a great deal of fun (not to mention the future supply of fantasy materials they provide). Trust is essential. It has to be clear that nothing will happen to the photographs or videos — they’re strictly for personal use only (unless otherwise agreed, of course). Watching the action through a digital screen while you’re doing it is fun because you get vantage points you didn’t have before, especially of her. She can’t see what you can; in fact, at any given moment she can’t see much unless she folds over. Giving her a real taste of what she looks like from behind, or even while she is on top, can be very erotic and dare I say, interesting.
Get her to let loose
Women can be very shy about behaving in a lascivious manner. She might feel like a fraud or feel silly. Luckily, these things can be overcome reasonably easily. Being a sex goddess doesn’t come naturally to many women, for whatever reason. The key to charging her with electric sexuality is to make her feel very comfortable, desired and safe. Don’t ever laugh at her attempts because you can guarantee it will be her last if you do. Genuinely compliment her on what she does well, and even if it means overexaggerating at first, don’t let there be a gap where she can think “Am I doing this right?” because you can bet that if she has the time of think that, she’ll be thinking it.
Getting women to shed their inhibitions and get right into the filth can be hard, but it can also be incredibly easy; with the right situation anything is possible. On some occasions, make her feel comfortable so she can open up, and at others, surprise her with something raunchy and you may be pleasantly shocked at the results, as may she. Be very aware of boundaries — hers and your own — at all times, and if things become uncomfortable for either of you, stop. Make chatting about what you both like and want out of your sex life a regular thing and magic shall unfold. Just remember that if things aren’t going your way, couples who communicate well have more and better sex.
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Study Says Most Women Are Bisexual
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Posted:Feb 1, 2015 5:56 am
Last Updated:Feb 16, 2015 12:39 pm
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A new study reveals that women's sexual preferences tend to be a gray area (yep, identity confusion wasn't just for those college dorm days). In fact, researchers at Boise State University found that in a group of heterosexual women, 60 percent were sexually attracted to other women, 45 percent had kissed a woman, and 50 percent had fantasies about the same sex.
When otherwise heterosexual women fall for other women, emotional connection is usually at the core. Does that make them bisexual? Not exactly.
You can still be heterosexual and have interests, experiences or fantasies with the same sex, Neuroscientist Ogi Ogas, Ph.D., analyzed more than a billion web searches, half a billion search histories and millions of erotic websites and e-books, and found that women are just as likely to search for "sexy pictures of Ryan Gosling" as "sexy pictures of Jessica Alba." How about that.
In addition, sexuality gets more, not less, fluid as time goes on — yet more proof that experimentation isn't just for college. The older a woman was, the more likely she was to choose "unlabeled" as her sexuality. We have this idea that sexuality gets clearer and more defined as time goes on. We consider that a sign of maturity to figure out who you are. I've seen it's really the opposite. The thinking is female sexuality has more shades of grey than male sexuality. A lot of women are curious, some will give it a go, some are bi, some are gay and some find the idea of women repulsive.
What do you think about this study? Have you ever been attracted to another woman?
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Trust
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Posted:Jan 27, 2015 7:18 pm
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 4:58 am
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Trust. To many, it is the difference between an enemy and a good friend. But like everything else nowadays, the word is overused, misunderstood and abused to the point that it is almost worthless. Trust has become this random thing; sometimes you do, sometimes you don't.
By definition, trust means you are entrusting someone with a secret, a favor, a wish, a job, etc. Basically, you are giving up a little piece of yourself, a part of the control you have over your life, because when someone gets in that "circle of trust," they're also in a position to hurt you. They can expose you, or use that trust to rob, blackmail, con, or even clip you. So why would you be stupid enough to trust anyone to the point where their betrayal can cause some serious damage?
What's this system of trust? In a nutshell, it means that everyone you meet gets zero trust. Only over time — in relation to how much of a stand-up guy he is to you, his actions, his loyalty, and his reputation — does that trust build up from 0 to 100%
So, when you meet someone new, they get zero trust. Why? To me, it's pretty obvious, but obviously at those fancy-pancy business schools of yours, they didn't teach you these things. Someone you just met has no reason, good or bad, to give a damn about you. They are indifferent to who and what you are, so they'll just as easily pat you on the back as they would spit on your grave.
Given the way human nature is, people are usually selfish and greedy, so, more likely than not, someone you don't know will screw you, so you don't have a single reason in the world to entrust them with anything. Therefore, they get zero trust.
Remember; not trusting someone doesn't necessarily mean you disrespect them. Don't treat someone like crap just because you have no use for them. The world is smaller than you think; you'll never know when that lack of goodwill will come back to bite you where the sun don't shine. Don't be rude and impolite to people who aren't those things to you, regardless if you plan on entrusting them at the present or a future date. The flipside is you can also respect someone without trusting them.
So how does someone move up the trust ladder? By proving themselves dependable and loyal through different things life presents to them that involves your personal well-being. Another way? By being your partner. When you and someone else are involved in something specific together, a natural "shutting up" clause goes into effect, and the desire to stay out of the bighouse will build up a bond between the two of you because of a shared and equally secret.
So now you know the basics of how much trust to give to different people. Now comes the hard part: maintaining it. Like every damn thing in life, it's not getting to the top that's tough; it's staying there. The same applies to trust; it takes a lifetime to build and a few seconds to lose. Never let someone get away with letting you down, and never let anyone down; you will destroy your trustworthiness, your reputation and many things you've worked hard to build. It can take 1,000 good deeds to prove the worth of a man, but one mistake to vilify him for life.
Learn from others’ mistakes, not from their own. But anyone who has lived beyond the age of 40 can assure you of one thing: Mistakes will be made no matter what your intentions, just like history will repeat itself. Therefore, knowing that life will never be perfect, you should swallow the lesson of what it feels like to lose someone's trust and don't do it again. 
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To Communicate With Women
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Posted:Jan 27, 2015 6:20 am
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2024 4:58 am
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The relative success of every relationship you maintain in life is built and hinges on communication. It is the foundation and bedrock of your bond with other people. Communication: Can it get any more basic than that?
Make time. That's right; make time. Why the blank stare? You set aside time to watch sports, eat and have sex, don't you? Why should communication with your woman be any different? You have to block off an hour or two for quality time with her, whenever possible. Prioritize it. Make the effort to sit down across from her after a long day to discuss work, friends and your relationship. Heck, you can talk about the weather for all I care. Just talk.
Don't force the topic toward the relationship but do seize the opportunity to mention how well things are going or perhaps bring up areas you need to improve on to give her what she needs. In addition, don't shy away from explaining to her what you need from her. Too many men have a problem with this.
Take the time as you sit together, cook together, travel together, or eat together to voice your dissatisfaction with certain aspects of the relationship. Just do it in a calm fashion, so as not to alarm her. Reassure her that you're happy (if that is the case) with the overall relationship; you just want one or two things to change. Whatever you want to discuss, just make the time for it and make it a joint effort.
Be an active listener. So toss your ego aside and let her speak. And above all else, let her have the last word once in a while.
Focus on her nonverbal communication. Hey, I'm no angel but when my woman is sad, upset, or angry, an alarm in my head goes off immediately. I just know . Maybe her body language is less subtle than other women, but still, an instinct in me is set off and I quickly attempt to douse the fire. If you're not as quick to respond, you're either a jerk who doesn't care and does it on purpose, or oblivious to the nuances of nonverbal communication.
Let her know you care
This is where men get bit in the behind. Our competitive nature compels us to try to win every fight, to the point where we forget the one simple tenet about relationship conflict: There is no winner. It's time to stop thinking of every fight as a chance to get the upper hand and use rhetoric until she admits you're right. That's not the end goal you should want in the long run. Because if it is, your woman is going to resent you before long. Not good. Which brings me to my point: Let her know, no matter how bad, how intense and how passionate the fight, that you care. Amidst all your rage and even when tempers flare, take a deep breath and do something to let her know that when all is said and done, you love her.
Although I doubt this will rectify your communication problems completely, I hope it will lead to a greater understanding of your significant other, yourself and what both of you need in order to better listen to each other.
Remember that communication is a two-way street: It requires the proper delivery of a message, as well as an active listener to process it. If you keep that in mind and do so with compassion, sensitivity and hold that ego at bay, you should come out a winner
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Tips To Make Her Orgasm
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Posted:Jan 26, 2015 6:29 am
Last Updated:Feb 7, 2015 6:35 pm
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I know we're all looking for guaranteed methods that will make any woman you decide to woo orgasm, but that's not going to happen because all women are different and need different stimulation in order to get off.
Now don't let your ego cloud your brain; if she doesn't reach orgasm, that doesn't mean you're a horrible lover. It just means that you might have to try different methods to get to the big O.
And guys, don't pressure her and make her feel like she's letting you down if she doesn't orgasm every time you make love. Some days are better than others, so go with the flow and have yourself a good time. Otherwise she'll start faking it to please you and nobody wants that.
If she's comfortable with you, then that's a step in the right direction. If she's cool with walking around naked in front of you and discussing sex and what she likes, then orgasm is just a clitoral rub away. Seduction her brain is 90% of the work
Her brain is the focal point of her orgasm. If she is able to let go and embrace total abandon with you, then she can most definitely reach those heights of pleasure you're hoping for. And hey, it wouldn't hurt if you were physically fit, either.
If you have never discussed sex with her, now's the time to do so. Discuss what you enjoy doing to each other, what stimulates you, what you fantasize about.
And if she seems to back out of the room slowly after you make love, she's probably not feeling very secure about her body. Compliment parts of her body so that she knows you think she's hot.
When was the last time you called her up in the middle of the day to tell her that you can't wait to get home and lick her muffin? Well, start doing it. Her anticipation alone will make your touch feel that much more exaggerated.
Start seducing her without having to make love to her all the time. Anticipation can be one of the greatest aphrodisiacs. Grab her and give her a deep kiss for no reason. Talk about what you plan to do to her sexually when you take her out for dinner. These little things will keep her mind working when you're finally penetrating.
Of course, if you couple this with some physical magic, she'll be screaming out your name in delight in no time
There are a whole lot of ways to bring your woman to indescribable heights of pleasure, but if you use "combination-elation" on her body, her chances of reaching such heights will increase tenfold.
Okay, this act might not serve to give her an orgasm directly, but her body will become more in tune and her excitement will hone her sexual senses, leading to bigger and better things.
Kiss her mouth softly, using your tongue to massage her lips and tongue. While you're doing that, use your hands to softly but firmly grasp her body and rub everything from her legs to her neck.
Purposely avoid touching her breasts and vagina because that's what she's expecting you to do. This will, in turn, serve to make her feel incredible when you do finally decide to touch her there, and there...
To start, if your woman doesn't have sensitive nipples, then this probably won't work well for her. But if she does, then let's get started.
My woman loves it when I put her on top of me, suck one nipple, lightly pinch the other, and use the fingers on my other hand to stimulate her clitoris and vagina periodically. Go slowly, there's no need for speed, unless of course she starts begging you to go faster.
Get your head down to the area she loves having your mouth at, and start your tongue tricks. Lick around the entire scope of the vagina from the clitoris down to her perineum. When she's wet all over, insert two fingers into her vagina — palm facing up — and make a "come hither" or a "no-no" motion. At the same time, stimulate her clitoris with your tongue. This way, you're stimulating both her clitoris and her G-spot. If she begins to moan and groan, keep the same pace, don't go faster.
BOOM... You should be at orgasm town. Stand in the sun of her orgasm, and absorb all the brightness of pleasure.
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