This week's award for most irritating ice breaker message goes to....  

secret_lade 47F
11588 posts
6/12/2021 5:27 pm
This week's award for most irritating ice breaker message goes to....


This guy.

What's up with the feet photos? I mean, why not. If a boob pic is required then one might question the the integrity of the respondent.
6//2021 1:07 pm


What the fuck does that even mean?

I continue to remain discouraged with just about everything in regard to the quality of men in my local area.

not really asking for a whole lot... Smart, funny, gainfully employed.

This is proving to be an impossible find.

hippiechick1967 57F
13014 posts
6/18/2021 6:22 pm

    Quoting upsidedownsky:
    I understand the voice to text app causes strange grammatical problems. I do not know if this can account for a lot of these things though...

    I do feel confident that you should be able to find someone with the qualities you are looking for. Just remember "the rain dance works because they do not stop dancing until it rains". (please do not laugh in my face over that).

    I do admire you for wanting things because sometimes that is a courageous act.
"the rain dance works because they do not stop dancing until it rains"

Can you explain? Are you saying not to settle?

Elevate me...


secret_lade 47F
7583 posts
6/15/2021 4:13 pm

    Quoting 69ereatwetpussy:
    It leave it to my imagination of what the rest will look like
    feet are sexy if they are good looking
    you would not like to see mine lolol
    Feet need living to
    Foot rubs to start with
    could lead up to better places
    If you with the right person or in the mood.
    It's your profile picture you get to choose.
    I chosen mine have not changed it.
I do love foot rubs.


secret_lade 47F
7583 posts
6/15/2021 4:13 pm

    Quoting Blueyedguy823:
    At the risk of sounding creepy, I like you foot photos.
Well thank you. I always like them too. Even my old profile had a feet pic for the profile pic.


69ereatwetpussy 59M
5405 posts
6/15/2021 9:47 am

It leave it to my imagination of what the rest will look like
feet are sexy if they are good looking
you would not like to see mine lolol
Feet need living to
Foot rubs to start with
could lead up to better places
If you with the right person or in the mood.
It's your profile picture you get to choose.
I chosen mine have not changed it.


Blueyedguy823 54M  
860 posts
6/15/2021 8:45 am

At the risk of sounding creepy, I like you foot photos.


secret_lade 47F
7583 posts
6/14/2021 3:48 am

    Quoting mc_justmc:
    feet make a good profile pic, in my opinion.
I agree!!


mc_justmc 61M  
6669 posts
6/13/2021 6:46 pm

feet make a good profile pic, in my opinion.


secret_lade 47F
7583 posts
6/13/2021 4:36 am

    Quoting benard69:
    Well one thing for sure...You can scratch Foot Fetish off his Resume....
That's for sure! LOL


secret_lade 47F
7583 posts
6/13/2021 4:35 am

    Quoting japaneseass:
    LOL.....oh my gawd....but yah....oh kaaayyyyy....lol...i don't know i kinda like him??? should i contact him??? lol...
He's all yours if you'd like to talk to him! LOL


secret_lade 47F
7583 posts
6/13/2021 4:34 am

    Quoting Granny872:
    Smart, funny, gainfully employed.

    Seems like a mighty tall order to fill, lol.
Oh, it certainly has been a tall order! LOL


secret_lade 47F
7583 posts
6/13/2021 4:33 am

    Quoting Brownie202:
    It's your profile. Your right to use what you want. I don't like naked pictures. They have every right to use them. I just refuse to talk with. That man could of just moved on to the next profile. So easy to do
I did respond back and tell him if he didn't like my profile pic, don't look at it. For me, I just prefer to keep my nudity between myself and the person I choose to share it with. If everyone under the sun can see you naked, it takes out the specialness of sharing it with another.


secret_lade 47F
7583 posts
6/13/2021 4:28 am

    Quoting Wat2dowithme:
    I'd rather look at your feet than ANY Dick Pic that's for DAMN sure!!! I understand your frustrations completely and I swear I am very tired of the pathetic people who don't understand how to just be DECENT when approaching someone. Please
Decency is definitely lost on a lot of people these days.... One of the main reasons I only frequent the blogs now.


secret_lade 47F
7583 posts
6/13/2021 4:16 am

    Quoting LadiesR2B1rst:
    I've had worse messages and sure you have too . I'm not sure where some people people were when manners were taught.
Yep, I've had much worse messages.... They forget that the recipient is still a person with thoughts and feelings, not just a disposable sex object to be tossed away once they've been used.


seems6666 50F
4581 posts
6/13/2021 4:13 am

    Quoting agedfun1:
    Does he not know the difference between feet, legs and crotch? Obviously it is a look by your pussy to see if anyone was on the way in to pleasure you.
What?! That's as nonsensical as the original message


secret_lade 47F
7583 posts
6/13/2021 4:12 am

    Quoting agedfun1:
    Does he not know the difference between feet, legs and crotch? Obviously it is a look by your pussy to see if anyone was on the way in to pleasure you.
Most of the people who message me are looking for immediate sexual gratification.... If you aren't showing your tits and ass, they want to know why the hell you're on a 'site like this'. It's a disappointing state of affairs.


secret_lade 47F
7583 posts
6/13/2021 4:09 am

    Quoting nsnguystill:
    Smart, funny, gainfully employed
    all that in one guy, or three different guys?
Yah.... Exactly! LOL


secret_lade 47F
7583 posts
6/13/2021 4:08 am

    Quoting upsidedownsky:
    I understand the voice to text app causes strange grammatical problems. I do not know if this can account for a lot of these things though...

    I do feel confident that you should be able to find someone with the qualities you are looking for. Just remember "the rain dance works because they do not stop dancing until it rains". (please do not laugh in my face over that).

    I do admire you for wanting things because sometimes that is a courageous act.
At this rate, I'll be rain dancing forever. You admire me for wanting things.... But, when you want things, the disappointment is felt even deeper when you can't fulfill those wants.


upsidedownsky 41M  
583 posts
6/13/2021 2:22 am

I understand the voice to text app causes strange grammatical problems. I do not know if this can account for a lot of these things though...

I do feel confident that you should be able to find someone with the qualities you are looking for. Just remember "the rain dance works because they do not stop dancing until it rains". (please do not laugh in my face over that).

I do admire you for wanting things because sometimes that is a courageous act.

*. *. *


nsnguystill 69M
262 posts
6/13/2021 1:57 am

Smart, funny, gainfully employed
all that in one guy, or three different guys?

there is a world of difference between insane and stupid


agedfun1 74M  
820 posts
6/12/2021 8:29 pm

Does he not know the difference between feet, legs and crotch? Obviously it is a look by your pussy to see if anyone was on the way in to pleasure you.

Equal opportunity chatter here. All topics fair game from A to Z. Private mailbox blog agedfun1.


LadiesR2B1rst 58M  
1496 posts
6/12/2021 7:51 pm

I've had worse messages and sure you have too . I'm not sure where some people people were when manners were taught.


Wat2dowithme 101F
29 posts
6/12/2021 7:40 pm

I'd rather look at your feet than ANY Dick Pic that's for DAMN sure!!! I understand your frustrations completely and I swear I am very tired of the pathetic people who don't understand how to just be DECENT when approaching someone. Please


topherific 58M
5020 posts
6/12/2021 7:09 pm


Brownie202 64F
2385 posts
6/12/2021 6:53 pm

It's your profile. Your right to use what you want. I don't like naked pictures. They have every right to use them. I just refuse to talk with. That man could of just moved on to the next profile. So easy to do

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


Granny872 68F  
3906 posts
6/12/2021 6:44 pm

Smart, funny, gainfully employed.

Seems like a mighty tall order to fill, lol.


japaneseass 53F
50178 posts
6/12/2021 6:35 pm

LOL.....oh my gawd....but yah....oh kaaayyyyy....lol...i don't know i kinda like him??? should i contact him??? lol...


benard69 63M/63F  
5986 posts
6/12/2021 6:32 pm

Well one thing for sure...You can scratch Foot Fetish off his Resume....


secret_lade 47F
7583 posts
6/12/2021 5:29 pm

This guy.

What's up with the feet photos? I mean, why not. If a boob pic is required then one might question the the integrity of the respondent.
6/12/2021 1:07 pm

What the fuck does that even mean?

I continue to remain discouraged with just about everything in regard to the quality of men in my local area.

I'm not really asking for a whole lot.... Smart, funny, gainfully employed.

This is proving to be an impossible find.


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