"I don't care anymore"!  

scoupe42 58M  
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5/29/2021 6:17 pm

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"I don't care anymore"!

Sometimes we had good intentions, we try to help but doe's it do any good? I try to give advice and I mentioned to people about being done wrong! In the end I was the Villian and it was "Drew said"! Nothing changed. They always go back and then someone want to kick my ass! I been called all kinds of "Motherfuckers'! I was also told. no matter what you say, she not going anywhere! At one time, I was going to get a cape and rescue Damsels in distress, but the bad guy always win! So why bother.

An ex-girlfriend, chatted with a guy in a chatroom. She sent for him not knowing anything about him. The 1st several months was OK, once he got a job and friends, he turn bad and got her evicted from several different apartments, she was 3 min from work and could walk, for she don't drive. He had women in their bed and was abusive and years later, she still with him. He was the punk who threaten to kick my ass. I recently did a blog called "Throwing the first stone", about a friend of mines in jail, and did a lot of wrong and his

wife has no clue. So I dropped a dime on his ass!!!! I exposed some of his dirt, for he did wrong for years. Last time I talk to her, she mentioned a Lawyer for him. This man cheated and now she knows. She don't talk to me anymore! Why bother? Another friend told me that she going to tell him "EVERYTHING", and ofcourse say, "Drew said". He said, "your friend going to be mad with you". For he going to deny "Everything"! I tired of being the barrier of bad News and I'm the Villian! tired. So today I'm Phil Collins!

still a blackman, not a bald white man. A bald blackman. But today Phil Collins, you say why? "I don't care anymore"! Let people do what they do. You try to help or give advice, they always go back, so "I don't care anymore"!!!!!!









scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
5/30/2021 5:37 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    You have to do what is right for you and walk away from situations that just aren't right. You did the right thing my friend, I hope your enjoying your Holiday weekend..
Hi Temp, always appreciate you! Have a good day tomorrow.


Tmptrzz 58F
99855 posts
5/30/2021 9:52 am

You have to do what is right for you and walk away from situations that just aren't right. You did the right thing my friend, I hope your enjoying your Holiday weekend..


scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
5/30/2021 6:56 am

    Quoting  :

He's a cool dude.


scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
5/30/2021 6:46 am

    Quoting nsnguystill:
    ain't that the way it always goes!
    when a couple is fighting, the motherfucker that tries to stop them, is the one that gets stabbed!
    don't care! keep smiling!
    let them wonder what the fuck you know...
Hmmmm, your so right! Thanks for viewing and stopping by


scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
5/30/2021 6:45 am

    Quoting positively4you:
    I would want to know and would appreciate being told. The old movie line “you cant handle the truth” applies to her. She is weak. No man is worth that pain to me.
So true my friend, no one should place someone about self! Thanks for comment and stopping by


scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
5/30/2021 6:43 am

    Quoting PonyGirl1965:
    Sometimes the truth hurts.
    I will take an honest man like you over all the lying assholes polluting our planet. I despise liars and cheats.
    Keep being honest.
    God can embrace your honesty.
    He cannot embrace their lying, cheating, thieving, drugging, abusing selves.
Hi my friend, honesty is still the best policy! But, if they don't listen, what's next?


scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
5/30/2021 6:41 am

    Quoting sweet0necter:
    I was really being a smart ass.. I do teach a BLS class so I took this opportunity to send a reminder. Breath in.. breath out.
My pretty, you got me! Hope you have an awesome day!


scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
5/30/2021 6:40 am

    Quoting author51:
    There are those whom need our help and make the choice to take it.Unfortunately others choose not to .It is those we have to let make the mistakes on their own and walk away from. Always be there to offer a hand, shoulder or ear, but make sure to take care of yourself first my friend..xoxo
My friend, thanks for the kind words and stopping by


scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
5/30/2021 6:39 am

    Quoting Tomgruber44aYHc:
    I will tell you how I live, If I wake in the morning, It’s a Great Day, but also it’s a good day to die (never know what might happen, or when it’s your time), I tell the truth if asked, I won’t say anything behind any one’s back, that I won’t say to their face, if I have nothing good to say, I won’t say it, unless asked, Most of all, I treat other’s as I would like to be treated.. & I have learned that you can not force or make anyone do anything that you do not control.. Believe in one’s own actions & self accountability & if anyone does not give me respect, or act with Honor, I won’t be around them, at all, You don’t have to like your family, but you never stop loving them, & family will alway’s fuck you worst than strangers will.. & last is I don’t Judge anyone, & I won’t be Judged & yes you get hurt sometimes, but you don’t try to hurt anyone intentionally, be laidback, relax & everything alway’s seem’s to work out the way it’s suppose too.., further I don’t care what anyone does, don’t judge, but I won’t allow them to force their ways, thoughts onto me, just won’t be around them if they try a second time..

    I live by a code of Honor, Trust, & Respect & I am then only accountable to myself..& whenever my time is up on this earth, I am cool with this & will see what comes next..
I like your code of ethics, your outlook on life and the way youapprocahing life! Thx for sharing, you always welcome to stop by!


scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
5/30/2021 6:36 am

    Quoting upsidedownsky:
    I was going to say. "No fucks given motherfuckers."

    but instead I will say "Sending you positive energy."
Thanks for the positive energy


nsnguystill 69M
262 posts
5/30/2021 3:22 am

ain't that the way it always goes!
when a couple is fighting, the motherfucker that tries to stop them, is the one that gets stabbed!
don't care! keep smiling!
let them wonder what the fuck you know...

there is a world of difference between insane and stupid


positively4you 71F  
4347 posts
5/30/2021 2:51 am

I would want to know and would appreciate being told. The old movie line “you cant handle the truth” applies to her. She is weak. No man is worth that pain to me.


PonyGirl1965 55F
17158 posts
5/30/2021 12:59 am

Sometimes the truth hurts.
I will take an honest man like you over all the lying assholes polluting our planet. I despise liars and cheats.
Keep being honest.
God can embrace your honesty.
He cannot embrace their lying, cheating, thieving, drugging, abusing selves.


sweet0necter 47F  
2047 posts
5/30/2021 12:09 am

    Quoting scoupe42:
    My friend, it wasn't a life or death situation. Just that my ex-girlfriend and a friend of mines wife was with a n good person. I told my ex that she should eave that loser, but she still with him and I have that friend who did his wife wrong for year and I let his wife know. Now I don't hear from her, she most likely go back to him, so my point, me trying to help, did it make a difference?????? I love your feedback, and my friend, I know your a good wman with a kind heart, glad you my friend.
I was really being a smart ass.. I do teach a BLS class so I took this opportunity to send a reminder. Breath in.. breath out.


author51 58F
119573 posts
5/29/2021 10:59 pm

There are those whom need our help and make the choice to take it.Unfortunately others choose not to .It is those we have to let make the mistakes on their own and walk away from. Always be there to offer a hand, shoulder or ear, but make sure to take care of yourself first my friend..xoxo


Tomgruber44aYHc 50M
19 posts
5/29/2021 10:58 pm

Now, Advice
If you want to help anyone, you can not help them until, they hit their bottom (whatever it maybe), everyone is different, but until they hit their bottom & begin acting on their own behalf, you are wasting your time & money, once they hit their bottom, begin acting on their own behalf, then you can help, but not do for them, no matter what their issues are, from relationship’s to addiction issues..

Now when it comes to women, they will accept a lot of shit, but they have a point of no return, that point can be anything, & it won’t make any sense to anyone but themselves, but once that point it hit, or crossed, you can not help them no matter what, once that point is hit or crossed, they will begin acting upon themselves & then you can help them from then on..
A woman’s point maybe, being hit, being hit in home ok, but in public is breaking point, or called every name, but if called a Cunt, Or being called that in public, (never know what their point is, because they don’t really or honestly know for sure themselves, until they know & feel it...
Personal knowledge gained from practicing Family Law for over 12 years & 90%+ women clients...


PornDokter 49M
13 posts
5/29/2021 10:34 pm

The hell are you even talking about? It's like you start talking in your blog like you picked up a book and started reading it from the 12th chapter. I have read four paragraphs of information and I have absolutely no clue whatsoever on any reasonable basis of understanding what on earth you are even talking about, referring to or describing to us all here....followed up by six more posted photos that only send me into a final tail spin. I mean no disrespect.

The only thing that I could actually comprehend and agree with, was in fact your heading "I don't care anymore!" and your very first sentence "Sometimes we had good intentions, we try to help but doe's it do any good?". That's the story of my life! As much good as I do for people, animals, the earth, philanthropy or advocating, it seems really discouraging that nobody in life gives a damn about everything. Worse yet, nobody has a will to listen, to learn or to follow in my footsteps. For every one good step and deed that I move humanity forward, 200 idiots do something counter productive and negative to that one same thing I do in a positive direction. Humans will eventually meet their own fate on this planet, due to their very ignorance, greed, selfishness and destruction.


Tomgruber44aYHc 50M
19 posts
5/29/2021 10:26 pm

I will tell you how I live, If I wake in the morning, It’s a Great Day, but also it’s a good day to die (never know what might happen, or when it’s your time), I tell the truth if asked, I won’t say anything behind any one’s back, that I won’t say to their face, if I have nothing good to say, I won’t say it, unless asked, Most of all, I treat other’s as I would like to be treated.. & I have learned that you can not force or make anyone do anything that you do not control.. Believe in one’s own actions & self accountability & if anyone does not give me respect, or act with Honor, I won’t be around them, at all, You don’t have to like your family, but you never stop loving them, & family will alway’s fuck you worst than strangers will.. & last is I don’t Judge anyone, & I won’t be Judged & yes you get hurt sometimes, but you don’t try to hurt anyone intentionally, be laidback, relax & everything alway’s seem’s to work out the way it’s suppose too.., further I don’t care what anyone does, don’t judge, but I won’t allow them to force their ways, thoughts onto me, just won’t be around them if they try a second time..

I live by a code of Honor, Trust, & Respect & I am then only accountable to myself..& whenever my time is up on this earth, I am cool with this & will see what comes next..


upsidedownsky 41M  
583 posts
5/29/2021 9:55 pm

I was going to say. "No fucks given motherfuckers."

but instead I will say "Sending you positive energy."

*. *. *


scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
5/29/2021 8:21 pm

    Quoting sweet0necter:
    First question is always check the scene for safety... don't put yourself in a situation where you are likely to be a second victim... second ask them are you wanting to be rescued? If they don't respond call for help, 911, and begin CPR.
    100-120, 30 compressions to 2 breaths except in small humans=One person rescue 30-2. 2 person rescue 15-2.
    If they can say yes. Ask them what hurts? Do they need someone just to listen to them vent.
    Having been in relationships that are kinda toxic but were codependent its hard to break out of the "sins that we know" to being fully alone or jump into something else.

    Don't hang up your cape. Someone still needs you. I feel bad your going through this with your friend. But if you lose him as a friend after 20y and it wasn't your choice was he a good friend to you, or just someone else he used? Your in my prayers tonight.
My friend, it wasn't a life or death situation. Just that my ex-girlfriend and a friend of mines wife was with a n good person. I told my ex that she should eave that loser, but she still with him and I have that friend who did his wife wrong for year and I let his wife know. Now I don't hear from her, she most likely go back to him, so my point, me trying to help, did it make a difference?????? I love your feedback, and my friend, I know your a good wman with a kind heart, glad you my friend.


scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
5/29/2021 8:15 pm

    Quoting LadiesR2B1rst:
    There are some people that no matter how much you try to help them, they have to learn on their own . Just try not to let them bring you down to their level .
True, thanks for the feedback. If I know it's not going to do any good, I'll just be quiet.


scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
5/29/2021 8:13 pm

    Quoting Oxygen4fun:
    Be the change you want to see in society and be true to yourself as much as you can and don't care anymore about what others think. Hang in there.
I guess I might blow out some steam and I bet one day, I probably would get my ass kicked! But, I'll think twice before I give advice. Maybe if I know it'll make a difference.


scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
5/29/2021 8:10 pm

    Quoting  :

Sir, I appreciate the kind feedback, thanks!


sweet0necter 47F  
2047 posts
5/29/2021 7:33 pm

First question is always check the scene for safety... don't put yourself in a situation where you are likely to be a second victim... second ask them are you wanting to be rescued? If they don't respond call for help, 911, and begin CPR.
100-120, 30 compressions to 2 breaths except in small humans=One person rescue 30-2. 2 person rescue 15-2.
If they can say yes. Ask them what hurts? Do they need someone just to listen to them vent.
Having been in relationships that are kinda toxic but were codependent its hard to break out of the "sins that we know" to being fully alone or jump into something else.

Don't hang up your cape. Someone still needs you. I feel bad your going through this with your friend. But if you lose him as a friend after 20y and it wasn't your choice was he a good friend to you, or just someone else he used? Your in my prayers tonight.


LadiesR2B1rst 58M  
1496 posts
5/29/2021 7:24 pm

There are some people that no matter how much you try to help them, they have to learn on their own . Just try not to let them bring you down to their level .


Oxygen4fun 51M/49F  
154 posts
5/29/2021 7:21 pm

Be the change you want to see in society and be true to yourself as much as you can and don't care anymore about what others think. Hang in there.


scoupe42 58M  
11782 posts
5/29/2021 6:23 pm

Maybe it's better to say nothing?


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