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Sugar and Spice
 
Variety is the spice of life. Sugar n spice/day n night/ying n yang. My blog is of my opinions and thoughts. If you do not like them do not read them.
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Pictures people post
Posted:Feb 28, 2013 5:45 pm
Last Updated:May 12, 2013 7:50 pm
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I sit and laugh as I see some of the pictures being posted. Who knows maybe I've said this before. It occurred to me a little bit ago and after speaking with someone, how I just became turned off by that person.
So I came across a profile a female of course and in that profile she had action shots. Meaning, a cock in her pussy. Now, usually I'd say whatever but when females are posting actions shots of a cock with no condom that's like saying hey I'm game for free STD's. I mean come on people, this is a new day and age. To much shit is out there. Yeah guys may not like condoms but really what are you gonna be saying when you can't be having sex anymore?
I myself am clean and do plan to stay that way. I take great caution in it. People say they are clean do you always believe them?
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Rollercoaster
Posted:Feb 25, 2013 8:13 pm
Last Updated:Feb 27, 2013 7:53 pm
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Do you ever feel like you are on some kind of roller coaster and you just wanna get off?
I mean really? It's like one thing happens that gets the coaster moving then you have a water pipe break so your coaster speeds up. Then your furnace decides to stop working. It's like for real??? Does someone have some voodoo doll or whats the deal? Things get fixed and slow down and start over again. Is it like some sign or what?
I mean I'm not a mean person.
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Choice of wording
Posted:Feb 23, 2013 12:02 pm
Last Updated:Feb 27, 2013 7:57 pm
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So it's been awhile since I blogged last been lacking my own computer, have to borrow my . I know I know bad mom. LOL
Anyway, I got an email today which then made me think to write a blog, this email wasn't even that long but it was the way he chose his words that prompted the blog.


Email said- "I know how you feel cause I feel the same sometimes. But my friends tell me the right one is there. Some of us are not like the rest."

So, when you hear people say "oh I know how you feel" do people really? People maybe can kind of know but it's like until you walk a day in someones shoes you won't really know the feeling. And I know my head thinks way to much and confuses itself. LOL
I also know people do have empathy which is why we will say "I know how you feel"
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Guys who love asses?
Posted:Oct 21, 2012 10:36 am
Last Updated:Jan 12, 2014 2:16 pm
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Alright you honest guys, and yes I will keep the comments private for those
who answer. So I am very curios if guys who are so into a females ass and
I mean really into it that they forget she even has a pussy. Are these guys
usually bi? Maybe they just really like the ass? Just curious.
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Computers
Posted:Oct 20, 2012 5:45 pm
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2012 10:21 am
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Well, my laptop bit the dust. I must say it kinda sucks espically when for
one you have an 11yr old with aspergers who gets so into things and
routines, now he has been crabbby. Sometimes I almost wonder
what we all did before computers. Here I sit on a cell phone blogging.
I really hope I replace computer soon I cant fix my laptop as its most
likely the graphic chip. GRRR
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Opening up
Posted:Jun 24, 2012 5:59 pm
Last Updated:Mar 12, 2013 10:10 am
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It took a lot to get to where I am, but perhaps whoever I am should just go back to my quiet self. When I seemed to care less about everyone else. That way I am less likely to mess up anyone elses shit. So perhaps it is true some of us are better off alone.
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FYI Ladies- Morning After Pill
Posted:Jun 15, 2012 9:19 pm
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2012 10:21 am
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So ladies in case you are unaware and this is by word of a friend. If in case you ever have to go and get that morning after pill it isn't a cheap thing. And depending on which one you get I guess one will cost more. It can run anywhere from $45-$60. The higher price one if I remember from what I was told that was one you only had to take one. The other one, you had to take two, first one right away and the second one 12 hrs after. So always be safe. And guys don't be dumb.
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Friend Advice Gone Bad
Posted:Jun 14, 2012 9:53 am
Last Updated:Jun 15, 2012 9:07 pm
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So do you ever wonder why people ask for advice when you really know they aren't going to listen. Advice is really like opinions.
Anyway, the friend I tried to help pull her out of her funk. Tried to get her to meet a few people. She really wasn't having it. So she goes and signs up on two different sites. One of which is the same one I'm on. And no not saying it's this one. So she is on this site less than a week. And gets a meet within two days. Now the way she talks with me is she isn't going to do that. But goes and meets this person. Then, she sends me a text saying cool just got asked about doing two guys, never done that before. So she hooks up with two guys. I've been on the site she is on for a few years she just gets on and goes and has a threesome. So for her who sits here and says all that stuff is gross then does a 180.
You know I'm not really a jealous person, not sure why this is bothering me. Is it because I didn't think this is what she wanted for herself. So as a friend I am disappointed? I really don't know how or even what to say to her right now.
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Gamer
Posted:Jun 6, 2012 11:50 pm
Last Updated:Apr 29, 2013 7:32 pm
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UPDATED
Alright so I'm a grown up and I play x box. Oh I'm also a female. I will play multiplayer of the games that are able to but just about all the games I've played I've played through them all. Starting with.
Fable 3
Call of Duty World At War
Halo Reach
MW2 & MW3
Halo 3 ODST
Halo Reach
Call of Duty 3
Battlefield 3
Red dead redemption
Minecraft which is never ending

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Advice for a Friend
Posted:Jun 6, 2012 7:08 am
Last Updated:Jan 20, 2013 10:50 pm
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Alright fellow blog land I thought this would be a good place to get some feedback about this.
So, my good friend had been talking to this guy over the phone for oh I'd say over two months. And this guy was calling and texting a lot. Now my friend isn't ugly, yes she is a little over weight but don't weigh no 300 pds. So this guy finally talks her into meeting. So he gets on his bike, and he drives 4hrs shows up at 4am. She was nice enough to then let him lay down and rest a bit. He gets up and says "sorry just don't think it will work, you're kinda not my size", "but we can still be friends" I'm not sure if they were doing anything or not. I have been told this guy has to take viagra, is a recovering Alcoholic has no job. And lives off his parents money oh and he's 43. And many times throughout phone conversations he liked using the word love with her.
No,my friend doesn't mean a lot of guys and for this ass to show up and act like this was uncalled for. This is why I learned to not spend many hours chatting and get the meeting out of the way that way no ones expectations are let down. I mean you spend time chatting and getting to know each other you form a connection how then can you not have something when you met if you are truly honest in conversation.
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May Masturbation Month
Posted:Apr 19, 2012 7:51 am
Last Updated:May 7, 2024 8:54 pm
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Alright, so it seems they say they have given a full month to May somewhere on the internet. LOl Masturbation relieves stress, gets out our pent-up frustrations, cures headaches and menstrual cramps, and can make people a little bit more happier.
So I can across this list, yes some of this are a bit odd. But here are 69 ways to have sex with yourself. (even though a few aren't)

1.Alone
2.With a friend of the same sex
3.With a friend of the opposite sex
4.In front of a mirror
5.While sitting over the engine in the back of the bus
6.During the spin cycle of your washing machine
7.With your hands
8.With a vibrator
9.With the back of a spoon
10.With only pressure on your clitoris
11.Anally
12.Vaginally
13.A combo of 10, 11, and 12
14.The minute you wake up in a groggy way
15.Right before you go to sleep in a lullaby way
16.When you wake up in the middle of the night in a comforting way
17.In the shower in a wet and clean way
18.Using the pulsating water from shower head
19.Using the rush of the water from the bath faucet
20.With your mind
21.Wearing a blindfold
22.Under the covers
23.Totally naked
24.In lingerie
25.While at work in an 'eff' the system kind of way
26.Wearing tight jeans and wiggling around in them
27.In a fitting room in an "oh I look good in this outfit" kind of way
28.In a public bathroom in a desperate way
29.In the back of a cab in a sexy way
30.After you've had some wine
31.After you've had some whiskey
32.After you've had some beer
33.Straddling an armchair
34.With your right hand
35.With your left hand
36.With both hands
37.With one finger
38.With your knuckle
39.With the palm of your hand
40.With your wrist
41.Using lube
42.Using your saliva as lube
43.Outside
44.Standing up
45.Lying down, facing up
46.Lying down, facing down
47.Sitting
48.Doggie style with your arm reaching behind you
49.With the lights on
50.With the lights off
51.While watching porn
52.While staring at a photo of your dream guy or girl
53.By nipple stimulation only
54.Loudly
55.Quietly
56.While breathing heavy
57.Using circular motions
58.By tapping your clitoris
59.By putting different but continuous pressure on your clitoris
60.Against a pillow
61.While getting a back massage
62.During a pedicure
63.Using the stop and go method -- taking yourself to the brink of orgasm, stopping, then starting again
64.Having a quickie with yourself by keeping the intensity high from the start
65.While riding a bike
66.During kegels
67.While kissing someone
68.With two fingers making a "V" around your clitoris
69.By pressing your thighs together in a rhythmic motion
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Biggest turn off
Posted:Apr 12, 2012 9:17 am
Last Updated:Oct 21, 2012 10:23 am
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Alright, I know I will get some slack for this blog but hey it's my opinion. So, I was just browsing a profile and it kinda just dawned on me. Now, wait before I speak here. (stops) BRB. Ok, back----As I thought. I wanted to look up the word discreet before I opened my mouth. So, the definition of discreet means. Having or showing discernment or good judgment
So now back to my biggest turn off. Once again I do understand this is a sex site and hey couples post their pictures as they will. But this goes towards certain people which I am sure they will figure out. I am one who honestly doesn't want to see where someones cock has been especially if you want to try and meet me. I ask for someone to be honest if they are with someone. That does not mean I ask to see pictures of it. That's what is kind of nice about this site and albums it allows you to put photos where you choose. So if someone has pictures like that, sorry I don't accept them in my network. People want to use the word discreet on their profile, you may want to know what it means.


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Reading of Blogs
Posted:Apr 6, 2012 5:00 pm
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2012 7:52 am
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Ok maybe I fell out of some kind of loop, but could someone fill me in on who now is able to read blogs? Are free members no longer able to have access to blogs?
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