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flannel_light 58F  
347 posts
7/9/2021 7:12 am

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The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


flannel_light 58F  
3467 posts
7/9/2021 7:13 am

For The Guys

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


author51 58F
119534 posts
7/9/2021 12:55 pm

This woman is going to respond about one man who has not ghosted me in almost 16 months and just blogged about him, my friend.. It is a great question to ask both men and Transgender on how they themselves deal with it, especially if you have been chatting for more than a day, a night, week or months.....xoxo


citizen4722 63M  
72094 posts
7/9/2021 1:41 pm

I left some messages for a friend on another site but I didn't get anything back. I worry that something has happened to her, especially as it was in the middle of the COVID-19 outbreak.


flannel_light 58F  
3467 posts
7/9/2021 1:43 pm

    Quoting author51:
    This woman is going to respond about one man who has not ghosted me in almost 16 months and just blogged about him, my friend.. It is a great question to ask both men and Transgender on how they themselves deal with it, especially if you have been chatting for more than a day, a night, week or months.....xoxo
I will have to check out that blog

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


lonlyforlove2 78M
29847 posts
7/9/2021 1:54 pm

I think it comes down to some one just being cowardly or maybe ashamed of their previous actions. For what ever reason I would not let it bother me.. When one has that little respect for you and themselves. You didn't lose anything..To many good guys out there to be hung up on one wantabe..


naughtynate77 44M  
640 posts
7/9/2021 3:00 pm

I have not initiated contact with anyone since my return to the site earlier this year. The only messages I get are from other guys (NOT what I'm into), most of which get ignored.


flannel_light 58F  
3467 posts
7/9/2021 3:06 pm

    Quoting citizen4722:
    I left some messages for a friend on another site but I didn't get anything back. I worry that something has happened to her, especially as it was in the middle of the COVID-19 outbreak.
All you can do is pray and hopefully she will be in touch with you.

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


flannel_light 58F  
3467 posts
7/9/2021 3:07 pm

    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    I think it comes down to some one just being cowardly or maybe ashamed of their previous actions. For what ever reason I would not let it bother me.. When one has that little respect for you and themselves. You didn't lose anything..To many good guys out there to be hung up on one wantabe..
You are so right .

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


flannel_light 58F  
3467 posts
7/9/2021 3:10 pm

    Quoting naughtynate77:
    I have not initiated contact with anyone since my return to the site earlier this year. The only messages I get are from other guys (NOT what I'm into), most of which get ignored.
Thank you for sharing

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


1salesman3 66M
6492 posts
7/9/2021 3:42 pm

I think we all should respect our fellowman.


Bornfem 30T
37 posts
7/9/2021 5:44 pm

If they are not my cup of tea and the conversation is not irrelevant I just ignore them.


flannel_light 58F  
3467 posts
7/9/2021 6:09 pm

    Quoting 1salesman3:
    I think we all should respect our fellowman.
I could not agree more

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


pal334 67M  
43766 posts
7/10/2021 5:14 am

It can be so confusing. I say treat others like you want to treated

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Needsomekisses60 61M
38 posts
7/10/2021 6:56 am

You are correct, we are all adults here and should treat each other with common decency. But for some it means nothing to hide behind a keyboard and hurt someone’s feelings without having to face them.


flannel_light 58F  
3467 posts
7/10/2021 7:05 am

    Quoting pal334:
    It can be so confusing. I say treat others like you want to treated
Yes everyone should be treated with respect and be honest with each other

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


CleavageFan4U 64M  
66903 posts
7/10/2021 9:04 am

I try to be honest, but have encountered a few truly unbalanced ones. With them it really is just best to not engage / to ghost them, since any discussion just increases the chances they'll go over the edge.

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flannel_light 58F  
3467 posts
7/10/2021 1:03 pm

I can see your point in that

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


onelastchan00 51F  
4335 posts
7/10/2021 3:43 pm

    Quoting Needsomekisses60:
    You are correct, we are all adults here and should treat each other with common decency. But for some it means nothing to hide behind a keyboard and hurt someone’s feelings without having to face them.
Yes ur right I call those kinds KEYBOARD WARRIORS....

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flannel_light 58F  
3467 posts
7/10/2021 6:58 pm

    Quoting Needsomekisses60:
    You are correct, we are all adults here and should treat each other with common decency. But for some it means nothing to hide behind a keyboard and hurt someone’s feelings without having to face them.
Too many hide behind the keyboard. I rather have some one be totally honest with me that bulling me.

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


flannel_light 58F  
3467 posts
7/10/2021 6:58 pm

    Quoting 1salesman3:
    I think we all should respect our fellowman.
Yes but some do not

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


flannel_light 58F  
3467 posts
7/10/2021 6:59 pm

    Quoting Bornfem:
    If they are not my cup of tea and the conversation is not irrelevant I just ignore them.
Thanks for sharing

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


flannel_light 58F  
3467 posts
7/10/2021 7:00 pm

    Quoting onelastchan00:
    Yes ur right I call those kinds KEYBOARD WARRIORS....
All too many on here are like that.

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


PonyGirl1965 55F
17158 posts
7/12/2021 11:38 pm

Too many cowards and liars in the world.
You are wonderful!


CMB2018 61M  
4 posts
7/13/2021 12:43 pm

Hi, just moved to Stokesdale. Would you consider a FWB or STR?


flannel_light 58F  
3467 posts
7/14/2021 5:03 pm

    Quoting PonyGirl1965:
    Too many cowards and liars in the world.
    You are wonderful!
Way too many on dating sites

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


flannel_light 58F  
3467 posts
7/14/2021 5:07 pm

    Quoting CMB2018:
    Hi, just moved to Stokesdale. Would you consider a FWB or STR?
Thank you but that doesn't interested me in the least. I hope you find that special someone.

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


Gina_L07 64T
383 posts
7/19/2021 6:11 pm

I keep telling guys to talk to me in room chat or cam chat like you just ran into me personally at a club or in some public setting. However it all falls on deaf ears so I just decided that any rude or stupid comment does not warrant a response. Although if i do respond it is solely to educate them as sometimes I find that some guys just don't know. I seriously doubt if they walk up to a transwoman in public and ask them how big is their dick. Just part of the landscape that we all have to navigate through. Be safe. Ciao.

Gina


Joejo613 56M  
6 posts
7/20/2021 7:28 am

alrigtht, I'm gonna put it out there. The love of my life who I adored more anything ghosted me. Of course, there's much more to the story, but, I hung my hat on her wall, meaning it was home. I was in a relationship for 35 years always with someone. Then 5 years with her and ghosted. I fell apart. I was devastated. The experience changed me. And I'll be fine. I welcome further questions but I can't promise to answer all of them because of the personal nature. Thanks.



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flannel_light 58F  
3467 posts
7/20/2021 1:11 pm

    Quoting Gina_L07:
    I keep telling guys to talk to me in room chat or cam chat like you just ran into me personally at a club or in some public setting. However it all falls on deaf ears so I just decided that any rude or stupid comment does not warrant a response. Although if i do respond it is solely to educate them as sometimes I find that some guys just don't know. I seriously doubt if they walk up to a transwoman in public and ask them how big is their dick. Just part of the landscape that we all have to navigate through. Be safe. Ciao.

    Gina
I have to agree with you. Some guys don't know what they have until it's too late.

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


flannel_light 58F  
3467 posts
7/20/2021 1:13 pm

    Quoting Joejo613:
    alrigtht, I'm gonna put it out there. The love of my life who I adored more anything ghosted me. Of course, there's much more to the story, but, I hung my hat on her wall, meaning it was home. I was in a relationship for 35 years always with someone. Then 5 years with her and ghosted. I fell apart. I was devastated. The experience changed me. And I'll be fine. I welcome further questions but I can't promise to answer all of them because of the personal nature. Thanks.
I know it's hard I fail for a guy on another site and I'm going to ask him yesterday if he follow and he told me yes and I told him I have too and now and today not one text message thriving so I'm sitting here wondering has he start pushing me away again cuz if he has I cannot deal with that again. It took me a long time to get over the guy I was in love with for 6 years and yes I'm only and yes I want to be with somebody and have somebody in my life to do things with and it hurts when you get ghosted and stood up I've been there I'm still there so I know it hurts

The Light is shinning and she is lonely and waiting in the darkness.


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