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Told by Polyamory Date that I had to participate in blogs...or else. So I decided to start one so as to rant about how poorly the management of this site treats their best customers but thought I could rant about other topics like how many guys on this site are flakes, how many say they are straight but just don't want to say they like cocks and then what the heck why not just talk about why we are here, which basically is to find guys to jerk off with.
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New Polyamory Date Email
Posted:Jan 16, 2013 7:47 pm
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 4:27 am
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At first I thought it might be me, I am, after all, not the most facile when it comes to "social networking" I really have a hard time understanding what all the fuss is about with Facebook for instance. But after using Polyamory Date's new email for awhile it is clear that they really messed up again.
Anyone else notice that now when you attach a photo that the bottom of it gets cut off? You cannot even move it.
All the various panels have to be separately scrolled in order to see all of a given email or email string.
If you look at an email but do not immediately reply it gets completely lost and it is very, very hard to search back.
Really? The people who design these websites need to actually use them. Not just use them with a few contacts.
Try using them when you have a very popular profile because you are a couple with an extremely attractive, hot wife who is actually interested in meeting with single guys.
Then try it over a long period of time.
Then try to go back and find previous contacts in another part of the country where you visit from time to time.
They need a way that we can organize, search, and highlight our contacts and, of course, save this information over years.
We have been paying a lot for this "service" over many years, we should be able to access our history.

Anyone else have any thoughts on this?
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Are we the only ones having trouble with the new layout?
Posted:Dec 6, 2012 5:15 pm
Last Updated:Jan 16, 2013 7:49 pm
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Polyamory Date recently changed the layout for emails and for us it is even worse than before.
Now we suddenly have over 40 new emails, I guess it couldn't tell the difference between ones we had answered and ones we had not quite gotten to. IT is confusing and quite cumbersome as in order to scroll you have to move the cursor.
Not sure why they think this is better, maybe someone else can quickly educate us.

What we wanted Polyamory Date to do was to make all of our old correspondence available or at least let us decide what gets deleted and what remains available. One month for a free member I guess should be AFFs decision but paid members should have a PERMANENT, SEARCHABLE, ORGANIZABLE email box with folders or whatever. But it must be long term and searchable to be of any value .

Interested to hear what anyone else has to say
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We love small cocks too!
Posted:Nov 3, 2012 11:09 am
Last Updated:Jan 16, 2013 7:50 pm
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As in most things, variety in the "spice of life" (heck why else would we all be here). No different in cock size and shape. It just seems that fat cocks or big cocks are quite common here on Polyamory Date while the the thins and small ones are extremely rare. Is this "selection"? the guys with the tiny ones are too embarrassed to join in the fun? Or are big cocks "made" by jerking and playing often at an early age....like lifting weights?
Regardless we do like variety and enjoy seeing curves and and shapes but mostly we would love to meet up with some guys out there with some truly short/thin cocks!
Fun to suck a short one all the way and at the same time be able to lick their balls! Great to jerk one off with just your thumb and index finger.
So come on guys with small cocks, contact us so we know who you are! Do not hide! Especially would love to find the little guys that are shaved and circumcised!!!!
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Update on How to See More of Our Erotic Pix
Posted:Oct 3, 2012 11:12 am
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2012 3:14 pm
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Well, at least erotic to us. Some guys only want to see super close ups of genitalia and some only are interested in hard-core action shots (we have some of those too).
But Our Passion is upskirt public flashing, see-thru in public and down-blouse or open blouse tit peeks.
We have a few of these here on Polyamory Date but we post many, many more on Flickr where we have much more control of our pix and where more people can find and enjoy our pix.

We currently have 3 profiles. If you have followed us before you know that our primary pro account on flickr called "bvrsht" disappeared last January, despite having had more than 4 million hits and being paid up 5 years in advance.

We have decided to start to recreate "bvrsht" at our old "p.kia" account which has been renamed "bvrsht-redux".

Our other 2 accounts remain the same: "no pilikia" which contains pix of her taken at flashing events like OCF and Halloween, and "wayroc" which contains hard-core bi cock play pix.

I am being more "hard core" myself and to see the vast majority of pix on all 3 profiles you must be "friended". And to be friended you must have some info in you flickr profile like age, general location and interests.
It is best if you send me a flickrmail telling me you are an Polyamory Date fan of ours and your Polyamory Date profile name then I can go ahead and "let you in".

Flickr is a free site but unfortunately owned by Yahoo so they are incompetent, however, like Polyamory Date, what makes it GREAT is the members who post. There is more erotica there than you could see in several lifetimes and some of it is top notch.

If you are confused, send me a note here or on flickr

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The FLAKE FACTOR
Posted:Sep 21, 2012 8:54 am
Last Updated:Dec 27, 2012 4:51 pm
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Not sure if anyone ever reads these posts, if you do then you are aware of my feelings about Polyamory Date, but this one relates to you, the Polyamory Date subscribers.

What makes humans humans is COMMUNICATION, the creation of language. But to make it work powerfully we need to socialize.

Somehow much of todays world has rejected face to face communication and socialization with others to only interact with electronics.
People texting rather then getting off their fat asses and walking to another cubicle or room to talk to some one.
Texting back and forth rather than talking and interacting in person or on the phone, VERY BIZARRE!

The vast majority of Polyamory Date users sit in front of their computers and fantasize but when an opportunity arises they are unwilling to actually follow thru.
Harsh? You betcha!

Recent examples:
-January 2011-I was alone in our condo in Maui for a few weeks before my wife was to join me. Wanted to meet and "vet" a few potential playmates before she arrived. Sent out 25 emails to single guys wanting to meet couples.....ZERO REPLIES!

-August 2012-We were heading to Eastern Oregon for a short vacation. Small town but we found on Polyamory Date 6 guys whose profiles fit. Sent out emails, 2 replies (a VERY high percentage) one would be out of town, the other would call us before our last night there BUT NEVER DID.

-August 2012-She turned 60, wanted to have photography party, mini-GB. Emailed or called 12 guys that we knew and had met with before. One declined, 2 said they would come, no response from the other 9! Of the 2 responders one backed out (injury?) the other DID NOT SHOW!

September 2012-Going to the Oregon Coast for a long weekend. Emailed 15 guys on Polyamory Date. One declined (too "busy") one showed up!!!!! and we all had a blast (but I had already met him before so he really didn't count as a current Polyamory Date success)

September 2012-Have a meeting scheduled in late October down in California, decided to start early and sent out 16 Polyamory Date emails a couple of weeks ago. So far have heard back from 3 which is a fine number if they all are actually able to make it to our hotel room but the percentages are quite telling, even in California THE FLAKE FACTOR IS HUGE!

The big question, of course, is why?
My wife is beyond fabulous and we are very easy and not demanding or pushy, we try to make everyone comfortable.
Our main requirements are that guys are extremely clean and tidy, tested disease free, bi-friendly (oral only), and cool with photos (which we all share and have strict rules about not posting).
She doesn't fuck but everyone gets to cum.
As a couple who actually plays with and welcomes "single" guys we hear from thousands of you and cannot keep up with all the queries and emails but when we do have a perfect opportunity to meet a handful of you it is always a disappointment.

Lastly, back to our nemesis, the Polyamory Date administration. A distinct possibility is that some (many?) Polyamory Date emails simply do not get thru to the intended recipient. I have to believe that when I sent to 25 in Maui and did not get a single peep in response that the issue was Polyamory Date. Of course we'll never know. But our latest experiences at least suggest that that may not be so and that it is instead, The Flake Factor.
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Sorry to beat a dead
Posted:Jul 31, 2012 1:17 pm
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 4:27 am
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But we continue to be extremely frustrated by Polyamory Date not providing what it's users need despite the high prices we pay. We would love to be able to look back at all correspondence, organize it for ourselves. Also would be nice if we could have the ability to create a personal friends listing so we could organize contacts.
Oh well, they are getting rich off of us without providing any service or work
But what you all can do to help is to ALWAYS INCLUDE YOUR REAL FIRST NAME AND ANY OTHER PROFILE NAMES in any correspondence. Like if you are a friend on Flickr then let us know the profile name, if you have an old Polyamory Date name then let us know
Thanks
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Oregon Country Fair
Posted:Jul 12, 2012 9:37 am
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2012 3:15 pm
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The Fair is this weekend in Veneta, Oregon (just west of Eugene). This is a "hippie festival" on private farmland that started in 1970. Lots of full nudity, men and women, in the 70s, 80s and 90s but much tamer now and way more crowded. Way too many "yuppies" with their

You still see lots of topless women, many in body paint as if that makes them not nude.

You still get to see a few cocks, mostly on guys wearing "Utilikilts".

BVRSHT will have her tits out but not be "topless" as she needs to be careful about the sun. She will have her usual broad brimmed hat on.

Of course she will be in a short sarong with NO PANTIES and will happily show her cunt to any and all who are interested.

PHOTOS are welcum both CANDID and POSED

We will only be there on Friday July 13 as it is the least crowded of the 3 days and bvrsht is not interested in a marathon event because of sun, heat and dust

If you see us feel free to take any candid/surreptitious shots but also feel free to introduce yourself and ask for posed pix and views of her cunt. Remember there are about so we may need to move away for such pix. Likewise if you want to show off your cock to us we may need to select a spot.
Touching? being touched? Possible, you never know, but please do not assume!

J&M
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Really?
Posted:Jun 19, 2012 1:54 pm
Last Updated:Jul 12, 2012 9:08 am
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Polyamory Date again has "surprised me. They only allow us "Gold" members to "save" 10 searches. Will they never get it that we pay well over $100 per year???????? They provide next to nothing in the way of service and memory.
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Why deny your bi-ness?
Posted:May 23, 2012 11:11 am
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 4:27 am
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This is a continued mystery to us. Last posted 3 years ago so worth a revisit.
Sexual bi-ness is the norm for humans.
Certainly throughout history this has been the case.
Bi-ness is more "normal" in humans than monogamy, which the damn Christians profess is the "right way" but, of course they do not practice it.
In the "bell shaped curve" of human sexuality some degree of bi-ness is clearly the "norm".

90% of the guys we hear from have stated in their profiles that they are "straight", yet when I reply that we are only interested in "bi friendly guys" they all say that they are either bi or "bi-curious".

Why don't guys just check the "prefer not to say" box (leave it unanswered in other words)?

If you are a "single" guy trying to meet women on this site you will be way more successful if you seek out couples and way more succesful with couples if you admit to some degree of "bi-ness"
On the other hand, if you are frightened by your bi-ness, then indeed check the box for "straight" but also limit your search to single woman so that you don't have to worry about accidentally touching another cock LOL
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peev
Posted:Apr 26, 2012 12:00 am
Last Updated:Jul 31, 2012 1:18 pm
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one of the things that irks us the most is that our email "history" is stored for such a short time and it cannot be organized. Nowadays memory/storage is so cheap. You can get free accounts all over the web with massive amounts of email storage but here, despite the incredibly high price, they only store messages for 90 days, and that is for Gold members!
Even worse the "history" box on another persons profile only reports "contacts" for the last 30 days!!!!!!!!!!
Ridiculous!!!!!!
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How to see more of our erotic pix
Posted:Mar 2, 2012 12:36 pm
Last Updated:Oct 3, 2012 7:24 pm
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As it says in our profile, we post many pix on the Yahoo owned Flickr site.

Unfortunately our main, pro account (bvrsht) was recently deleted, not sure by whom or why as it was "legal" by their rules and has been there for 6 or 7 years.

pro account was paid up for 5 years!, the money stolen!
we had 4 million hits!!!!! that is revenue for them
bigger loss for the Yahoo idiots than me
they are seriously teetering on the edge of bankruptcy

we still have our 3 other flickr profiles

p.kia - similar to bvrsht but much tamer

no pilikia - flashing events, best viewed via "sets" as are the others, set up as a place to send regular, everyday, "straight" friends who have expressed curiosity about Marge going to such events
have sent several couples and women to to this site and I suspect they were expecting maybe some tit flashing or see-thru tops, sure would have liked to have been a fly on the wall when they saw her shaved, openly spread cunt

wayroc - for jerk off buddies, cock views, I purposefully kept cocks out of bvrsht except for "family" except those few fucking shots i put in for one day to help with the SOPA protest which apparently got me deleted, wayroc is for people who want to see cock play

In order for you to see most of our pix I have to designate you as a "friend" so you will need to send me flickrmail so that I know who you are and that you are interested

may just keep them that way and cut way, way down on "hits"
may open a few other, thinking about having a "safe" acct. like p.kia used to be
maybe some day a replacement for bvrsht but not too likely and not anytime soon

Jeff
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still the same old sleazy bait and shift
Posted:Feb 2, 2012 1:31 pm
Last Updated:May 26, 2024 4:27 am
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gold account expired, waited them out til they sent me an email offering special 20% off limited time discount to renew, you know the drill with these slime-balls, one click and suddenly i bought it and it was the exact same price as before and the same price that I can get on our other very old free (standard) account that i use in Maui.
Of course I tried their 800 number after a long wait the "machine" asked for my number and said they would return my call, which someone did 2 days later at a very inconvenient time.
They clearly have the slime act down to an exact science, they know what they are doing so as to take full advantage of those of us who actually make this a successful enterprise for them.
Hard to imagine anyone being worse than the airline industry at ripping their best customers off but Polyamory Date is at the top of their game.
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Polyamory Date caught in FRAUD
Posted:Jan 20, 2011 2:31 am
Last Updated:Oct 3, 2012 7:25 pm
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Polyamory Date tried to bill my VISA acct. that I used to sign up for a year ago
I was called by VISA fraud department as they used an incorrect date plus they have been red tagged as a company because of a history of fraudulent billings.
Can't even renew now, they may not be in business much longer if VISA shuts them down haw can they survive?
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