Im one of the odd ones that loves to get tied up just as much as I like to tie up a man and spank him. Most women dont like it both ways but I love to switch. I can be a DOM and I can be a SUB and honestly love them both equally.
I found out this is rare and even got some shit for it by some "professional" S&M types, whatever that means.
I dont think one HAS to be one or the other. Once can be sexually stimulated being a DOM OR A SUB at any given time. For me its role play. Its fun. I enjoy it both ways.
This week Im a DOM though! LOL. We shall see how I feel next week!