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Posted:Nov 2, 2016 12:42 pm
Last Updated:Mar 14, 2017 7:44 pm
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Well, Dear Reader, I've been an Polyamory Date member for just under a year now, and in that time a lot has happened.
The biggest thing, was (FINALLY) losing my virginity, at the ripe old age of 42. As I've written earlier, I was lucky enough to find a true gentleman, who understood how to make me relax, and was sensitive to my needs and fears. We met a few times, and I learned a lot from him.
Before this gentleman, I met for coffee with a lovely man here in Copenhagen, but just wasn't ready to pull the trigger with him - not because he wasn't attractive to me, but because I still needed time to find my feet.
Then I went to Sweden, met with a lovely guy, got pretty far along, but not all the way (again - nearly there, not quite though). We had an encore, when he came to visit six weeks later - this time we really tried, but couldn't really get it to work. (turns out he'd brought the wrong size condoms, making it quite uncomfortable for him). In short: not the guy for the final bit, but certainly the guy who first got to test my blowjob abilities...
Then came the real deal - in May....
Then I found myself a guy elsewhere, whom I visited in August, having had a written 'courtship' over a few months. As I've written elsewhere: lovely guy, atrocious cleanliness, and in restrospect not 'Mr. Right', a fact he took quite hard.
A month or so ago I first met with a new man, who was supposed to come for a visit, but unfortunately I got sick, so that has been put on standby....
Otherwise I'm writing with a few of you, scattered around the World (hence today's title), and if you feel odd about not being the only one: don't be! I'm still testing myself, stretching wings that haven't been tested (too much) before, trying to find my identity as a desireable woman. For some of you it wlll sound odd that it has been difficult for me to feel that way, but my selfesteem (concerning my looks) had been non-existant for so many years, that I still have to tell myself: you are beautiful, there are men who would love to be with you! This is a continuing process for me, but I know I am on the right track.
So: thank you to those I've met, thank you to those who've written lovely messages to me, thank you to the men who've put points on me for top fan, thank you for the great feedbacck on photos and blogs, and thank you for being there.
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Early weekend
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Posted:Oct 27, 2016 2:26 am
Last Updated:Oct 27, 2016 11:09 am
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Ahhh, nothing like being able to sleep in on a Thursday!
Yup, I have an early weekend, with both Thursday and Friday off.... So got to sleep until I was done, and am still being a lazy so and so in bed..... See y'all later....
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WHY?!?!?
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Posted:Oct 8, 2016 9:54 am
Last Updated:Oct 13, 2016 1:16 pm
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Well, dear reader, today was supposed to be me making a nice dinner for a gentleman, who was going to spend the night. Reality? I woke up with a fever, snot, and a blinding headache, so I had to cancel. 
Luckily he is a gentleman, and was nice enough to ask if I needed anything. So hopefully a raincheck at a later date will be really nice! 
Have a great weekend all - I'll just be lying here feeling hot (but not in the good way)  amp;
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It's not you, it's me....
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Posted:Sep 29, 2016 5:06 pm
Last Updated:Feb 19, 2017 10:07 am
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Yup, it's an oldie, but it can be the best thing to say, when saying goodbye.
A few months ago I told you about a man who was boyfriend material. He really is a lovely bloke, BUT he is no longer on my boyfriend radar.
I met him on another dating-site, quickly built a rapport, and within a few days was talking to him evey night. I finally met him a month ago, spending a few nights with him, in his home. Now, I'm not exactly the neatest of women, but I am a clean one. I was met with a sticky kitchen, a bed without a sheet, and the state of his toilet was horrendous! In short: a man living alone, having done so for a long time, who didn't think to clean before inviting a woman into his home. I looked beyond, seeing a nice guy, and we had a nice enough time. When I got home, I spent some time soul-searching, trying to gauge my feelings for him, weighing pros and cons, in short deciding whether I was going to continue. I decided not to, partly based on conversations we had during my visit, my gut-feelings about a future, and not least: the lack of effort before my visit!
So, I called him (having spent a nervous afternoon going through scenarios in my mind), said "We need to talk. I don't think we can be together..", to which he said "Oh, Ok, goodbye!" and hung up! That left me non-plussed, and with a distinct feeling of having hurt someone, who at heart is a nice guy, but not the guy for me. I ended up writing him a message, which he answered the next day, and we wrote together, clearing the air a bit.
All in all an experience more for me, one for the books, and yes a 'It's not you, it's me'-moment.
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Swimming in September?!?!
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Posted:Sep 16, 2016 3:22 pm
Last Updated:Nov 5, 2017 9:56 am
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Yes, Dear Reader, I wemt swimming in the sea today. September 16th, beautiful blue skies, bit of wind, and 19° C water off the jetty! Enjoyed it for about ten minutes, having a great time in my Bikini.....
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Back to the grind....
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Posted:Sep 5, 2016 11:23 am
Last Updated:Sep 7, 2016 8:19 am
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Oh, yes, just had my first day back at work, after my 3 weeks of summer-holiday. Boy what a way to start it again: up at 4.15, on a train at 5.34, and work started at 6.45 (all of this AM).
So as I said earlier: London for a week with friends was fantastic (my home away from home, any time of the year) - can't wait to get back.
Then a week at the Tønder Festival. First 3 days exploring the region (some of the time in a canoe, some of the time in my car, some of the time in a bus, and some of the time by foot), while getting used to living in a Tenthouse (imagine a square, plastic oyster, perched on a metal frame, that opens on a hinge with a tent on the three open sides. Inside a 135x195 cms matress, and a couple of cubbyholes down the side - and electric light and outlets). Very comfy (especially as I was staying in it alone). Then 4 days/nights of AMAZING Folk/Country music 12-14 hours a day/night. Add sun, high temps, and good food/drink, and you have an amazing time (OK - we had a thunderstorm of biblical proportions the night between Saturday and Sunday, which made me wish I wasn't alone in the tent....)
After Tønder, I spent two nights with the Boyfriend (meeting up for the first time), which was fantastic! Lovely guy, considerate lover, cleaning-skills need improvement - so worth the work I intend on starting up....
Then back home, an impromptue concert in the street in Copenhagen with one of the bands from Tønder, some laundry, some golf, and my own bed (alone).....
How was YOUR vacation?
Oh, and: Happy Labour Day to all the US-people here....
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Vacation
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Posted:Aug 20, 2016 12:35 am
Last Updated:Aug 31, 2016 1:14 am
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Hullo, All!
Just got home from a week in London with friends - and am going to the Tønder Festival tomorrow. I'm really enjoying my vacation time, and can't wait for some fantastic music next week.......
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While I wait....
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Posted:Aug 5, 2016 1:06 am
Last Updated:Aug 10, 2016 9:58 pm
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So, it's Friday morning, and I'm just relaxing a bit before I need to be at work at 2pm..... I told you that I'd found a potential boyfriend, but I hadn't met him yet. I was supposed to meet him last weekend, travelling to see him. Unfortunately he had to cancel, because of a cold (I could hardly hear him when we were talking on the phone), and we don't know when we'll get to see eachother. Granted, Denmark isn't a huge country, but we both work, and I work every other weekend, so I can't just go this weekend instead. I go to London next Friday, will be gone for a week, and then go more or less straight to Tønder for the music festival. I have a week off still after that, but he'll be working..... Bother!
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Maybe a boyfriend.....
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Posted:Jul 15, 2016 8:01 am
Last Updated:Nov 5, 2017 9:57 am
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Yes, dear readers, I might have found myself a boyfriend - and I didn't find him on Polyamory Date.
Her in Denmark we have a datingsite geared towards people who live/want to live out in the country (i.e. not in the city), called Farmer Dating. I've been on again / off again there for a couple of years, but hadn't really found what I was looking for (or wasn't ready to act on it, vis-a-vis my story). But I got back on there a month or so ago, and within a couple of days I found myself a potential boyfriend! 
I say potential, because we haven't met IRL yet (will be visiting him in a fortnight), but we talk on the phone every night. And yes, there has been sexting and phone-sex already..... He is just being so nice, saying all the right things, and I truely feel that this is a man I can trust to be who he says he is (there have been near-encounters with people who weren't).
Whether he is 'The One', time will tell, but I look forward to actually meeting him.....
Have a great weekend, All!
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Summer's here!
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Posted:Jun 4, 2016 3:30 am
Last Updated:Aug 28, 2016 4:58 pm
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Well, dearest readers, summer has arrived with a vengance! It's hot as hell in my flat (the joys of only westfacing windows, and no way of acchieving a draft), so I'm sleeping in the nude, spreadeagle, which could be fun if someone was here.....
My dance-card is filling nicely, with a sleepover at a hotel in town on Monday, and a weekend visit in Sweden in a fortnight. I have a standing invitation to go to Dubai, and another man who would love to spend time with me in New Zealand. I know some people would view my behaviour as slutty, but I'm playing catch-up, and experiencing a side of life I've denied myself for so long, all due to self-esteem issues. I'm sorry that I waited this long, but I really wasn't ready to accept myself earlier, and wouldn't have trusted a man telling me I was sexy (I just didn't feel it could be true).
Anyway, I'm enjoying the warmer weather, and wearing less and lighter clothes.....
Have a great weekend, all!
XOXO
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So, new pictures...
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Posted:May 6, 2016 11:10 am
Last Updated:Aug 28, 2016 4:56 pm
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Well, my dear readers, at the suggestion of a special friend (you know the sort: friend I'd love to sleep with whenever he's in Copenhagen, we had a great time....) I put up some more, shall we say, provocative pictures than my usual fare. I hope you like them.
I removed the X-mas picture, because it's out of season, but will be doing a new one for this year....
So, guys and gals: what sort of pictures do you like? Do you gravitate to the 'arty' ones (say like my headshot)? Do the suggestive float your boat? Or do you need full on gentalia in your face?
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Long time, no see.....
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Posted:Apr 28, 2016 4:21 pm
Last Updated:Aug 28, 2016 4:55 pm
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Well, dear readers, it's been a while since my last entry. Things have been a bit hectic at work, which in turns has meant too little time for physical encounters......
Well, that was until a week ago, when I did something I would have sworn I'd never have done: I joined an Polyamory Date guy in his hotelroom, without so much as a cup of coffee beforehand! We had a fantastic time, perhaps not quite enough sleep for me, as I was working the next day (it was a bank-holiday here in Denmark, but I was working none the less), and he was very much the gentleman, even when it became apparent that I'd sprung a leak....... Let's just say, that I'm now definately sure I'm no longer a virgin.... We hope to see eachother again the next time he comes over.....
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Antipodean adventures
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Posted:Jan 17, 2016 9:26 pm
Last Updated:Apr 19, 2016 1:54 pm
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Well, dear readers, I've now spent 5 of a 24-day tour of New Zealand. We're female-heavy bunch (3 guys and 13 girls on the road), and our two guides have their work cut out for them.
Almost time for a pub-dinner, and then tomorrow caves and glowworms!
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