So...what are you looking for?
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Posted:Mar 15, 2011 12:37 pm
Last Updated:Jan 13, 2015 11:37 am
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I can't even tell you how many times I have been asked that question. I'm sick of it. I wrote my profile to be pretty easy to read and I thought I explained it in there. But some of you don't read the profiles I suppose, and wind up asking me anyway. So here is a helpful list of what I DON'T want.
I don't want a rude person. I won't respond to an email that says "hey you're hot, wanna fuck tonight". No, I don't wanna fuck, especially if I don't even know your name. Sorry, i'm picky like that.
I don't want to be rushed. You all know that chatting online often leads to NOTHING. That is very frustrating for me too, but i'll tell you something...if you can't chat with me for awhile before you bring up meeting and fucking somewhere (OH and don't get me started on you ADULT men who think that a CAR is an acceptable place...), then forget it. I've always said I'm looking for someone I can be friends with also, and I stick by that.
I don't want to be put on hold forever either. I've said this before, and I certainly realize that people have lives and get busy...but if you don't talk to me for months, don't expect me to remember you and jump at the opportunity to meet with you after all that time. That actually happens to me with surprising regularity.
So there's a happy medium here. Send me a nice friendly email..chat a few times...suggest a public meeting, and if it goes well...well then hooray! Then maybe you can be what i'm LOOKING FOR on Polyamory Date...a friend who can make me laugh, and fuck me silly on occasion. Doesn't that sound nice?
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Tough Luck
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Posted:Oct 19, 2010 4:54 pm
Last Updated:Jan 12, 2011 5:48 pm
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It seems I have a little bit to say today about basic communication. I get lots of emails on here. I respond to those that DO NOT have dick profile pics and actually interest me. Usually that means some online chatting comes next. I'm sooooo tired of it being ONLY online chatting. I don't want to type sex to you, I don't want to describe what I'm going to do with you so you can get all hot and bothered...specially when it hasn't ever happened and probably won't. The longer I "chat" with a guy online, the LESS likely it is that i'll actually meet him. Idk if that's normal or not, but it's sooooo been my experience.
AND the OTHER thing is this: If we talk for awhile, on the phone or online and then you drop off the face of the earth for a month or two because you were "busy" or had a "crisis" or WHATEVER, most likely, I am NOT GOING TO REMEMBER YOU. Don't be offended, that's just the way it is. I have a short memory, and it gets even shorter when you don't have TIME for me.
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Some excitement, please!
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Posted:Oct 13, 2010 3:07 pm
Last Updated:Dec 30, 2011 11:02 pm
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It has been brought to my attention, kindly, that i haven't posted a blog in a long time. Maybe because I haven't had anything to write about lately, how sad is that? I had a steady partner on the side for a couple years, and that seemed to keep my interest in sex at a maximum level....don't get me wrong, I"m still VERY interested, but I just haven't met the right person again i suppose. I really really miss the anticipation of knowing i'm going to get a good fucking later in the evening...of sending dirty texts to get each other going...of actually HAVING regular secret rendezvous! *sigh*
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Older Men
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Posted:Feb 20, 2010 11:01 am
Last Updated:Dec 27, 2013 4:51 pm
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I know that you men have a harder time on this site that the women. Hundreds of times i've been told that the ratio is probably 10 to 1. I know, i know. But does that void all common sense? Does the unequal ratio and the "fake" profiles make it appropriate to email someone who is OBVIOUSLY NOT A MATCH? Is that casting the net wide to hopefully catch any type of fish? I just find it amusing that I SPECIFICALLY state on my profile that I'm not interested in older men. So when i do get an email from an older man (which goes straight to my bulk folder anyway), I already know that you haven't really read my profile and that's a turn off in itself. And I'm sure that when an older man clicks on my profile, the little match signs at the bottom show that AGE is not a match in this case...but you know what..maybe you should go ahead and email me anyway, cuz maybe I didn't mean it...TRUST ME, I meant it.
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The game, played again.
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Posted:Feb 8, 2010 1:19 pm
Last Updated:Feb 14, 2010 1:20 pm
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I'm confused. I seem to know what I'm looking for, I think I state it fairly concisely on my profile. And yet I still get daily emails for guys wanting to "hook up" and fuck. Yeah, i wanna fuck, but I wanna know you a little bit too, criminy. A week ago, a guy emailed me on here, seemed nice enough and close enough and we started texting. Same sense of humor, wicked sarcasm, thoroughly enjoyable. But when I met him, I could tell that I wasn't what he expected somehow. Instead of just telling me straight up and making a graceful exit, he leads me to believe he's interested...and damn it, i fell for it again. I know this is a site of "liars" and "cheaters", or whatever you want to call it in some cases, but fuuuuuuuuuckkkkkkk, would a little honesty kill anyone? I'm about to give up on my quest of finding a friend with benefits, nobody seems to be willing to give what I require. So i'm disappointed, a little bit hurt, and infinitely tired of it.
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It's one of THOSE days
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Posted:Jan 12, 2010 12:05 pm
Last Updated:Feb 7, 2010 1:16 am
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It's one of those days where ALL i can think about is SEX. When am I going to get some GOOD sex again? I keep thinking about possibilities, keep remembering old times when I was left weak and breathless. I want to do everything I've ever thought about doing, twice. And maybe I want to do that thing I've been thinkin about doing for a long time, I just need someone to do it WITH! Ugh, I hate days like this!
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Oh Polyamory Date, how I love thee
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Posted:Jan 9, 2010 1:46 pm
Last Updated:Jan 10, 2010 12:55 pm
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Every once in awhile, Polyamory Date gets a bug up their behinds about me being a freeeee member. Usually, I can look at endless profiles or whatever I want, maybe cuz I get enough profile views...i don't really question the WHY of it all...lol. But not today! NO, today they want me to pay for the privilege of looking at dicks. Dang it! I'm dickless for a few days until they straighten up their attitudes...
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Idiots!
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Posted:Nov 25, 2009 9:46 am
Last Updated:Sep 26, 2012 7:57 pm
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This guy has emailed me a couple times, has a very vague profile..it basically says he doesn't have a type of woman, he just likes pussy from anywhere he can get it. Ok, i shouldn't have, but I added him. About the THIRD thing he says to me upon chatting is something like "I'm so horny and want to taste pussy. Are you alone today?" Like it matters. Read my fucking profile before you email me numerous times. I'm NOT going to fuck a random stranger 5 seconds after I've met him. I hate wasting my time on idiots.
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Interesting profiles
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Posted:Nov 6, 2009 8:30 am
Last Updated:Nov 9, 2009 11:01 pm
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I put a few words on my profile, that part where you are supposed to explain what you're looking for...because I figure that a picture can always lure someone in, but it's the substance of a person that hooks em interest wise, right? Maybe I'm wrong, because so many of the male profiles that I look at on here have almost literally nothing on them. I don't look at profiles unless a guy emails me, I don't EVER look at the silly flirts. I guess lately I've just had several emails that seem ok, but when I take a gander at the profile, i lose interest pretty quickly. They say things like "i'm here to check it out" and then say "prefer not to say" or whatever that is on almost all the information. That really does NOT inspire any curiousity on my part. Fill out the profile, be creative, be funny, be honest, it might work a little better for ya.
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Cumwhores
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Posted:Oct 29, 2009 11:40 am
Last Updated:Jan 19, 2021 8:58 pm
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I like to think that I have an open mind and my attitude is pretty much "to each his own". I don't think that some of the more fetishist sex acts are for me, I don't even want to know about some of em i'm sure, but hey...whatever floats your boat. There's just ONE THING that I do not understand whatsoever...and that is the whole name calling degrading vile sex talk. I am an intelligent, confident, self assured woman. I may not look like a super model, but I think that I am attractive, and I certainly think that I am worth being treated nicely. I talked to someone the other day who told me that he wanted to make me his "fat, floppy titted cumwhore". HMMMM, I wonder why that didn't sit right with me? You can try to explain it to me 1000 different ways, and I do somewhat understand that it's a dominance issue and may not be what he was really thinking, but I will never understand those kinds of mean words being a turn on to anyone. It definitely turned me directly to OFF.
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It gets SOOO old!!
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Posted:Oct 25, 2009 1:42 pm
Last Updated:Oct 26, 2009 5:45 am
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I'll tell you what, maybe i'm in a bad mood today or maybe it's just something that's been building up since I've been on this site. I know that men are visual creatures, and I do appreciate the beauty of a woman's form. That being said, I do have a couple of tits shots on my profile, and I do get emails about them. That's fine, that's why I put em up there. BUT, for ME, it seems that women aren't as visual...I'd WAAAYYYYY rather see a face picture first than a dick picture. Yes, I like me some dick, but I like me some face and some personality MORE. So it's just an instant turn off for me to get an email from a guy that ONLY has dick shots. I know you guys are all quite proud of your mini-me's and all that, but come on...at least include a nice picture of your smiling face.
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