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More thoughts on dating on Adult Friend Finders
More thoughts on dating on Adult Friend Finders I require a meet and greet with everyone I meet on Polyamory Date. Profiles are great and I have found that the majority of people are honest and post their own recent pictures. Even still I need to meet in a public place to get a sense of who someone is and what their motives are. There are some very strange people and possible predators out there. Sometimes it takes more than one meeting before I feel comfortable enough to go somewhere where we can be alone. I am looking for another FWB but I have to be safe and I have to be comfortable. When I am out with someone for the first time, many times the guy wants to kiss me, and that's acceptable. There is definitely an art to kissing, especially the first kiss. I personally like a kiss that starts out soft and doesn't invade my face. It does not turn me on when a man immediately thrusts his tongue down my throat. It actually turns me off and makes me feel violated. I am not a particularly touchy feely person but I don't mind having a stray hair tucked behind my ear or a soft touch on my arm or back. I do not like to be groped, grabbing my ass, or being so presumptuous as to touch my breasts in public. I mean, we just met. All of these things have happened to me and more. That is technically, legally assault. If you keep things light and let things happen organically I will be far more receptive and more likely to want to make a second date. Thanks for letting me rant! |
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3/13/2022 6:29 pm |
You should always meet the 1st time in a very public place,maybe even the 1st couple of times.I prefer to meet 2 times in public before doing any private meetings.These days everyone has to be careful.Too many crazies out there.And I totally agree with the kissing and touching.
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Oh yes i so agree with you,though i think most men are bad when it comes to meeting just for a chat,the amount of times i been groped intentionally,i always find places to meet that have more than one entrance often excuse myself to powder my nose and allows me my escape
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