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More of My Meandering Thoughts About Hot Wifing :)
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More of My Meandering Thoughts About Hot Wifing :) The more experience I get as a hot wife the more questions I get from special friends, and the more I think back to understand how my hubby and I got started in this crazy but always nicely fulfilling life style. These are some of my thoughts today about how Aly (my hubby's nickname) and I have evolved that I know is attributable to the way Aly and I have learned to communicate so well. Aly and I were actually swinging with special friends, couples, even before we married, so it wasn't like he had never seen me naked with another man before. We continued swinging with sexy couples that were mainly college friends of mine, and also with some of the Navy couples that Aly knew before he got out of the Navy. After we had been married for about two years Aly came home on a Friday evening after having traveled for several days, and he was really pumped up horny, and I like it when he gets really horny like that because of the fun ideas he often comes up with that are mainly to tease me, and himself, that typically results in a fantastic, hard breathing, sexual session that leaves both of momentarily exhausted. Late on that fresh, exciting evening on the couch after watching a really sexy movie together he began a more aggressive foreplay after he had already teased my nipples into the hard little pebbles, and his fingers were caressing my pussy inside my panties when he whispered a question to me. He asked me if I thought any of his male friends were sexy? I don't know why but something just clicked in my brain and I decided I was going to be honest with him, and I teased him back whispering yes, I thought some of his friends were hot. He wanted to know which of his friends I thought were sexy, and I told him without hesitating, Tom, Dick, and Harry. LOL He stopped fingering me and moved down to tongue my pussy and lick my clit, and as he was doing that he insisted I tell him why I thought his friends were sexy. After I described male butts, and shoulders, rough hands and nice smiles, he moved up and penetrated me really smoothly without the usual hesitation to make sure I was wet enough. His little game had me so wet I was ready to fuck him all his friends, and a moment later that is what I was doing with his insistence that I pick one of his friends to fuck right then and there as if his body was the body of his friend. Omigod! He was urging me to fuck his friend, and the next thing I knew he had me calling him by their names as he fucked me with the hardest dick I had ever known him to have. Our little game made me feel so incredibly sexy and I just kept naming his friends and fucking each one of them as if it was real. To Aly and I… with each of us knowing and understanding what was in the mind of the other, and with both of us aggressively, willingly doing it together, it WAS real. Our feelings together, and the wonderful orgasms I was having with his friends was real, and we both loved what was happening, what we were doing with other men involved, very involved… with me. Aly's cock was like a rock inside me and it felt wonderful, and when he started cumming I closed my eyes and whispered louder, urging all of them to cum inside me, to fill me full of cum, to fuck me like I knew they wanted to, and Aly gave me the biggest load of his life. I told each one of them in Aly's ear that I knew they had always wanted to fuck me, and I opened my body and my mind and I gave them what they wanted, and I enjoyed them so very much. Aly orgasmed into me for a considerable longer time, more than his usual, and I arched my back and squirmed, and squeezed him with my legs and took everything he gave me and more. I took all of them, but the last one was my dear, sweet, wonderful hubby that I loved so much. We had discovered a wonderful new toy, and that little role play game was so nice we did it again and again over the week end, morning sex, nooner sex, afternoon delight, and late at night, whispering to each other what it was for us as a really nice turn on for us together, and individually, for him, and for me. Before the week end was over Aly and I were constantly so close together, so loving, so romantically and sexually close. We each knew it was something special. It was like we had achieved a major milestone in our marriage relationship. It was a wonderful thing. On Sunday evening I cried in his arms because the week end was over, and I knew he had to travel again the next day. A couple of months later one of his buddies at Pearl Harbor got orders to go to Afghanistan to join a roughneck Marine unit in a place that was not very nice. Aly came home and told me about it, and he wanted to know what I thought about inviting his buddy to come over for a week end before he left for Afghanistan? He also mentioned that his buddy was not married and had no current girl friend to give him a nice send off. I already knew the guy and liked him so I told Aly to go ahead and make the invite, but in my mind I knew exactly what was in Aly's mind. It only took me five seconds to understand that my duty to Aly was to first of all serve him, and to accept what he wanted for us, and for me. It was his idea, his choice, and his timing, etc. I was first of all there for my hubby, and that made me feel good. It made me feel sexy, and needed, and I wanted to help him to make it happen. I wanted to make him happy in a new experience he wanted for both of us. About three months later it happened again with another of his buddies, but I didn't know the guy this time. He was a total stranger for me this time and that made me a little nervous, but the guy was really nice, he made me laugh, and that was when we discovered the little ritual that Aly likes to do. Aly likes to be the one to take off my panties, and then turn me around to face the guy as if making a presentation of me to our male friend. The guy got really excited with me, and that turned me on for him, and before it was over we nearly fucked each other's brains out right in front of Aly who enjoyed watching that as much as his friend and I enjoyed it. I believe that is the moment Aly turned into a 39th degree voyeur. LOL I have asked Aly about 100 times why he enjoys watching me like that, and at first he didn't know how to answer, but he thought about it and then he explained that sometimes the focus of his pleasure is on seeing and understanding my pleasure, and that somehow that makes me even better for him. He says the experience that I get makes me more sexy to him all the time. We are very committed in our marriage, and we have talked a lot, and we agree that emotional relationships are genuine, but monogamy is not natural. We also agree that if we ever detected a problem we would stop, but we communicate so fantastically I don't see that happening for a very long time. He loves watching me orgasm with another man, and I love it because he wants me to. In the beginning he controlled. He made the man choice for me, etc., but over time that has mellowed a bit to allow me to make suggestions, who, what, when, where, etc., and with more time it evolved even more. Aly travels in his business a lot, sometimes extensively, especially when he travels Asia. His business is such that he can headquarter himself on a regional basis, and because I am such a fair weather island girl we live at our primary home on Oahu during the mainland winter, and in the spring we move to either Las Vegas or New York City depending on his business opportunities. Next year he thinks maybe we will split our time between spring and fall between LV and NYC. I admit I am a bit of a subby to my hubby, and sometimes that can transfer to another man if the man is interesting enough to me, but usually that only happens when my hubby is present, because after all, I am doing it for him. In my mind it is like... I have to do it because he wants me too. It doesn't happen often, but sometimes in certain situations the sub part of me literally thrills with wonderful feelings that makes me want to be available to whoever the next man is that walks in the door. It is mainly in my mind, but when I have those feelings I love it because it is like he is making me fuck, and it doesn't matter who it is because I have to do it for him. I suspect that is a major psychological part of any woman who is a genuine hot wife in the strict definition. Incidentally, we don't like the word "cuckold" because that can often imply the husband is a weak man, a sissy, the woman rules, because that is not the way it is for us. My hubby is a strong man in his own right and he simply enjoys the sharing part. We prefer the term "hot wife," but the words are only semantics and we don't care about that much anymore. We know who we are, and why we are, and what we enjoy, and that's the main thing for us. We don't apply so many labels because when the time comes... just take me there and make me fuck  I love it like that. That's a part of Aly's enjoyment when he takes my panties off and turns me to face the other man. As the pandemic dies out, hopefully sooner than later, Aly and I want to explore more. We are experienced enough now to know what we like, and he wants to raise my sexual bar higher. We initially thought it was enough when we opened our marriage for both of us to begin dating others separately, but that was only a little while before the pandemic hit. All we know at the moment is we want to experience more of whatever it is we are missing, and we are not sure what that is. We are open to ideas, but not to things that we simply are not interested in like BDSM, dom personalities, or pain, and things we consider to be disgusting. More power to whoever likes those things, but those things are not for us. Aly just wants me to fuck men and sometimes women, but we don't yet know how it is going to happen, and in what situations. Like I said, we are open to ideas, but I repeat every day in the messages I receive… not today, not tomorrow, not next week, probably not next month, but when the pandemic is settled and society is safe enough, and I don't give a fig what the on the take politicians say. It is NOT normal times yet. Be smart, or stay the hell away from us. My mother died of Covid last year, and I am still fucking pissed at the dumbshit asshole so called leaders because her death was preventable if there had been any sort of reasonable leadership of the country. I'm out. Readers… cut loose, say what you think, comment however you like, and I invite you to have a nice orgasmic day |
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7/12/2021 4:37 am |
I would love to have you be shared with me...
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Glad you are open to most possibilities!! Thats very sexy!!!! 
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My friend, I am quite pleased that you both feel so comfortable with each other. It is a rare quality. I wish you the best hunting when you feel it is appropriate. Once again, I am sorry for your loss. Please know, despite the lunacy of the resistance, public health is doing everything it can to slow and contain the pandemic. “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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Gentlemen... Thank you for your understanding, and the nice words (curtsy) LOL
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My friend, I am quite pleased that you both feel so comfortable with each other. It is a rare quality. I wish you the best hunting when you feel it is appropriate. Once again, I am sorry for your loss. Please know, despite the lunacy of the resistance, public health is doing everything it can to slow and contain the pandemic. The entire health industry in general has my highest respect for what they are doing to try to help so many. As far as I am concerned they are the heroes of the millennium thus far, and the on the take politicians who are the most immoral, most unethical, most criminally corrupt, as well as being the biggest conspiracy jackasses... are causing people to die unnecessarily.
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7/12/2021 2:34 pm |
OMG, you look so yummy in that pic...
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OMG, you look so yummy in that pic...
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"He says the experience that I get makes me more sexy to him all the time. " Now there's a lucky man who truly gets it! Yes, I agree the whole cuck thing is truly misunderstood & misdefined. Aly is no subby hubby, more like a lucky ducky!  btw: That pix & your hair color are DYNOMITE!  Talliekins, on a serious note: Profound condolences on your mom. Truly sad to hear & so unnecessary. Hope you take solace in the fond memories and keep a piece of her in your heart eternally... 
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"He says the experience that I get makes me more sexy to him all the time. " Now there's a lucky man who truly gets it! Yes, I agree the whole cuck thing is truly misunderstood & misdefined. Aly is no subby hubby, more like a lucky ducky! btw: That pix & your hair color are DYNOMITE! Talliekins, on a serious note: Profound condolences on your mom. Truly sad to hear & so unnecessary. Hope you take solace in the fond memories and keep a piece of her in your heart eternally...
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7/13/2021 3:36 am |
I can understand Aly enjoying watching you taking a strangers cock. I enjoy seeing the pleasure in wife’s eyes as she sucks a new strangers cock. My wife does like to see her GF suck me off occasionally also. I hope you two continue your marriage as you get older.
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Actually we are not like many others who always seem to be on a constant hunt. We just roll with the flow and occasionally enjoy a spontaneous moment when an interesting opportunity occurs. As far as we are concerned it won't be appropriate until/unless Covid is adequately contained. The Delta is in our area now big time, and I can hardly believe there are so many local dumbasses in these western states that have thrown away the mask, and with to many others that have gone blithering stupid by refusing the vaccination. The entire health industry in general has my highest respect for what they are doing to try to help so many. As far as I am concerned they are the heroes of the millennium thus far, and the on the take politicians who are the most immoral, most unethical, most criminally corrupt, as well as being the biggest conspiracy jackasses... are causing people to die unnecessarily. I completely agree. I don't think history will be kind to some folks. “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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Love your post, amazing lifestyle your and your hubby have xx
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So tragic to hear about your Mom. Certainly, she was very special, loving, and loved because that comes through in your own posts. You must be so much like her, and I hope that gives you some solace. I actually came here to read your blog that you mentioned because of your comment to something I wrote about. Witnessing first-hand the type of person you are was such a pleasure, and not always something you see on sites like these. Thank you for your kind words. In so many ways, I'm not sure I really belong here. I guess that is why I've held back from re-up to Gold again. And yet, when I come across someone like you, it gives me hope that I just might find someone special who thinks about others first, not just 'what is in it for them'. How refreshing. Again, thank you for your caring words, both related to my wife and to how we chose to continue having a loving relationship even though no longer married. All the best.
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The more you talk about Aly's reaction to your sexcapades, the more I think I'd like my wife to take a lover - or at least an NSA hookup while I watch. (Not likely, though.) Nothing changes faster than the speed of love. - Rush
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You weren't kidding.... lol! Thats cool, we are on the same page Im open minded and open hearted willing to explore sexuality, join my movement and lets move together.
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