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Website Questions and Tips or Tricks
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Website Questions and Tips or Tricks Hey all, Since I'm relatively new here, I was wondering the best way to go about using the site. Is it even worth it to friend request non-gold members since they can't chat unless they have enough points which they will never have. What's the best way to stand out without paying extravagant amount of for VIP and other plans? Here are some community questions I have that will differ for each of you. What does a flirt mean to you? What brought you to this site and or what were you expecting? How many bots do you see on average? Thanks, diatonic_muse69 |
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Flirts mean nothing. Most are the wrong age and or not near me and or attached. Why I joined has since changed and can again. Only had one not every few months or so send the same exact same im. Two other guys who might of been scammers. Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth. If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.
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11/15/2020 5:03 pm |
Thank you! That's super helpful!
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Profile "views" are often faked or auto-generated by the site too, just in case you weren't aware. It is just a way to trigger some interaction. No harm in sending a message in response to a "view" if you think you could be a good match, but be aware of opening a message with "Thanks for viewing my profile" when indeed they didn't even know you existed until that point. Some flirts can be auto-generated too, so as BiggLaLa has mentioned, treat them with caution. There are bots and/or fake profiles about but thankfully their presence had dropped off over the years, probably as the membership has faded away over the years. They should be fairly easy to spot, just report them to Admin and let them deal with it. What brought me to the site - lack of self-confidence. I felt that if I was rejected on here via a message (or got no response at all), it would hurt less than if I was turned down face to face. Been here on-and-off for 17 years and have made a couple of good friends and met just one or two. Not looking to meet any more now, just here to blog and chat in the room to pass some time.
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"What's the best way to stand out without paying extravagant amount of for VIP and other plans?" A polite well-worded email. Sent only to those women who are open to your age/distance/bodytype/etc. No flirt, hotlist, chat, flowers, VIPstatus will work better than an introductory email. I believe that, as a gold, you have the option to make sure the recipient can read your email even tho they themselves might not be gold. Including your offsite contact (in an obscured type of way to avoid site censors) info like your email or chat app name is also a good way to increase replies.
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11/16/2020 6:50 pm |
Thanks everyone for all your responses! They’ve been really insightful regarding the nature of this site and how to use it. Another question popped into my head and it’s for the women of the site. When you check out a profile, what are you checking for and what is likely to turn you away from friending someone or messaging?
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