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Blogs > DSwirl38 > My insights into sexuality

pleasure vs control in sexual activity  

DSwirl38 50M
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5/25/2020 4:10 pm
pleasure vs control in sexual activity

I have found a lot of people who act out control issues in their life through sexual activity. Often times a feeling of powerlessness in our daily activities becomes unhealthy dynamics in the bedroom. How many times do men degrade their partners through their sexual acts. Or women micromanage every detail to the point that ruins the experience.
Grabbing a woman's head and force feeding your cock down her throat as if she is not a person but an object is an act that diminishes her as a way to bolster his ego. This is not something a healthy person does to someone they care about... this is not an act of love... Yet this act is widely celebrated by men and women. Women try to excel at it in a misguided attempt to find value and worth.
It doesn't stop there, in so many way people act out their feelings of inadequacy by playing into different sexual roles this way. Instead of conquering their issues they reinforce them and call it pleasure.
True pleasure can only be found in healthy acceptance of yourself and your partner. It can only be given to you and never taken by you.
If you would rather control the way in which your partner satisfies you than allow them to give you satisfaction, you will never reach the levels of ecstasy the human body is capable of. And will remain blinded to the possibility of more. It is only when you let go can greater things be found.
Satan said "it is better to rule in hell, than to serve in heaven" I implore people to look in themselves and see where their existence is and open their eyes to just the possibility of what can be.
You cannot live in both places

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