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Playing Solitaire till dawn..............  

Eviloutlaw1 62M
4432 posts
5/26/2007 2:21 am
Playing Solitaire till dawn..............


With a deck of fifty one. Smoking cigarettes and watching Captain Kangaroo, now don't tell me I've nothing to do...
Trouble with being single is that life's realities don't live up to the single life's reputation. Meaning...that single folks don't really have it that easy.
Sure, we're free to do what we want, when we want. But, usually there's nothing to do. And no one to do it with. Least wise in my case. I work two jobs..ok one and a half really. One of my jobs is part time that would be the half job. That takes about fifteen hours a week of my time. (those hours being taken out of the weekends) My other job is your standard forty hour a week, making the grand total hours for a normal week being 55. Now when I say normal, that's baring any unforeseen hitches. Like covering for the other guy who works the same job I do but covers the rest of the "normal" work week for that position. If he's off sick I'm called in, as was the case last thursday. So, as I'm writing this post I'm working on only two hours of sleep time for the past three days. (forgive me if I get a little fuzzy on things, or if I ramble) Anywho, back to my point....which was things to do and people to do things with. Being a member of Polyamory Date I try to make contact with others in the lifestyle, that I think, would be good people to hang with. Checking out profiles to see if we'd be compatible. Sending out mail, or invites to those whom match some of my interests. Very few, take the time to respond...either in the positive or the negative.
So what's a somewhat good looking guy too do? Well if it were a game of football I could drop back five yards and punt, hoping to run the clock out. But it's not a game. It's life.
The thing is I'm not looking to have sex with everyone I meet off here, Let's face it there ain't enough hours in a day to sleep with everyone who catches my eye. Not to mention the amount of stamina that would take to accomplish.
What I am looking for is to make some friends, people who don't have the hang up's of societies blue nose's. People, who if the chemistry is right that could become more than "just friends", and perhaps a woman I could eventually settle down with and share a life.
I don't know, maybe I'm asking too much? All I do know is that there has got to be more to life than working and playing solitaire till dawn.

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