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Waffling about pics  

Serenity_Jayne 52F
11 posts
1/8/2020 10:55 am
Waffling about pics

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Yours_4A_knight 59M

1/8/2020 11:38 am

I saw some fairly reasonable advise today that was more directed at women, and that is to have a simple profile with no pictures and very little in the way of details and actually being selective about who you approach, we get so little attention that when I had a paid profile I never did not respond to a woman reaching out to me even when I was sure that she was not going to workout as a real meet

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needattn69 54M

1/8/2020 11:55 am

its all in the mystery. no pic...you might get less looks, partial...a lot more. honestly, you could post a pic of your big toe and get a hundred messages as soon as you log in. guys will hit on you regardless of what you put up


VeryWelllHung4Fu 46M
2 posts
1/8/2020 12:00 pm

Understand your reticence in posting pics but on a site like this it is pretty much needed if you are going to have any meaningful interactions. If you're not a fan of taking selfies a cropped pic always works!


Knight_Skye29 68M
161 posts
1/8/2020 12:33 pm

best to be safe


forgotforgetting 57M
8134 posts
1/8/2020 2:14 pm

It's a tough decision. I had some body-shot pictures up when I first joined, but I started to get some recognition in places and I situations I didn't want.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde


easy_going2014 57M
14366 posts
1/8/2020 7:35 pm

if you're looking for lunchtime quickies

just go 2 your nearest "Waffle House" and flip a coin

pick "heads" or "tails" after it lands

just sayin'

made me think of this

Sam Cooke - "Wonderful World"

Don't know much about history
Don't know much biology
Don't know much about a science book
Don't know much about the French I took
But I do know that I love you
And I know that if you love me, too
What a wonderful world this would be
Don't know much about geography
Don't know much trigonometry
Don't know much about algebra
Don't know what a slide rule is for
But I do know one and one is two
And if this one could be with you
What a wonderful world this would be

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justaguyinalaska 57M
879 posts
1/9/2020 2:15 am

Ironically, many of the photos posted with profiles bear little resemblance to reality, so loading up your profile with an album generates minimal credibility....though (as pointed out in other comments) pix will stimulate interest- both good and bad.

My suggestion: use your blog to present yourself, your interests and your aspirations. You will at least screen for basic literacy, which is a start.

Welcome!


profcoquin27bis 59M
4323 posts
1/9/2020 6:20 am

welcome


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
1/9/2020 6:55 am

I fully understand about not wanting to post face pictures - I don't either.

But after reading what you're seeking on your profile, I think you should seriously consider posting some bod shots. Most cameras have timer modes these days, or simply shoot into a mirror. OR make it a first date event to take some shots for posting!

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