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'Confirmed' male profiles. What gives?  

Rochblue 46F
12 posts
11/3/2019 1:00 am
'Confirmed' male profiles. What gives?


I'm a little confused about why men have profiles/pics that have a 'confirm' status attached to them. Normally I just laugh to myself when I see these. Why? Because I think we can all agree that this site is a complete meat market and there are probably literally dozens of men per each legitimate female is on site. When a man says he's a man, nobody questions that fact, nor has any reason to suspect otherwise. Women don't catfish and pretend to be men. The only people on site we really ever suspect to be fake are only the females. So what am I missing here? Is there some critical piece to my lack of understanding of why men would need to confirm and prove their identity to be real, when in fact we can likely be assured that 99.9999999999% of the men claim they are men, are indeed men! I chuckle when i see these 'confirmed' profiles/pics attached to heir bio. Am I missing something here? Thoughts anyone?

SpunkyMonkeyz58 65M

5/18/2020 7:39 am

I do not understand this so called feature either my dear Makes completely no sense to me Have a great day my dear


nomdeplume111 43M
80 posts
9/12/2021 11:48 am

I think it's a reference to having submitted your ID for verification by an Polyamory Date employee. I guess the psychology behind it is proving to a potential mate that you're trustworthy.


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