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" My Experience with Me Making the First Move"  

BBW56Sally 52F
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11/13/2019 3:53 pm

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11/13/2019 4:03 pm

" My Experience with Me Making the First Move"


I have tried over and over being the one to make the first move on both gentlemen and ladies, but all I get is rejection... for the most part most my messaged are ignored although the person/s are regular visitors to my profile for<b> viewing </font></b>I am very sure, less for reading my profile... HAHA!

So when I see a man, lady or couple visit my profile repeatedly. I go view their profile and if I am attracted and interested in the person/s I have tried to make the first move in contacting them... Some times I do get a very nice message back saying " thank you, but I am not interested in you" I do appreciate that person/s honesty and consideration to respond back to me.

But for the most part I do not get any response. I always answer all my messages and IM's (well I must say I get bombarded with IM's at time and can not get to everyone, but I do try to contact them back as soon as if finish with all the IM's I was currently on) I believe everyone should be answered even if I am not attracted to them, I tell them so and thank them for considering me.

But there is a 1% -5% of people that do answer back that are truly rude... Yesterday, I noticed a gentleman who visits my profile very regularly over the last 9 months I finally got up the nerve to send the what I thought was a Gentleman a message. I always thank them for vising my profile and have notice them for a while and wanted to extend an offer if he was interested in me in the flesh to contact me... Yes, he contacted me back with " I will come and fuck your face, but that is all. After reading your profile I am not interested"

I messaged him back that I would gladly suck his cock, but before I do he must eat my pussy and make me cum a few times first...

HAHA! his response was "Before I touch you we must meet and I would decide after our meeting...." I was rolling on the floor at this point... I deleted him and moved on... But as I am deleting the message I am wandering what kind of man would stick his cock in a ladies mouth and not touch her.... Why would he expect to get his cocked sucked or does he... Is he just being ugly to me?

Look I always want to meet the person, but must meet in my home also where I HOST since I am disabled and homebound.... then decide where we go from there..... I must say I have had some wild first meeting... Like the man who came over to meet me and just lived a few blocks from me... He walks in my home, introduces himself and looks around my home and when his back was to me pulls out his cock... He turns around and shows me his cock and says "this what I will fuck you with"... I smiled and said " yes, ok" he puts his cock back in his pants and leaves.... for two weeks I got an video of him jerking off ever night after he got home from work... at which time I told him to stop sending me the videos.... He was shocked and wanted to know why... I told him I did not enjoy watching him jerk off when we could be fucking ….. He said but I had planned too.... I told him it was taking him to long to decide....

Any man that response to me " I will fuck your face, but nothing else" I always respond with eat my pussy first.... because I always know in advance it will never happen.... but is my way to nicely tell them to move on....

I will never understand a mans sexual drives, desires, needs to be pleased and to not please a lady back.... SORRY! Not all men, I chat with many that say they are in to pleasing the lady first before they will cum or have any attention given to them...

Thank you, For reading my Blog and if you have ideas, a response, experience you wish to share please do I enjoy reading any thing that is sent to me and I do take all that is said to me seriously and constructively...



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