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Calling Sex "Fun" Is Irritating  

blaquemelania18 47F
32 posts
5/31/2019 4:57 pm
Calling Sex "Fun" Is Irritating

Sex is sex. Playing cards is fun...

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
5/31/2019 5:11 pm

 naked whist is the funnest


blaquemelania18 replies on 6/1/2019 12:00 am:
i'm more of a poker player.
get it?
poke-her...
terrible pun
please forgive me...

Cordonrouge5 59M  
109 posts
5/31/2019 6:00 pm

 If it's not fun, you're not doing it right.


blaquemelania18 replies on 6/1/2019 12:02 am:
true, but there's more to sex than just "fun". it isn't a casual way to waste time. at least it isn't for me.

pagancountrygirl 66F
Ask me for a photo
6466 posts
5/31/2019 6:13 pm

 So I guess calling it playing would be out of the question? lol
As Cordonrouge5 said, if it's not fun, you're not doing it right.
Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


blaquemelania18 replies on 6/1/2019 12:04 am:
playing, to me, is a different viewpoint altogether. from my admittedly poor understanding of psychology, play is an important part of the learning process. and i like to think that, when you're with a lover, you're learning to read and reflect each other's energies. play would be an apt description for that interaction. "fun" would not.

Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
5/31/2019 6:16 pm

 Sure, that makes sense...since sex isn't always fun with the person you're with, at that time.

To be accurate, sex can be fun, but isn't always. "Coming" is fun. But mostly for men, since women can't always get that release.


blaquemelania18 replies on 6/1/2019 12:05 am:
lol there's definitely that aspect. but if all i wanted to do was cum, i could stay home and masturbate and do it faster and probably better than anyone else could. i like having sex with other people because i like to connection.

easy_going2014 57M
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14366 posts
5/31/2019 6:53 pm

 thanks for sharing...

made me think of this...

Alison Krauss - "Moments Like This"

What a dying world redefines
The reasons we strive to exist
Refrain control or we're bound to learn
The meaning of moments like this
'Cause in the peaceful lull, the quiet spell
Seduced by the promise of bliss
We soon forget that nothing's happened yet
We're living for moments like this
So hold me, whisper gently
This is what we live for, how we learn who we are
It defines us, ever reminding us
That life never is more precious than this
From the dim light in the greyness
The aim of the soul tends to miss
But then the clouds catch fire and the oceans pitch
We're made for the moments like this...
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justskin1 72M
13175 posts
5/31/2019 7:55 pm

 I hate when they use is as a euphenism for sex. Why are they afraid to say they are looking for sex?
If you see me in the real world, come say "Hi Justskin."

I always behave. Preferably not well.


blaquemelania18 replies on 6/1/2019 12:07 am:
exactly!! we are all adults and we all know why we're here. calling it fun denotes either a lack of intelligence or a sense of guilt around the subject of sex. both of those qualities usually mean the guy just isn't any "fun" himself.

pketch 50M

5/31/2019 8:02 pm

 Good point. Agreed.


Nando69love 37M

6/1/2019 9:26 pm

 Sex is sex, and your pics are hot as you. Kisses


BlackPussyRules 59M
913 posts
6/2/2019 10:15 am

 It depends more on your definition of “sex”. Sexual activity between humans has evolved significantly from when the purpose of sex was simply procreation, it involves “fun” and, with the right person, lots of fun. There are hundreds of ways of making sex more fun as I am sure a woman with your substantial levels of sexual appeal is well aware. Fun, intimacy and intense sexual chemistry go hand in hand.


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