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Don't judge a deviant by their kinks.  

StagSeekingVixen 32M
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1/3/2019 10:25 am
Don't judge a deviant by their kinks.


There are two halves to every whole.
There are two sides to a coin.
And I believe there are two sides to every person.

At least, I know that to be true for myself. I suppose I am writing this to try and explain the predicament I sometimes find myself in.

On the surface, I am a very normal person. I have my goals, my dreams, my ambitions. Sure I'm in the military, I guess that's something out of the ordinary. But I am only in the<b> military </font></b>to get free college, so that I may realize my goals. I play games, watch movies and pursue my hobbies just like anyone else. And like anyone else, I want nothing more that to find someone to love and share the rest of my life with.

But on the other side of my coin, there is a dark, sexually depraved, kinky deviant, waiting for the coin to be flipped.

This other side of me causes discomfort with some people I meet, especially when it comes to women that I am trying to date. But it is a part of who I am. And sometimes, people just can't except that. It has ruined friendships, and it has sometimes ruined my attempts at finding love. And when I find someone loyal and open-minded, who shares these passions and fantasies with me, it will be truly remarkable. I want to be able to share my thoughts, my fantasies and my deepest darkest curiosities and desires with someone without feeling judged.

One thing to remember: What we enjoy behind closed doors (or in movie theaters, restaurants, parking lots, trains and cars), does not define who we are, it's just what we like. Who we are, is something that you find by really talking to someone. Learn about them.

Give them a chance. The kinky people are *people* too.

Signed,
The Stag Without a Vixen

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