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Vanislandvibes 37M
7 posts
12/20/2018 9:04 pm
Using aff as a free member


Just seeing who want to talk about this and see what we can do

Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
12/21/2018 12:55 am

Here's a tip . . .
A. Set up a Private Mail Box on your blog... It will allow anyone to leave you a message without having to send you an email (which as a Standard Member), you can't read anyway. Go check out my blog and see how it looks.
It's easy to set up.
1. Pin your post to the top of your blog.
2. Make sure all comments are "preview only'
3. When you reply to a poster - make sure you REPLY and don't QUOTE and then all comments remain private

B. In your blogs . . after you post a topic... put in YOUR Own comment in the comments field - it will appear on the Polyamory Date main page and give you some traction so others can comment and see your blog.

C. Fill out your profile to the 'nines' to get as many points as possible . This will enable you to buy into some things like - looking at a persons profile . ..etc.

D. Go to the Main Blog Page and Check out some of the top bloggers as they offer contests to WIN POINTS (see mamacita ). You can win enough points for a year - sometimes

E. On IM you get three shots per day . . Don't waste them on random people, try to find people on line (green light) who are in your area . .

This site is a cluster fuck but if you have a sense of humor . . . it works. It works for me. I've been GOLD and I've been Standard . . . Its all good. Advantages with both. They (Polyamory Date) have a half price sale going on sometimes . . . if money is an issue.

So there you go. All set up to take advantage of what a free roamer can take advantage of. Right ? Best of luck . . and have fun.


J_Jordan1920 31M

12/21/2018 3:44 am

You’re a legend....props man


FresnoWoman 53F
883 posts
12/21/2018 10:46 am

And to add to what Paul said about only 3 IMs a day, try to read the first bit of a woman's profile. As a basic member, you can't read profiles unless a gold member pays extra to let basic members read it, but you can hover over the picture and read the first couple of lines. This is to find out if you're what she's looking for before you message her.

And edit your own profile so you can get the most important info about yourself into the first sentence because that's all a basic member is going to be able to read. By the way, it's spelled "discreet," not "discrete."

Also, all four of your pictures are marked naughty so I can see only the gray blurred version. This is good in itself but there aren't any non-naughty pics for me to look at. Consider using at least one clothed picture (doesn't have to show your face) because I won't reply to men who don't have at least one non-naughty picture when I hover over their picture.


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
12/21/2018 1:07 pm

And when you make a Naughty photo , Don't do it in the toilet!!!! And do you think other maybe's would like to see you making it with some one, Listen to all the above, This place works, it is fun but try some respect of yourself first. Just my opinion on what I find that works. Enjoy the day..

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
12/21/2018 1:10 pm

and when you make a photo, clean up the back ground, your sink likes like you washed off your dirty shoes in it...

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
12/22/2018 5:34 pm

I just re-up for $4 a month... can't beat it..

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


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