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SO FUCKING ANNOYED  

NYCFuckbuddy85 38M
3 posts
4/26/2019 11:34 am
SO FUCKING ANNOYED

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plzthese40ds 49M/46F

1/17/2022 3:18 am

Lol welcome to the wonderful world of online dating sites in the modern age. There would be so much to cover within just that short paragraph you're written that it would take a book for me to dissect and explain everything you've said in that one breath. In a somewhat summary of it all: True, plenty of fakes on these sites and since very few real women exist here, the fakes are what actually keep this site in business and profitable. There's two things going on here:
1 .) The site itself and their only care to generate profit. Period!
2 .) The male members here like you who flock to this site by the millions, which is essentially void of mostly any real women.
That massive gender imbalance of like 500:1 isn't something that a site like this can work out to be in your favor! Almost every guy on this site is in your same shoes, frustrated and seeking females for sex ( which is almost non-existent! ).

"im a bit frustrated with every fucking site i go too and i literally just want to meet up..." - Something you should realize is that this site is umbrellaed under the mother site which is called the Friend Finder Network ( FFN ). It's said that the FFN owns something to the order of 30,000 sites in total. If that's anywhere close to the truth, then that means that every dating site you have probably ever heard of in your life is a sister site which is owned by the FFN. That also likely means that the same nonsense you find here, you'll find there with the fakes, the games, the gimmicks, the lies, the corruption, the endless money greed. Additionally, the internet is essentially one gigantic network of the same people on earth. In many cases, the same people you see on this site are the exact same ones you'll find on the other ones ( including the assholes ).

Lastly, I realize this blog is of you venting your frustrations and all, but coming here and losing your temper, cursing, ranting, SHOUTING, and flipping off is literally getting you farther from success than what you're actually trying to accomplish here. Those who succeed do so because they make a good impression to the women. Showing up and publicly being a hot-head only reflects on you as being an angry, aggressive and nasty individual to the women ( such a turn-off! ). It makes you appear to the outside world as being unhinged, someone who has anger management problems and someone who has potential abusive tendencies. Most women would go running from the hills if they're read this blog. There are also plenty of rude and ignorant people out there and these days society has gotten to be uncivil, inconsiderate and disrespectful toward each other by default. That's sad, but the reality behind it is that it'll be expected that people won't communicate with you ( ghosting ) by not leaving messages, acknowledgement or a simple "no thank you, not interested". It's massively frustrating, yet it's reality. What's also reality is that we're not in 1969 or even in the early 2000's anymore. Times have changed, my friend. Very few women out there are openly just going to be willing to just meet you on the fly in public, hang out a while and head to the bedroom. NO!!! Today's women are largely much more reserved than that. Most want official "dates" and only after you've talked to that woman for a massive amount of time online ( weeks, months or even years ). Some won't kiss on first dates. Women don't want "real, serious, fuck buddies"....we want "real, serious relationships, or meaningful long term friendships"!!!! Sooo what you seek is essentially a complete slut. Sorry for the abrupt dose of reality here, but I think that'll be a tall order to find.

Something I see a lot of is when men show up on the site, expecting to find success in some way, yet putting next to no time, dedication, effort or patience into the matter.


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