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Aff is not the worst it's not  

tiredkitty 43F
184 posts
9/24/2019 4:08 pm
Aff is not the worst it's not

Know I've been in this lifestyle for many years, and my husband have used it as a way to excite us not just a thrilling aspect of our life. It's a turn-on for us, it's a use of<b> foreplay </font></b>it's a way we provide erotic pleasure. We've been on many sites over the years, used many things to find playmates and Friends. Know to this Craigslist was the best. This place is the next best thing we have used compared to the other sites. Too bad, people ruin that section on Craigslist.
For those who don't know why it worked was simple. The thing is you make an ad, and then people have to open it and read what you want and are looking for. Then only those interested in what you wrote answer it with an email. Then you look through emails, you say yes or no to each one. Then either you email back or you don't , Sometimes maybe you\ get a conversation going, or not. If it don't work you send another ad . With your new ad you change the wording a little bit (or a lot) re post and see what happens. rinse and repeat to you get a connection. But it worked it was easy to use and people never asked what you looking for.

Here, no one fucking bothers reading shit. Everything people want is in profiles or should be, yet so many people make you deal with them who have not read more than "its female." In my opinion, if you don't bother reading, I shouldn't even be trying to talk to you about it or waste time to convince you what my profile already says.
Then other sites are even worse than this site, and i have been a member to more than a few. it's the lay outs and the search engines, the mailing system they are often more hungry than here when it comes to letting people connect.
Polyamory Date has possibilities, but I get so tired of it. All the time boys ruin it with their words and boy brains. So I really don't know what would be best people. I hold to the idea if people would just read and listen this site could function so much better.

Then just maybe I would be less of cunt to every boy who messages me.

Giveitago412 65M/60F
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10/13/2019 5:44 pm

 I agree with you that Polyamory Date is better than most people on here give it credit for. We have been on and off it over the years and have met some people this way. A lot of single guys don't read profiles, but those same guys don't write anything in their own profiles. I was all set to try Craigslist but that is the week they shut down their personals. I wish they had not. We have tried SLS with modest success. We have tried Fetlife which isn't really meant as a site to hook up on, but some people do. We have not had any luck doing so on Fet but have gotten some inquiries. For all its faults, Polyamory Date seems to be the best we have tried.


mrquiet88 35M

9/24/2019 8:33 pm

 Polyamory Date isn't horrible, but it would be nice to be able to read more of someone's profile. Only being able to see a line of someone's profile makes things difficult.


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