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Another Auld Lang Syne  

infinitepoetry 54F  
104 posts
1/2/2020 11:04 am
Another Auld Lang Syne

I am kissing 2019 goodbye with the end of a decidedly hard year.
My husband/master had to return to the UK in order to get treatment and to bring his family there. That didn't work quite like we planned. That's how the cookie crumbles.

I'm trying to navigate returning to being single and now labeled as a widow. I'm not quite sure what other people think when they meet me and I am known as a widow. I'm sure it is intimidating and it makes someone think they might not want to tackle that. I can't say that I blame them. But the truth is, my Master's absence for that year cushions the blow and started to prepare me for what I'm facing now. And if you didn't know it, a widow usually means great sex because we usually haven't had any for quite some time

Typically, I would write a poem and be evasive with you, my readers. You would not read the whole truth in verbose wording. Or else, it would be hidden in some flowery words that are metaphorical. No, the simple fact is I loved him and he's gone. He found me on the blogs and now I have returned ever wiser than I was years ago.



It appears that we change but Polyamory Date does not. There are still the amount of fakers and scammers. There is still the frustrating reality that most people think way more of themselves than they really are. And there is also the disappointment of meeting new people time and time again and being disillusioned because they just don't meet up to the expectations you had online or in your fantasy.
I guess I defy the odds because he read my blog, messaged me and ended up moving from the UK and we spent a decade of loving one another, all because of blogging...



The following is your words of wisdom from the widow.on Polyamory Date:
1. If you don't try, you might as well buy some cats and become the cat person. Giving up your search isn't going to make it happen. .
2. If you are intrigued by someone, message them today and tell them that you want to meet. This brings it back to the beginning, it won't happen otherwise.
3. It is better to have loved and lost than not at all. Try to put your fear in check.
4. Start treating everyone with the premise that they may be giving hyperbole when it comes to what they think of themselves. It is an ally if that's what you think inside your head but it doesn't make it reality either. However time tells all...
5. Keep your faith that fate lends a hand. There is no denying chemistry and if it is there, you'd be a fool to pass it up.
6. Live everyday like it's your last because it may be. And don't ever let a day go by that you don't tell those that you love that you do.

For the rest of you that are here looking for a love potential or aren't looking for anyone, or are just here to read the blogs,.. I tip my hat to you for a new year filled with joyous moments and happiness.


infinitepoetry 54F  
96 posts
1/2/2020 11:09 am

OK I give up! Why are they posting 2 of every first image now? UGH Polyamory Date!!!


dimibooshi 67M

1/2/2020 11:16 am

All are great,i live by wisdom 6,,,thank you for putting these in writing


infinitepoetry replies on 1/2/2020 11:34 am:
You are very welcome

dimibooshi 67M

1/2/2020 11:19 am

Because your beauty deserves a second look,,,ill stick with that


infinitepoetry replies on 1/2/2020 11:33 am:
Thank you <3 I'll buy that explanation for about a millisecond

lucacarate 45M
64 posts
1/2/2020 11:41 am

sorry my photo! I just wanted to tell you that your 6 commandments deserve! and if I can it's 2020 then new life new friends ... you feel a lot of sadness in your blog! but believe me start a new life .. and what they think people do not care ... a big kiss from Italian luca


infinitepoetry replies on 1/2/2020 2:40 pm:

h4rry66 57M

1/2/2020 12:39 pm

Nice view. Thanks


infinitepoetry replies on 1/2/2020 2:02 pm:
Welcome

AmorphousAmor 64M
3574 posts
1/2/2020 1:39 pm

Gimme some truth... and you did... thanks!


infinitepoetry replies on 1/2/2020 2:02 pm:
My pleasure. Truth is something you get when dealing with an individual who has recently stared death in the face. It's just the way it is

mc_justmc 63M

1/2/2020 5:02 pm

While I'm not a cat person, I did pick up a 3rd dog last year....


infinitepoetry replies on 1/2/2020 5:39 pm:
What kind do you have? I have a Plott Hound, the least known dog in America but one of only four breeds originally bred in USA. I love dogs

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