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Why are people against being with married people?
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Why are people against being with married people? I understand some folks may have a morality issue with being with a married person. However, if you get past that, married guys (in my experience) are the most clean, healthy, and treat me like a queen. I read all these female profiles on here that say "no married men", etc, and I just don't get it. Ladies, find yourself a sex starved married guy and you won't be disappointed. They are so grateful, it's amazing. And as for worrying about getting caught by the wife? Don't be, it's the girlfriend that gets too attached and blows the whole deal (no pun intended). Don't try to break up the marriage, don't harass him with texts and calls, and you won't get caught. Play clean, play safe and you won't get caught. I think of it kind like the dos equis guy, I don't always fuck men, but when I do, I prefer married men. I've been with lots of married men, and I always have an amazing time. So, lighten the fuck up, ladies. And, have some amazing sex, fulfill some fantasies with some appreciative, sex crazed guys! |
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10/27/2018 11:06 am |
Well Luv, I can say the same about married women. About half of the women I've been with were married and not to me. You are right. Keep it cool, keep it clean and DON'T be needy. Blowing up his (or her) phone is the quickest way to end a relationship one way or the other. One of the greatest fucks I have ever had was with a woman named Anne. 30 years older than I at the time and by far the best lover I have ever had. She had no intentions of leaving her husband and I understood perfectly. Good times. Jimmy B. My blog JimmyB7474 is called Into The Woods (erotica) entertaining stories about a guy named Jimmy. Enjoy.
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What if you are both married...is that a level playing field??
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10/27/2018 11:50 am |
I would say that we are all adults and as adults, we must take accountability for our actions. If playing outside the marriage isn't allowed by the other spouse, be ready to accept the consequences if you get caught. But, isn't that half of the fun? The risk of being caught.
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I have been with several married men in my lifetime and I don't have an issue with the 'morality' of it. But ultimately, it's not for me. I don't like being on the bottom of someone's priority list. I don't like being a secret. I don't like the fact that I cannot communicate with him when I want. And that's the key to my issue with married men .... when I want can't exist. Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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10/27/2018 12:34 pm |
I'm a married man, and yes, my wife would go through the ceiling if I have sex with another woman. However she had sex on a regular basis before we married, with a married man. Now my wife is diabetic with libido issues due to her meds or something, and isn't no longer interested. She is the only one I have been with, having saved myself for marriage, unlike her. So what do I do?
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I've been with married women, in a couple setting, but I always had the rule of husband was either there, or told me to my face it was fine. I don't sleep with married women, not out a morality issue, but as a personal , principle issue. If I'm in a committed, exclusive relationship, I don't want anyone cheating on me. I'm not going to hold that standard out for someone else, then not hold myself to the same standard. Just one of my principles. I don't judge others who feel differently, in fact talk quite frequently in messages to someone who is married. Great lady. In the end, just like any other preference, everyone should just enjoy what is within their comfort zone. And not try to judge others, whose preferences don't match up to their own. Just my opinion. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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I have to agree with superbj... I want a man of.my own not to be his go to fuck when he feels like it.
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The girlfriend in these scenarios are the focus of the man's attention, as his wife usually has neglected him for a long time. So, the girlfriend really isn't second in line, if you think about it. It's just sex......
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I have to agree with you, they dont make sense! 
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I want to thank everyone for their input, whether you agree or disagree!
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For me, it's a matter of ethics. I don't want to be with someone who's deceiving his wife or girlfriend. He's not giving her the choice about what to do if he's sneaking around. So if he's lying to her or hiding this important activity from her, then what's he lying about or hiding from ME? A man who doesn't respect his wife isn't going to respect me either. I know polyamoury is a thing, and perhaps if I had met the wife and knew that she genuinely was fine with it, it might be acceptable. But I'm not going to take *his* word for it that she knows and is fine with it.
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I'm a married man, and yes, my wife would go through the ceiling if I have sex with another woman. However she had sex on a regular basis before we married, with a married man. Now my wife is diabetic with libido issues due to her meds or something, and isn't no longer interested. She is the only one I have been with, having saved myself for marriage, unlike her. So what do I do? I've been married and got divorced so I *know* it isn't easy, but it's the right thing to do. If your religion would condemn divorce as a sin, then it's also going to condemn adultery.
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It's not really about ethics, it's only about sex. The married men I've been with don't want to leave their wives and families, they just need some sexual needs fulfilled due to whatever the reason for lack of sex is at home.
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