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It's just a Hobby!  

Platosgames 102M
2246 posts
11/26/2018 1:08 pm
It's just a Hobby!

I was actually ready to get back to work today. Don't ask me why. And it didn't last long. The day was just chaotic to say the least. Left me just brain dead by the time I got home. So I'm thinking today would just be a good day to ask a question. Let the mind rest for a bit, or try to figure out what the hell made me all excited to get back to work.

SeaGirl posting pics of her pottery got me thinking today while I was driving around for work. Wondering things about having hobbies that can attract the opposite sex, (ok, I guess that needs to be same sex too). Hobbies that could lead to sex. The pottery made my mind jump immediately to the scene in Ghost. The pottery hobby certainly lead somewhere there.

I play guitar and sing. I write songs and sing them to people. I've been known to write songs about a lady or three. Certainly my hobby has led to some "attraction" of ladies. And yeah, some of those led to sex. So I would say, the guitar hobby would qualify.



Body boarding at the beach has led to a few meets. Seeing some good looking lady trying to board, and offering some help. Or ladies asking me where I got my board. I'm not sure that qualifies though, because maybe that one is just a "ice breaker" for them.

Hmmm,<b> yoga </font></b>I guess could. Any kind of hobby that involved getting around groups of people. But like I said, I'm feeling brain dead this afternoon, so I can't think of specifics.

Do you have any hobbies that have led to meeting people and/or relationships? Any that just led to sex? Maybe I could add to my hobby list. ?

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
11/26/2018 1:10 pm

And no...I know sex can be a hobby, but we already know that leads to sex. Well, wait....it has been an unused hobby of mine for a bit now. Sooo...

Also thought this was funny on the guitar memes.

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" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
11/26/2018 1:11 pm

And this one...

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" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
11/26/2018 1:28 pm

    Quoting  :

Well see, I like salt water fishing, and use to like golf. Can't say either of them ever got me anywhere with the ladies though.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
11/26/2018 1:29 pm

    Quoting  :

That's a cool looking acoustic.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
11/26/2018 1:49 pm

As like you music for me has led to intimate evenings for sure as I have this kind of sexy sultry type voice that men are just attracted to for some reason. And cooking with someone can also be sexy depending on what your making. So this was a great question really got me thinking. I hope you enjoy the rest of your day..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
11/26/2018 1:53 pm

    Quoting Tmptrzz:
    As like you music for me has led to intimate evenings for sure as I have this kind of sexy sultry type voice that men are just attracted to for some reason. And cooking with someone can also be sexy depending on what your making. So this was a great question really got me thinking. I hope you enjoy the rest of your day..
Now you have me wanting to hear you sing!!

Cooking is one I hadn't thought of. Maybe even a cooking class or something.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
11/26/2018 2:16 pm

    Quoting  :

Yeah, it does keep the hands a fingers in shape. haha

That is a great pillow. And another hobby I wouldn't have thought of.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


pagancountrygirl 66F  
6466 posts
11/26/2018 3:12 pm

I've had a couple of "hobbies" that had me around quite a few other people and lead to some dates...and possibly sex. Motorcycles. lol I rode for about 20 years back when you didn't see that many women with their own bikes. The Kawasaki 750 Turbo I rode got the attention of a lot of men! lol I also played with hot rods for a few years. Going shooting at the gun range is also a good way to meet a few people. I've also been known to do some leatherwork.

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
11/26/2018 3:18 pm

    Quoting  :

Well you know volunteering is all about giving. So If you meet another volunteer you can both give ...and recieve.

I already belong to a charity group. And it's damn near all women. But none of them suit my fancy. Bummer, that was a hobby I could have pursued.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
11/26/2018 3:23 pm

    Quoting pagancountrygirl:
    I've had a couple of "hobbies" that had me around quite a few other people and lead to some dates...and possibly sex. Motorcycles. lol I rode for about 20 years back when you didn't see that many women with their own bikes. The Kawasaki 750 Turbo I rode got the attention of a lot of men! lol I also played with hot rods for a few years. Going shooting at the gun range is also a good way to meet a few people. I've also been known to do some leatherwork.
Yeah, Motorcycles is a good way to meet people. I go to the gun range occasionally , but it's mostly guys there, so that's another one that just isn't gonna work our for me. LOL

You're a crafty person.. I don't do a lot of crafts. I do the soap and stuff still, but that's mainly just for my use, so I don't have to do it very often.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
11/26/2018 3:25 pm

    Quoting  :

I think I'm in the same boat. I still play and sing, but now that you mention it, it seems to be more of a solitary thing.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


SeaGirlFL 60F
9220 posts
11/26/2018 3:44 pm

I can't think of anything specifically that would lead to sex...but, I think there are lots of ways to meet people through shared interests...and pretty much any activity could probably work.

Though, I suspect the entire purpose of this question is to improve the odds, huh? Picking activities where one is more likely to find someone of the opposite sex.

I've taken a couple of cooking classes...and well...everyone else in the class was with someone, lol. I was the only single.

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
11/26/2018 4:07 pm

I don't have hobbies, but I have a few passions.
As a drummer I came close to meeting a girl ... once... And then there was this time, that I took a photo shoot of a woman who wanted her portfolio spiffed up... She wound up naked... Don't ask me how... Oh ... I'm great at bullshitting. . . . THAT is a hobby . . and that get's me NOWHere ... I don't have much to say.
I had my muffler fixed today. My car sounded like a fricken tank all weekend. ! Ever driven around in a tank ? Children and adults (alike) ran in terror... Yeah It's been one of those days .But it's all good. Car purrrrs now.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
11/26/2018 4:20 pm

    Quoting  :

Uhmmm . . . this distracted me from my response. I have an opening in the sex department. Hummm . . . perhaps I should rephrase that. I have an opportunity for you to volunteer for.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
11/26/2018 4:24 pm

So, on the hobby thing - auto racing. Even on the amateur level there have always been plenty of "tits in the pits." A well dressed man (in this case a fire suit) can do well with the ladies. I've had several relationships start with the smell of race fuel in the air.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
11/26/2018 5:02 pm

    Quoting SeaGirlFL:
    I can't think of anything specifically that would lead to sex...but, I think there are lots of ways to meet people through shared interests...and pretty much any activity could probably work.

    Though, I suspect the entire purpose of this question is to improve the odds, huh? Picking activities where one is more likely to find someone of the opposite sex.

    I've taken a couple of cooking classes...and well...everyone else in the class was with someone, lol. I was the only single.
It was just something I got thinking about...thanks to you and your pottery. LOL

Sometimes getting lost in thoughts that really don't have an answer is the only way I get through a crazy day. Today it was this. And yeah, was just thinking of hobbies that led me into meeting ladies.

And that would be me, I'd be the only single person in the class.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
11/26/2018 5:05 pm

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    I don't have hobbies, but I have a few passions.
    As a drummer I came close to meeting a girl ... once... And then there was this time, that I took a photo shoot of a woman who wanted her portfolio spiffed up... She wound up naked... Don't ask me how... Oh ... I'm great at bullshitting. . . . THAT is a hobby . . and that get's me NOWHere ... I don't have much to say.
    I had my muffler fixed today. My car sounded like a fricken tank all weekend. ! Ever driven around in a tank ? Children and adults (alike) ran in terror... Yeah It's been one of those days .But it's all good. Car purrrrs now.
You know being a musician I always hear the drummer gets all the chicks...I think that's why I play acoustic and sing solo these days.

I would think the photography would be a great way to meet women. Or men, if you were a lady.

Glad your car stopped sounding like a funny car.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
11/26/2018 5:06 pm

    Quoting redrockrascal:
    So, on the hobby thing - auto racing. Even on the amateur level there have always been plenty of "tits in the pits." A well dressed man (in this case a fire suit) can do well with the ladies. I've had several relationships start with the smell of race fuel in the air.
Now there's a good one. And another I haven't thought of.

Ladies...start my engine.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
11/26/2018 5:07 pm

    Quoting  :

Or...maybe it's me who's wrong, and ruining a good hobby by getting sex involved. LOL

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
11/26/2018 5:09 pm

    Quoting  :

Yeah, I could see the walking and biking trails working. Like I said earlier, I think photography would be a great one. Easy way to start up a conversation. Though, I don't take as good of pictures as you do, I'd have to fake it. LOL

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


SeaGirlFL 60F
9220 posts
11/26/2018 5:22 pm

    Quoting Platosgames:
    It was just something I got thinking about...thanks to you and your pottery. LOL

    Sometimes getting lost in thoughts that really don't have an answer is the only way I get through a crazy day. Today it was this. And yeah, was just thinking of hobbies that led me into meeting ladies.

    And that would be me, I'd be the only single person in the class.
Lol, well, I'm glad I could help you get through a crazy day, in a rather round about way.

I can understand about getting lost in thoughts to get through a long day.

Well, now...if we time it right, we could be the only two singles in a cooking class...

"Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is relax." – Mark Black


BytheRiver80 44M

11/26/2018 5:34 pm

Gourmet cooking classes and also dancing have worked for me.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
11/26/2018 6:08 pm

    Quoting  :

Ideally it would be beneficial to you and me.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
11/26/2018 6:10 pm

    Quoting Platosgames:
    Now there's a good one. And another I haven't thought of.

    Ladies...start my engine.
Road race drivers are trained and skilled at going deep into the curves and hugging them tight.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Platosgames 102M
3189 posts
11/26/2018 6:25 pm

    Quoting BytheRiver80:
    Gourmet cooking classes and also dancing have worked for me.
Dancing would be a obvious choice, and without a doubt a way to meet people. Good call.

" I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx


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