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The scammers must be getting paid or they would stop  

Tucsonfun4us2 58M
0 posts
8/6/2018 4:24 pm
The scammers must be getting paid or they would stop


I've just got to say this, it is amazing to me how many supposedly mid 30's women are on here looking for the love of their life. I can see the age choice as a good middle ground being able to talk to almost anyone. Most of the time the picture will show an extremely attractive woman, that is suddenly new to online dating because a friend, co-worker, patient, or pick some arbitrary other person, told them that they found their husband on here. If presented with a reason of why you might not be who they are looking for they will always come up with a reason for why it is okay. A few days into talking there will be some kind of emergency or something were they need money and you should send it to them in the form of a gift card. Guys, they can't get a refund on the gift card, and don't send money to people you haven't met in person. The less actual payers they get the less they will be here trying to run the scam.

japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
8/6/2018 5:25 pm

unfortunately scammer are getting paid obviously...when they would learn?

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Tucsonfun4us2 replies on 8/6/2018 6:03 pm:
Thanks for the post, I had forgotten about that magic comment even though I read it the other night.

s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
8/6/2018 10:20 pm

The idea is not to even give them the time of day!

Using more than all the road!


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
8/7/2018 7:40 am

Mail them monopoly money.


Tucsonfun4us2 replies on 8/7/2018 9:54 am:
I have to admit I've thought about buying a gift card and using all but about a nickle of it and sending them the numbers for it.

lyavu 50F
1538 posts
8/8/2018 4:47 am

I have also wondered


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
8/8/2018 6:21 am

I do like to see those who try to mind fuck them. Maybe every day tell them to go to the nearest place to receive the wired funds. Tell them you sent it and try again. Maybe a different location. Give them some bogus tracking number. Keep them running all over town to find it. The used giftcard is good. Or wire 10 cents if you can wire that little.


Tucsonfun4us2 58M

8/8/2018 10:12 am

If I have the time and I'm bored I do tend to mess with them some even though I'm getting close to being able to write their side of the story for them. I do like when they start asking for the money and give me addresses, after a quick search I start asking about the owner of the property or why their name they've given doesn't show up in any of the cities they say they live in.

The bitching out you get from them about how you never really trusted them and you don't deserve to be with them is hilarious.


BreathoftheNow 34F
4 posts
8/8/2018 12:18 pm

Oh wow I really didn't even know that was a scam around here. Jeez


Tucsonfun4us2 58M

8/8/2018 1:41 pm

The scammers know there are more men than women on these sites and take advantage if it. The 30's age range can make them appealing to almost any age on here. You have a bunch of men looking for something, and for their preferred targets a man that is 20 or more years older than them. If they attempt to show that they don't care about age or looks and just want the love of their life, they start to draw them in. A few days of getting to know each other and trying to build trust and it's time for the emergency. "Can you buy me a $100.00, ITunes, Amazon, Steam gift card?" Then when asked, "How do I get the card to you?" they come up with "Oh just buy the card scratch the number cover off, and send me a picture of it and the receipt, and I can get a refund for it"
Couple something that almost sounds reasonable with a man desperate for some affection being offered by a pretty young girl and there you go instant money transfer that is spent immediately. While our poor desperate man is still desperate and alone. Probably talking to the next one doing the same thing.


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