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The Confusing “T”  

JaniceJanes 49T  
707 posts
1/12/2019 9:57 am
The Confusing “T”


I just want to spend a few minutes on something that might help improve this Site. It has to do with the letter “T” that appears next to your Age following you Screen Name on here. For example mine is

“JaniceJanes 43/T”

So, Janice Janes is my name, that’s correct.

I’m 43 years old which is also correct, unfortunately.

But then there is a “T”.

This could mean several things which I believe creates confusion when people glance at this brief description next to the Profile Picture.

“T” could stand for Transvestite AKA Crossdresser.

“T” could mean Transgender.

“T” it could be as is used as in the Porn Industry Tranny or Trannie.

Or, “T” could be for Transsexual.

All of these possibilities actually are quite different and respectively appeal to only some of the people searching this site for possible matches.

A TV or CD may just want another TV/CD to dress with in private.

Transsexuals are almost always TV/CDs looking to meet up with the opposite sex. Again, almost always in private.

Transgender means someone who completely identifies as being different from their birth gender and has assumed a new sexual identity. Therefore they are searching for members of the opposite sex who accepts them for being different.

It seems to me, that to clear up the confusion, new identity choices should be available for use in a person’s Profile. It should be easy.
Wouldn’t this make more sense when creating a Profile? I suggest three new designations:

CD or TS or TG.

This way a CD that wants a dressing partner won’t waste their time contacting a TG who probably isn’t interested. A TS could distinguish between CD and a TG for clear choices.

Just my idea formed over coffee this morning while reading messages from men offering me their virgin ass.

BTW, I’m not looking for a man’s ass. With my now very small penis that doesn’t get erect, I doubt I could fulfill your desires.

Jan

becckytg 71T
17 posts
2/19/2019 9:42 am

It was confusing for me as well when I first joined as an "M", but after a short while I realized that I was more "T" than some other T's here, so I re-joined as a T. I think the distinction is not real clear in most peoples minds anyways and things change as time goes on so trying to categorize people is hard to do. I wish there were more ways to encourage people to try to get to know each other b4 they jump in bed together but I don't think that too many people really care to do that anyway. But yeah.


fizedc 53M
129 posts
1/26/2019 9:52 am

There is definitely some inconsistency in the definitions of the different terms but I agree with the point. Even distinguishing between M2F and F2M would be a step in the right direction.


Gina_L07 67T

1/25/2019 6:31 am

It would be nice if they explained what T means. Going by other sites it is usually a reference to transgender which is a umbrella term for all including CD, TV, and TS. Unfortunately we have to add more detail in our profile as to which label we assign ourselves to and what are our desires. However as is the case, those without gold by their names (me included) can't see that so they assume one of those labels and sometimes wrongly. Good luck getting the site to listen. Be safe. Ciao.

Gina


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
1/19/2019 1:39 pm

You are very Sexy!!!


pocogato12 71F  
37235 posts
1/12/2019 9:04 pm

I think you have a very valid observation. Turn it in to the company- they do listen!

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pghpa333 66M

1/12/2019 1:32 pm

Thanks for sharing Jan. It is complex sometimes.


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