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Transexual Libido, is it Higher?
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Transexual Libido, is it Higher? There is not a simple answer, it depends. A Transgendered Woman (a male to Female) is a complex mix of Hormones, mental stage, age and being either pre-Op or post-Op to list a few factors. I can’t provide detail analysis on all these variables because I don’t have the wide knowledge necessary to provide competent answers. I can only explain my own experiences and what my Doctors have explained to me as it apply to my personal situation. I started on a mix of Hormones a little over10 years ago. Changes, both physical and emotional, were slow for the first several years mainly because the dosage was very low. This was medically important to allow my body time to gradually adjust to the hormones. At times my patience almost gave out. When I reached the point in my body chemistry where male and female hormones where balanced (Testosterone down and Estrogen up} the dosage was slightly increased and changes really started occurring. My secondary female characteristics (wider hips, larger breasts, head hair) showed significant increases. I was able to finally start going Full Time as a woman and my sexual desire was noticeably amplified but only at those times people normally think of sex, like out at a lively bar or club on the weekend. Then about two years ago, at my request and doctor’s approval the estrogen dosage was increased, Wow, changes really took off, specially my breasts got larger. My hair becomes more abundant and my hips filled out more. I am now at the estrogen level doctors recommend for reassignment surgery if I so desired to have it, which I have not. Now to the Libido increase. Yes it HAS in me. Everything I do now has the motivating factor of having sex. The way I dress, the way I act, the way I talk are all planned to increase my chance of having sex. I can not get sex off my mind unless I make an effort, a hard effort, to suppress the drive. I talked to my doctor about this because it was dominating my life I thought the increase in Estrogen was the cause but my doctor said there is no evidence that estrogen alone increases sex drive in women . He explained to me there are several factors in the female libido, some the same as a Transgendered woman. Even if a woman has a lesser sex drive, it can not be totally blamed on low estrogen and vice versus for a heightened<b> libido. </font></b>He mentioned one factor that has really stuck in my mind, Self Esteem. The mental quality of how you feel about yourself. A woman that starts to question her own fitness (age, overweight, appearance) for sex will probably have a diminished<b> libido. </font></b>Well I feel really great about myself. So great that I enhance my physical improvements with everything that surrounds them. Expensive undergarments, new body hugging dresses, my hair done lavishly, always perfect makeup, elegant footwear and the best nail and skin care I can find. When I put this all together, I want sex, which results in the increased<b> libido. </font></b>So it is a Cause and Effect matter for me. I have caused the thing I was worried about. My appearance and physical changes have made me more desirable by men resulting in more frequent sex thus increasing my craving for sex. This won’t change anything I am currently doing but at least I understand the why. It’s like getting a new car. You want to show it off to others, turn up the music to make sure you’re noticed, keep it clean and polished. Maybe even give someone a RIDE in it. Jan |
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...and to me you are very attractive at the stage you are right now
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You are sexy, and whatever works for you do it for your self. You look great!!
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I wonder how your libido would change if you took a week off from your beauty routine and were casual, not made up to the tees, and lazed about. In other words, change the external environment to see if the inner environment (libido) changes, too. Not that I want to encourage you to be any less horny or beautiful! xo
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absolutely beautiful body and a pretty good writer also, very clear and organized insight
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