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WHAT MAKES A GOOD PLAYDATE?  

Sissy919 61M/33F
60 posts
7/6/2021 1:06 pm
WHAT MAKES A GOOD PLAYDATE?

We all have our own ideas about what makes a sexual experience an okay, good, bad, or great experience. But was the experience good for others? We can’t really do any single thing that changes the outcome of our sexcapades but find the answer to this question in a general overview of satisfying people.

We must know what the other person is thinking and why. This is not an easy task as not everyone is honest about their wants and desires. It is even more difficult to learn about the why especially when we are meeting people for the first time. This dives a little too deep into the psyche of others and will most likely push boundaries too far. But when others completely fill out their profile it is possible to glean information from that profile. A general overview of their experience likes, and dislikes is very helpful in determining compatibility and interests as well as how to satisfy the person. When information is left out, we are all lost as to where to go from there. There are too many questions left unanswered and there is no jumping-off point to start a conversation. How many times we must tell people what we are into is determined by what we place in our profile and whether or not people are reading that profile.

Reading others’ profiles shows that you have an interest in pleasing the other person. When people just look at pictures and videos and then send a message asking questions that are already answered in the profile you are outright telling the receiver that you didn’t read their profile. This is the first red flag that you have run up a flagpole for the receiver to see. You have demonstrated that you are not a detail-oriented person that is willing to take the time to please someone else. It’s the details that make the difference in every encounter we have. A little to the left, higher, harder, not so deep, faster, slower, or “Oh, stir it around baby” are all details that one must pay attention to during sex. How can we be confident that you can follow instructions or pay attention to details if you can’t even bother to fill out your profile or read ours? We can’t. But we need to know something about the other person in some general brush strokes before we can even get that far.

It’s the details that matter in a great sexual experience. It is how close to the attention you have paid to the other person, how much you have learned about them, and how willing you are to give them pleasure before you seek your own pleasure. Many derive pleasure from giving pleasure. We are both this way but want others to give the old college a try when it comes to pleasing us as well. For those who haven’t been to college, that means putting in a lot of effort without someone else forcing you to do so. It means reading that profile, trying to read between the lines, and gleaning as much as you can before sending that first message. Single women and couples get a lot of mail. Yours is going to have to stand out if you want to move to the next level. Compliments are the best way to start without going overboard. Then talk about yourself and what you share with the person you are addressing. Yes, you can come off as rude, crude, or vulgar even though this is a sex site. Pay attention to details and slow down your roll.

We are a very different couple from most. If Sissy sees something she likes, we get right down to the meat and potatoes of it all. We send a couple of messages to test your knowledge and if you pass that we are off to get naked. How you perform after that is how we determine whether we play with you again or not. But don’t count on most people to set updates this way. Take this advice to heart no matter who you are messaging. Pay attention to details, follow directions, and leave your ego at home.


sweetime523 65M

7/12/2021 12:13 am

Great pussy!


Bonnie_N_Clyde79 52M/45F  
9 posts
10/31/2021 5:48 am

Honestly we don’t much care to chat or get to know her bulls. My wife just wants to please a man and feel like a good little used slut. If the guy comes in, can stay hard, has some confidence and knows his way around the bedroom we have a great time. After he cums a few times we’d prefer he left so the two of us can relax and enjoy what just happened.


giverme9inches 64M
12 posts
11/2/2021 12:43 am

I Love Your Little Pussy.


giverme9inches 64M
12 posts
11/2/2021 12:44 am

Looks Delicious !


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