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Soooo...question everyone....  

curious31960 64F
28 posts
1/27/2018 4:14 pm
Soooo...question everyone....


If truly looking for adult friends that are little kinky....do you have a profile with nudity or just a face pic? Which is more effective?

saskguy56 67M
12 posts
1/27/2018 5:51 pm

What your posting works for me


curious31960 replies on 1/27/2018 6:49 pm:
Thanks Sask...But we go way back...Would you have still chatted with me if I had a new profile with just my face?

Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
1/27/2018 6:18 pm

Some like nude. If course some could ask for more to be able to jerk off to with no intention of meeting. I am into kink. Never had any picture posted. Never had trouble meeting. I would say face. Nothing wrong with your current picture. If I had to put a picture up my face only. NEVER nude to give men jerk off material.

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curious31960 replies on 1/27/2018 6:51 pm:
That makes total sense Haste...thank you

Blkpiper74 50M
1 post
1/27/2018 6:55 pm

Women love dick pics.


curious31960 replies on 1/27/2018 7:01 pm:
I don't think that is true. That isn't what attracts me to a man on this site.

TallandHung67by8 37M
21 posts
1/27/2018 7:15 pm

Gorgeous


curious31960 64F

1/27/2018 7:27 pm

So....what would you say I am into based on my pics?


Lkn4funwith2 58M
1216 posts
1/27/2018 7:40 pm

Since sex is based on attraction, I need to see nude photos to see the person's body type. Not many people like surprises, which is why recent photos are a good idea. The level of kinkiness can be expressed in the nude photo.


boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
1/27/2018 9:02 pm

I think you have to project what you are looking for! This aint the facey place!


bigd019712 53M  
22 posts
1/27/2018 9:41 pm

Both


bigd019712 53M  
22 posts
1/27/2018 9:42 pm

Hot sex


HollyChatsNJ 65T
2792 posts
1/27/2018 11:05 pm

Thinking we all have our own reasons for being on here.
As far me I’d rather look at profile of guys who are in full view dressed.

Thinking I’m one of the few.

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Atlantic City, NJ


OlBlueEyz46 57M  
769 posts
1/27/2018 11:34 pm

I would say nudity.

if someone was just wanting to chat etc....than go with a face pic.

nice curves!


Ienjoythetaste 75M
2560 posts
1/28/2018 3:20 am

It doesn't matter what photo you put on your profile. It should be one that you are happy with.

Most serious men will read a profile based on the status, if it is in the age group and you are in the right area.

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curious31960 64F

1/28/2018 5:21 am

Thanks everyone....I get the gist....I know guys love nudes - actually so do I! But the guys I want to meet aren't the ones passing through on a business trip or looking for something - something a little on the side. I thought that if I put tasteful nudes people would see beyond the obvious and look deeper into who I am..what I want. Creativity....excitement....trying something new that appeals to both. I don't believe you can get that with a drive-by fuck....lol....ACTUALLY, I know you can't. BUT, sensuality and alluring innuendo cannot be displayed by a face pic. Knowing someone's body and the touch that puts them over the edge is priceless...at least in my world.


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
1/28/2018 7:01 am

First off, you have a lovely body, and I really enjoyed looking at your pictures.

That said, with a few exceptions, I didn't see what I'd consider to be many kinky ones. (Though I hasten to point out everyone's definition of "kink"varies!)

If you seek kink, then show kink. Maybe move the belted arm one forward in the album, the strap-on ones too - add some more up front.

As to face pics, many don't post for obvious reasons. Your choice really - I don't see that a lady seeking kink options will be TOO limited by not posting a face shot!

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SeekingIntenseO 57M
21 posts
1/28/2018 7:48 am

I think your page is very alluring as well as being sexy. Great pics you have, although I am not a fan of a strap on, unless I'm watching you insert it into another sexy lady!


Yours_4A_knight 59M

1/28/2018 11:16 pm

My actual experience is that for average or slightly subpar men there is really nothing that you can do, the site is simply not a good way to meet women.

I have had all variety of pictures and videos over the years and basically no success.

Now the problem might be what I am looking for, a couple of female friends who I don't have to get on a plane to meet and who are as interested in me sexually as I am in them, without having to have the trappings of a committed relationship, in fact, everyone being aware that commitment is just not in the cards.

All that being said my experience as a single lonely old man has no bearing on what you are experiencing as an attractive young woman

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JimmyB7474 59M

1/29/2018 4:40 am

My photo doesn't include nudity, just shirtless and legs. What do you think? Jimmy B.

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voyeurs53 45M  
433 posts
1/29/2018 7:54 am

I think a variety gets you a sense to start, but it is the deeper conversations that truly make for that exploration and discovery... some nudes that tease you to wanting more but you will have to weed out the crazies... haha... interesting topic and enjoying everyone’s thoughts...


thecourierman 54M
2 posts
1/29/2018 10:36 am

If you find out , let me know lol. I just deleted a lot of my account because of rude people who judge without even talking to me.


thecourierman 54M
2 posts
1/29/2018 10:37 am

P.S. i love your pics!


midwayman5165 58M
1 post
1/31/2018 12:49 pm

Really don't care if it's face or body.
I got hooked up on here with only 7 ladies.
Only knocked boots with 3 of them. Others were either nuts or drug heads.
Heck no on them.
I myself am on here for a FB, Someone who like's to have fun in the bed room and get off.
Then get on her way.
I don't want to know about your past life or kids.
I'm here now with you and that's really all that maters.
Just need a FB once a week and I'm good. lol


Rayateu 68M
264 posts
2/2/2018 8:19 am

Neither, it's the written word, communication is everything.


curious31960 64F

2/3/2018 6:51 am

I agree with you 100%....


curious31960 64F

2/3/2018 6:54 am

Thanks everyone...All very valid points. I guess what I need to do is first figure out "exactly" what "I" want. Additionally, I believe that I should create a face only profile and the effectiveness side by side. Appreciate immensely everyone's input. Good luck to all in your search.


litenlively 52M
9 posts
2/18/2018 8:17 am

Either, as long as it's authentic, and a response is provided. Polyamory Date is full of fakes and bots, so if there is no response, not even a 'no thanks' then the excitement vanishes instantly.


curious31960 replies on 2/19/2018 6:46 pm:
Sometimes it's hard to respond to everyone.... I have looked at your profile several times...impressively tasteful pictures. Thank you for your comment

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