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about ghosting pet peeve  

Coffeenick 53M/48F
23 posts
5/4/2018 7:47 am
about ghosting pet peeve

a big pet peeve of ours is when you are enjoying a conversation with someone and then they disappear for days or weeks or months , then reappear trying to resume the conversation without realizing that the connection is not there anymore. in essence, you have unconciously rejected the person without realizing what you have done, that's why sometimes you get that cold reception when you try to chat again. a simple message saying life happened or sorry there is no connection or if you have another meet arranged just tell us we aren't dating you so no problem don't just poof disappear. This is for clarity sake alone if it hasn't been a regular convo just an off and on thing no meet arranged then its still casual and its still nsa just looking for some common courtesey

Coffeenick 53M/48F
17 posts
5/4/2018 4:51 pm

 In response to _Vain_ the biggest cause of declining courtesy and respect is people just accepting it and letting it go the oh well attitude is the very source of the issue starts with people acting in a poor manner then gets perpetuated further by people just saying deal with it we don't let it get to us but we will not just here and say oh well and let it go without it noted


mizzenmate 55M
9 posts
5/17/2018 8:12 pm

 I agree completely coffeenick, It is annoying to seem to be having fun chatting with someone, then bang, they're gone. I usually give them a rant about not wanting a one nighter, but a chance to build something and if I'm gonna get the cold shoulder from them for a week at a time, see ya. But at least I'm honest and up front. Disrespectful people piss me off.


nu2swing4 61M/60F
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5/18/2018 7:53 pm

 For ourselves.. we would love to meet some new local like minded friends for chat, drinks sometimes and who knows??? As we all know, LIFE does have a way of happening, and i usually try and get across right from the start that our biggest hurdle is a relationship in which both persons are working full time and different schedules. Add to that some family, sick time and work around the house or camp on weekends,.. and fitting into new found friends schedules can be difficult.


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