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If he truly loves you he wouldn,t want you in any position that would ever make you feel uncomfortable,inadequate or scared..That's not what a man would do to you
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MHO. I think she needs to say "Next" find some one with lifestyle to fit hers.. this unwanted fantasy of her man will never go away and will haunt the relationship for ever, Time to move on... Never look back.... Stop by at lonlyforlove2 also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker" also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'
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If he continues to press about it. Sit him down and tell him, in no uncertain way, that you have no interest in helping him to live out this fantasy. Also, tell him that if this is something that he needs in his life, thanks, but no thanks. It's something that turns him on and he wants to take it to the next step. He has to decide which is more important to him, you or living out the fantasy. Good luck
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relationships are built on trust not fantasy, he will not abandon his fantasy because that is what gets him off
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2/24/2020 6:53 pm |
She should probably do what is clearly written on the wall- leave. His sexual world in his head is different from hers- what will be next?
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We all have wants in life, but dosnt mean we get them everytime. He wants this fantasy, and is pushing for it, hoping to get his way. I would imagine he will come to the realization that this is one of those wants he just wont get, and move on from it with time. I'd give him a pass on this, and not hold it against him. His judgment is clouded in the pursuit of this fantasy. Is it selfish? Sure, but he may not even fully understand, that he might be hurting his partner, and making them feel as if they are not enough. Feel free to message my private mailbox
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He can ask, cajole, plead all he wants, but no is no. Unless he gives an ultimatum or plans this encounter behind her back as a "surprise", I see no need to break up. He hasn't disrespected boundaries by voicing his wants, but I agree that it can be tiresome to keep hearing about it. Maybe just say "no, end of discussion". If reasons are given (uncomfortable, scared, etc.), it can give him something to try to change her mind.
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Wow. I think I'd want to understand why my gentleman friend is pushing for such a scenario to be played out. And the need for bareback?? C'mon. Clearly my safety and comfort level is not a concern so I'd have to look out for that myself and continue to refuse the fantasy. Understanding the why may not help me say Yes but it could help me say No for good. A person who won't take your feelings into consideration is not the person for you
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2/24/2020 7:02 pm |
You better say Adios Amigo...Cause he'll never leave you alone!
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If he doesn't respect her wishes, then time to tell him it's over. See if that changes his tune
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He is a disrespectful ass. I would dump him. If we are not on the same page sexually, it will not work.
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2/24/2020 7:25 pm |
Dump.If he keeps persisting after you have said no several times it is time to seek someone else.
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We all have boundaries and they should be respected ...Male or female...I think finding someone new is best in this situation !
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you both want different things, so I don't see it working for you. At the end of the day it is your choice and that has to be respected. Hope it goes as painlessly as possible for you
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2/24/2020 7:31 pm |
Tell him truly how you feel. If he continues pushing for it then I'd say look elsewhere.
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2/24/2020 8:05 pm |
It may be time to move on
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It sounds like he is saying "I Love You If " ! That's just not Love in my opinion ! He has a strange fantasy about another man ! I agree with all the rest of the comments that have been written !!
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A true love wouldnt disregard your feelings on the matter and push his own desires and lusts over her feelings
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Dump he find another sooner or later. She is better then that. She not a toy for all the boys. He lucky she still want him. I see nothing but trouble ahead.
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This is an interesting perspective on the situation .Even if this isn't the case if she's uncomfortable and has expressed this many times and he continues she needs to to dump him!!
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2/24/2020 8:58 pm |
If he loved her then he would not be able to stand the thought of her being with someone else, let alone being fucked by this person. He needs to respect her wishes, no means no. She needs to set her position and tell him that if he doesn't respect her feelings and drop his fantasy fast and make sure it never arises again, then as much as she loves him, she will have to end their relationship as he clearly doesn't love her. In love he should be able to give him his life for her, not just a fantasy.
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If he doesn't accept your no then it is time to let go...
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2/24/2020 9:26 pm |
It seems pretty clear that no matter what he has said that he has no respect for her limits and likely no respect for her at all, the person in question should cut ties immediately, it will hurt less in the long run Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.
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If you really like him be honest with him. Tell him you do not want this and will not do this. Tell him not to bring it up again or get out of your life. If you don't care for him all that tell him the same. No means no.
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