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FWB from a male perspective  

uberbaglady 64F   
45 posts
10/17/2017 12:44 pm
FWB from a male perspective


I am curious to what males' think a FWB means.
males only please.

lyctyc1000 104M
356 posts
10/17/2017 1:43 pm

I believe that you take some time to get to know the person and develop an interest to see if either of you want to have benefits. I wouldn't assume FWB meant that just because we exchange a few email the was automatic sex. I think some here think if you show any interest by looking that you want to have sex and not just looking and maybe enjoying their photos or videos


uberbaglady replies on 3/19/2018 9:48 pm:
your example is spot on.

JustlomesumMe 69M
679 posts
10/17/2017 1:46 pm

As Bigglala said...good question.
It is hard to nail it down to one single definition. I would say it is a woman who is like any other friend you have but you have the benefit of having sex with her.

This could also describe a "Fuck Buddy" or an affair with one of her friends. So is this close to your definition?

So nice to be insane; no one asks you to explain.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
10/17/2017 2:56 pm

FWB = Friends With Benefits. The "benefit" is sex. It is a unicorn like situation, because it assumes people who meet on dating/sex sites can become real friends within a few (or even less) meetings. - A fallacy created by (anti)-social media. I think in reality it is AWB (no not the Average White Band) Acquaintances With Benefits.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
10/17/2017 4:17 pm

Something that is only universal to the words it's comprised of.It's a pleasant thought.A neat idea.A sarcastic dream from the "nice guy"element of life.A get out of emotional jail card used by two friends who have the inherent wisdom to know their crossing a boundary of friendship that could be very telling of what one another really think of each other knowing full well if and when it doesn't work it wasn't a friendship worth keeping.
Like two of the fastest guns in the west trying to read the others mind in order to be the first one to dump the other as to not to have to suffer the pain of having taken their mind off of who is faster.Nonsensical.Ridiculous and as suspicious as the fuck one or the other is really after.

Using more than all the road!


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
10/17/2017 9:51 pm

Someone you go to for a fuck, when between commitments.

The difference between a FB [fuck-buddy] and a Fwb [Friend with benefits, is that a fuck-buddy ,and you, could hook up at anytime but you're not necessarily "Friends".
While your fwb is someone you are actually friends with and you have sex between the commitments either of you may be in.

In case you missed it... Fuck-buddy = Anytime fuck .... Fwb= The friend you have for sex while between commitments.

So if you came home and your husband was having sex with another woman? That other woman is either his fuck-buddy, or someone your husband just found. .....but not his Fwb.


Yours_4A_knight 59M

10/18/2017 12:18 am

for me a Freind With Benefits it is a friend with whom you share a sexual attraction but who you and they have not made a commitment to each other.

If all you do when you are together is have sex, or just preamble to having sex (say flirty drinks in the hotel bar to loosen up and flirt them you are more fuck buddies) but if spend the day together doing your particular friend things and happen to normally end up having sex at some point then you might have the true and fabled FWB.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


uberbaglady replies on 3/19/2018 10:02 pm:
I like this definition

uberbaglady 64F   
18 posts
1/1/2018 8:43 pm

All compelling answers. I think of it as a person who is genuinely interested in you and your well being . Interested in things you might be working on in your life. Knowing how your job is treating you etc. that is the friend part. Random hook up first , dogs hook up people meet. Just sex is no different than paying for it in my eyes. Being friends first makes the sex so much the better.


yamahavet 70M
103 posts
2/22/2018 9:21 pm

FWB = Fuck With Boldness,

JOKING see below, LOL!

FWB = Friends with benefits.


uberbaglady 64F   
18 posts
3/19/2018 9:57 pm

well what I have found on here is men do not want a friend. Most just say that and only want the sex. Make no effort to want to learn more about you to have both.


yamahavet 70M
103 posts
7/5/2018 11:21 pm

"Friends with benefits", means someone that you have sex with but aren't actually in a relationship with.


lefty64014 66M
258 posts
1/28/2019 12:31 pm

Depends on the FWB, having been in a few FWB, the chemistry is important. Talking is important. Being a revenge FWB is ok, but limited. Having a FWB you can talk to about stuff, it is great.


DW_1973 50M

7/12/2019 3:02 am

FWB can go in several levels and directions. I would say that building trust and great conversation would lead to a greater sexual experience for both.


DW_1973a 50M

10/13/2019 5:03 pm

I would prefer to develop some type of connection, build up for the next meet. It is a fine line as to “FWB” as to a couple which sadly most people do not either know or understand


DW1973dw 50M

1/13/2020 3:51 am

FWB is termed differently and loosely. To me is friendship inand out with sex but some women just want companionship which I think we all would at some point but if with a couple or group, just have sex.


Fall4Fun2021 50M

12/21/2021 4:49 am

I feel that is a trust built sexual relationship between two that fulfill their needs


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