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I need to squirt!
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I need to squirt! I need to talk about my need to learn to squirt. It's been a real struggle, I refuse to be in the category of girls that never can. It's been a desperate need for some time. Basically since I learned squirting was a thing about 15 years ago, haha! I've tried by myself a number of times, but I can't seem to get the angle right/I'm actually not that coordinated for being as good at sex as I am. And then, there's some people out there that just know how to get a lady there. So, anytime a guy swears he can (it's almost always men claiming they know what to do), I'll give him a test. I have him tell me how he does. That always lets me know who is serious, and who just wants to fuck me. I'm sure this won't be a shock to most of you, but pretty much all of them just want to fuck me. However, there are a handful that do know what they're talking about. And I usually try to make plans to see those guys. But then! Plans fall through. Yes, guys flake on me. A LOT. I'm sure you'd be devastated to learn how often. That will probably be another blog post, since some of the ways I've been flaked on are just classic. Great stories... So, the handful that know how to then becomes a few that know how and have time to. And of those few, I got close once. Just one time. We were on my couch, I had a couple of drinks so I was nice and relaxed. He was pounding my g spot with his very capable fingers and it just felt like I was going to pee. He was coaching me through it, saying it won't be pee and that I just need to let go. Easier said than done... but, I got to the point that I did let go and I was RIGHT THERE. So close... And he let up. He got tired. I died. The good news is - I was really close! So I KNOW I can. I just need to try again... And then figure out how to keep doing it... Which should also be all the fun 
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Once you go there ain't no coming back. My blog is so not you. I'm sure you can come up with an appropriate name for your blog title. Oh and you might want to make up a private post so standard members can communicate with you. Also, kick your post off with a comment. Great first post, don't stop now.     
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9/17/2017 7:06 pm |
it's a beautiful thing!!!
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9/17/2017 7:06 pm |
it is a beautiful thing!!!
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I bet you do
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Good luck! I can't wait to hear all about your first time!
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I'm in the same boat when it comes to getting an orgasm from blowjobs. I've just been unlucky all these years while everyone around me is getting theirs. Keep at it and you'll find the right combo one of these days!
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It's only a matter of time...
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In 2005 I had a post explaining how to do this. . I'll copy and paste it here for you. Give it a try...  " This is going to take awhile. I want you to know that this is MY way. I'm sure that there are other ways and maybe even better ways, but this has worked well for me for almost 50 years. First, if you're just LEARNING, it is best if you are with someone that you like a lot, know well, and trust. You both must be comfortable with each other. You shouldn't even attempt trying this with someone new. It may help if you make love first, so that you are both relaxed and not in a rush. It probably [?] won't work the first time, so don't make this a goal or a chore. It should be done in a FUN way, just playing, you know? OK, ring finger and middle finger [ palm up ] in about 2/3 the way in. Curve the fingers upward. You should feel a mound of flesh in that area. Wiggle your fingers in a "come here" motion. Rest your [ his ] palm over your clit. The wiggling will vibrate your palm and stimulate that area as well. Not too much pressure at this point. I think it helps to try to match her heartbeat in the speed that you do this [ the wiggling ]. This sounds corny, but some kissing and some sweet-talk should be happening at this time. This is suppossed to be FUN. He shouldn't be asking you..."are you feeling anything yet?". That's NOT the mood we're after. Just some manual play and some love-making. He can speed up once in awhile, but only for a short time, then back to the heartbeat speed. Eventually he may feel pressure on his fingers, like you're trying to push his fingers out of you. About this time, you may feel like you have to pee. Go pee. You can start again when you get back. Oh yeah, the peeing feeling. You're going to have to get used to the idea that you might pee. You WON'T be peeing, but it will feel like you might. If this thought puts you off, it could stop everything. If this is a big no-no for you, then maybe try this on the kitchen floor or the back porch, somewhere that you don't care if you DID pee. [ Or maybe think of it this way...remember the time he was 2 hours late and never even called you?...well...piss on him!! ] You've just GOT to get comfortable with that peeing feeling. Maybe put a plastic bag and some towels down under you. Anyway, after you get back, start again. When the pressure is back on his fingers and the peeing feeling is back, he should increase the pressure of his fingers a LITTLE, and increase the speed. If you are VERY close to "peeing", he should increase the pressure even more and really speed up his wiggling. This should do it. Keep in mind that the first couple tries might not work. AND his wrists might get sore. Be nice. Curl your fingers up and wiggle them. Put your other fingers around your wrist. Feel the tension there? After 5 or so minutes, IT HURTS! Again, be nice. You can always try again sometime. It wasn't a waste. You got played with and sweet-talked. What's wrong with that? Eventually, it probably WILL happen. When it does, you're going to be surprised, for sure. When you squirt, you shoot it out much like a man does, in spurts. Maybe 4 or more spurts. After you do, he shouldn't take his fingers out, but just slow down and very little pressure. Back to the heartbeat again. A thank you would be nice at this point. A smile will be automatic. A kiss would be nice, too [if you have the strength]. Believe it or not, it's not over. You might feel totally drained and exhausted, but trust me, you don't want to stop yet. You CAN do this over and over again. There IS one little problem though, you might get sore later. And what's worse, you won't know it until later or even the next day. For this reason, I think 3 or 4 times is enough at first. Eventually, you will learn how much you can take without getting sore. Practice, practice, practice! What a bummer! One more thing, once you get used to squirting, everything changes. Once it becomes easy for you, it can happen rather quickly. About 10 to 20 seconds of light pressure and heartbeat speed [ Just enough for your BODY to recognize him and think..OH GOODY! ] and he can go staight to warp speed. You can even squirt during commercial breaks and not miss your show [ long story ]. Of course, it would have to be a really good show for you to want to stop. But there's always more commercials! Again, this is only MY way. Maybe not the best way, but it's worked for me just fine. Remember, this is suppossed to be fun, not a chore or a mission. Just play with it, eventually it'll happen. Good luck and HAVE FUN! Your friend, Mark PS...There's more information in the comment section. Some questions and answers and some things I clarify. If you found this interesting, it's worth looking at. It'll take about 15 mins to read. I just found the "reply" link, so half of the comments are me. LOL. I regret now that I deleted over half the replies long ago to make the reading shorter. I won't do that again. Although this is an old post, I check it occasionally. If you have any questions, just ask. "
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