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Blogs > hereforyou6217 > A Charming Wreck

Smart is sexy  

hereforyou6217 50M
176 posts
6/17/2007 8:18 am

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6/19/2007 4:05 am
Smart is sexy

So I've been doing a lot of surfing lately. Looking at profiles, that sort of thing. Sometimes I send an email, sometimes I don't. But sometimes I run into a profile like hellcat30101, and I just can't help myself from sending something.

I know I'm not what she's looking for. That doesn't matter-- it's not why I'm writing to her, anyway. It's just... it's well written. It's funny. It sets down what she's looking for very specifically, and yet it doesn't take itself too seriously.

In short, it's smart. And smart, as they say, is sexy.

This is the kind of profile that draws me in, that makes me want to KNOW a person, rather than just have someone to call when I get horny and need to get off. Those profiles don't do much for me, really. And don't even get me started on the profiles that are like, "Im a hot wet slut for u and i want to fuk all nite and suk hard dik".

Well, I know I'm different. That there are a lot of guys out there that would absolutely jump on that like a cat on a mouse. And nine times out of ten, they'll get an email back that says, "check out my naked pics on...". Hell, I'll admit that when I first came on this site, I fell for the whole "sexy, but tiiiiiny pic of an ungodly hot standard member with no one in her network" scam. But it didn't take me long to figure out how to spot the fakes, and I haven't gotten a porn invite in a long time.

I think a lot of that has to do with my assertion that smart, again, is sexy. I want to meet people I can know, who can hold a conversation with me, and who have something in common with me. I've found quite a few of those people at this point-- some of them have become great, valued friends, some of them I've unfortunately allowed to slip away from me, despite their best efforts, and a few have become lovers. I value them all, and treasure them.

I've gotten off the track, I think. The point I was trying to make is that smart, funny profiles are a turnon. For me, they're almost MORE of a turnon than the pictures themselves. You combine a smart profile with a sexy (provocative, not slutty or gynolicious) picture, and you SERIOUSLY have my attention.

I swear to god, I'm such a girl. [rolls eyes]

rm_DaphneR 65F
8019 posts
6/17/2007 10:19 am

 Like I always say ...stimulate my mind and the rest of me will follow.
Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.


hereforyou6217 replies on 6/17/2007 1:26 pm:
See, now? You're completely capable of distilling a half-page entry into a simple sentence. Very smart.

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