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Progress! One person CAN make a difference here.  

Banana_Canyon 46F
0 posts
4/16/2018 8:00 am
Progress! One person CAN make a difference here.


So as I took a moment to look through my past blogs, I have noticed a series of past members whom I have dealt with via my blogs and who have departed from their member accounts here on the site OR have altered their accounts in way or another after I have d my part in the matter to expose the nonsense. Here's a quick summary of what my finds have yielded:

Bling856 - Current profile status: Member's profile unavailable ( turned off).

Stephanie331031 - Current profile status: Member's profile unavailable ( turned off).

Squirttaker77 - Current profile status: Member's profile unavailable ( turned off).

NDNskin2skin - Current profile status: Member's profile unavailable ( turned off).

youngcurvybbw - Profile picture has been removed once I deribed suspicions between the pic and their deription not making any sense.

lionn - Current profile status: Member's profile unavailable ( turned off).

Mommy7878 - Current profile status: Member's profile unavailable ( turned off).

1long1foryou2 - Current profile status: Member's profile unavailable ( turned off).

openmuchwider - Current profile status: Member's profile unavailable ( turned off).

brightly11 - Current profile status: Member's profile unavailable ( turned off).

Wildbynature0000 - Current profile description: "not active!!!!!!!"

So there you have it, folks. The list keeps growing. person CAN make a difference here. Never think that you as an individual have no power. Now, I am not saying that I take credit for all of these members in leaving the site, but I know for fact that I ed a big part in at least the vast majority of them to leave. If a single person can do this much, imagine if the community here would all chip in and do their part. Instead of us all complaining of the problems of what's wrong and why things don't work here, take initiative to fix problems, expose idiots, demand and force change and respect to occur and this place, along with society in general will begin wising up.
Buttttt, we live in a very ignorant society. People are too lazy anymore to even read, much less comprehend or demand change. By the fact that very few people will even read this or will comprehend what I'm talking about would be a miracle. So, the infinite cycle of insanity here will likely continue on like clockwork day after day, year after year. To all that do read this and understand it, I hope this is incentive and inspiration to demand change and respect in the same way I do. It's a good feeling to know that I've ed in doing my part in eliminating some of the trash here on the site. Now please, do your part, folks.

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UPDATE:

lotta_work
System Notice:
This message has been removed as the member no longer has an active account.

more to the list of progress!

notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
4/16/2018 8:23 am

do find that some of the supposed female profiles do have the photo of the man behind them, it seems that the powers that be do not care or are lax in checking between sex and photo, for example, there is Joe in Philly that uses multiple profiles as a female, however, when anyone is reported, nothing is done. .NY is anther place where the same female photo is used on about 5 or 6 different profile, but she is a woman of a figment of the site. good work on cleaning up some profiles


Banana_Canyon replies on 4/16/2018 8:57 am:
Yes, I see that sort of thing going on now and again where a certain member has multiple profiles and, of course, the contents make no sense or leave skepticism. I've tried the approach in reporting people over and over again and it's useless. The site takes no action. The reason for that is that this site is a business, nothing more. It's only care is in earning profits and that cannot ever be achieved if they remove members here, no matter what their behavior is. That being said, I gave up on that route long ago and had to take matters into my own hands here if I were to deal with these clowns here. There's really only one way to do that and that's by exposure of their behavior.

But like I said, people might read this blog, people will probably agree with me on things, but that's the end of it. Everyone seems frustrated and fed up, yet nobody takes action...and that's the problem that exists here. Complaining to one another or to the site management does nothing. Agreement does nothing. Action forces change.

You make some valid examples, though. I see the same things here at times.
Thanks for your comment!

DoUIntheButt 42M
118 posts
4/16/2018 9:04 am

Good Blog!! And I have too say good job!! Also those are some of the biggest ,prettiest titties and nipples I have see!! WOW!!


Banana_Canyon replies on 4/21/2018 1:33 pm:
Thank you so much. I'm glad you enjoyed the blog...and otherwise.

Appreciate your comment!

benard69 66M/66F  

4/16/2018 9:13 am

On here you will always have a job...So many fake and phoney profiles and many very unkind to others...Thanks for the post..


Banana_Canyon replies on 4/21/2018 1:35 pm:
This is true. The job is voluntary and there are no shortages of the fake nonsense that goes on here. Thank you for the comment!

MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
4/16/2018 12:53 pm

Oh I think we could all start a list but I thought that by exposing them openly that your profile (or mine) would be banned. Thought it was against TOS to do that. Has that changed?


Banana_Canyon replies on 4/21/2018 1:47 pm:
Oh sure, I suppose it's against the TOS. All honesty, I could care less. That doesn't mean that I'm being ignorant or challenging the system. I've been doing this for years and I'm still here. Here's the thing: This site is a business, nothing more. They don't want you calling out the nonsense because it may lead to paying members leaving the site, thus, loss of membership sales. It's a money game for this site, nothing else. It's useless reporting members to the site of people who abuse it and behaviors that go on because they take no action...again, they care about only money as a business, not people for a personals site. That's where my actions come in, as should be the actions of everyone here who is serious of the fraud and nonsense that goes on. Women here are the anchors to this site. Without us, they make very little money. I know that, they know that, which is why the TOS is moot and which is why I'm here without a care to expose people for their actions and behaviors! If I'm banned from the site, oh well. It's not like I have much purpose here anyway other than some socializing and I know there's no potential for anyone here, so I'll take my chances with that without care. I'm all for your interests in exposure. I take no responsibility for how you go about it. The idea is just that it's happening in whichever way you choose and you're taking action to make a stand that we're tired of things here and aren't going to tolerate it. Girl power!

Thanks for the shout. Appreciate that one a lot!!

MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
4/16/2018 12:54 pm

I have thought about starting a blog just for that purpose.


Banana_Canyon replies on 4/21/2018 1:49 pm:
You should! I'd love to support you in that!

travellerabc123 54M
3989 posts
4/17/2018 11:40 am

Good job. It's good to know someone so close is watching over us

Embrace the suck


Banana_Canyon replies on 4/21/2018 1:49 pm:
Thank you so much! I cannot be a one person army, though. It's a contribution we all need to actively take part in.

I appreciate your shout!

Banana_Canyon replies on 5/24/2018 8:34 am:
Thank you! I do my part and hold my own ground, but it's something we ALL need to be doing.

Thanks for the comment!

dirtyoldfartmt 73M
44 posts
5/17/2018 5:06 am

For the amount of work you have put into your blogs you should be getting a paycheck. While you fight users I fight Polyamory Date. No one can really see what my complaints are but I am so tired of their BS. When this account expires I will no longer belong. We do have lives to live and that is more important than fighting with people about their ignorance


Banana_Canyon replies on 5/24/2018 8:50 am:
So, I'm not exactly sure how to take the vibe I'm getting from your comment. Not sure if you're being a bit abrasive with me, or if you're just fed up on your own terms. Text is very hard to describe a "vibe" unless it's written out very carefully and in a specific way with carefully selected words. Nevertheless, I cannot tell the vibe given off here, so I'll just assume you're fed up with the site.

Well, a paycheck for my efforts would be nice. Lol.

Don't get me wrong, I'm not just up against a battle with the idiocy of the users, but I have a major grudge with the site itself in so many various ways. I have said in other blogs of all of the nonsense coming from within the site and what goes on behind the curtains here. Everything from the terrible systemic issues we all have here as users( which I have suspicions that it's purely intentional )...such as the lagging, emails/IM's not getting sent through half the time, strange glitchy symbols ( square boxes ) appearing for no real reason, time stamps often times incorrect, etc... . Then this site is purely a business, nothing more. Along with it comes the corruption, the lies ( fakes/fake profiles ), the greed and all of the gimmicks that go along with it ( tips, Ambassador tasks, sending flowers, sending gifts, the "get laid guaranteed" slogan, etc... ). So yeah, I have plenty and plenty of major grumbles of the actual site itself, so don't get me wrong there. By the way, why can nobody see what your actual complaints are? Have you addressed the issues via blogs or just in general, talked to other users of what those complaints were? I'm not sure why nobody can see your complaints. Express yourself.

You're right. We all do have lives to live. I don't live for this site, by no means. I have no purpose on this site other than socializing and to keep in touch with some genuinely kind friends I have made here over the years, too. Blogging is just something I do when time allows and when others piss me off to no end....then I'll expose their behaviors here for all to see what a scumbag they are, what a shitty site this is and what a shitty society we now reside in.

Good luck in your endeavors once your account expires here.
I thank you for your comment.

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