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Makes no sense. "Don't message me again!"  

Banana_Canyon 46F
0 posts
12/5/2017 11:23 am
Makes no sense. "Don't message me again!"
Ah yes, the madness continues here. Today I received a message which said:

"Don't message me again!".

Ummmm...ok. Like, who are you and why are you writing that to me? Yeah folks, I'm as confused as you are here with this one so far. The attachment pic below shows the entire brief conversation.

So ummm, yeah. "Email my web address"? "Locked emails"? WTF is this person talking about? So I now have the power to magically lock people's emails if/when I send someone a message ( which, by the way, I haven't done so here )? Go figure! Either the system here is completely faulted by some other force which is unknown to me or this guy has the wrong person.

Insanity here never fails.

NDNskin2skin
redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
12/5/2017 1:02 pm

 Doesn't make much sense. There are no "emails" that go out from these site(s).
When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Banana_Canyon replies on 12/14/2017 2:03 pm:
Isn't that the truth!

notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
12/5/2017 1:27 pm

 the email phantom must be out there with the messed up messages, guess if you complain to the powers that be, they must make you to be a spammer, except if you get stuck with that ambassador crap


Banana_Canyon replies on 12/14/2017 2:10 pm:
Lol @ the Ambassador tasks. Talk about ruining a site! We wonder why there are no people here, who is really who they claim to be or any serious members actively seeking others enthusiastically. Then you understand that the site plays a huge role in that matter by the Ambassador tasks, we no longer know who to believe, who is real or who is writing to one another for serious inquiry. Money has ultimately deteriorated this site and society as a whole. So now we have people filling out Ambassador tasks for their selfish perks here while it leads the truly genuine people on who are really here seeking real things with others. Baiting.

Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
12/5/2017 2:31 pm

 Must of meant it for somebody else.
Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


Banana_Canyon replies on 12/14/2017 2:04 pm:
Perhaps. Not sure since they refuse to elaborate on explanation.

kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
12/5/2017 2:50 pm

 Doing a quick search, just on a hunch, for Banana Canyon on the web, I came up with:

Banana Canyon Map
Banana Bread - Canyon Ranch
Weather for Banana Canyon
Banana Bread - Canyon Ranch
and, How many bananas would it take to fill the Grand Canyon?

So, I have no idea. Nor do I know how many bananas it would take to fill up the Grand Canyon.
Become a member now and get a free tote bag.


Banana_Canyon replies on 12/14/2017 2:11 pm:
Funny. I never knew such results would yield from a name such as my own. Interesting.

GreenEyedLady_60 64F
1925 posts
12/5/2017 3:29 pm

 That is weird....out of the blue he tells you to stop emailing him? Maybe sent to the wrong person or as Lala said...hoping to get you to respond. This site can be a real trip sometimes...lol
Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


Banana_Canyon replies on 12/14/2017 2:12 pm:
It is weird. Lot of weirdos here, so it's not surprising or shocking at all. Lol. Could have been a baiting attempt.

Maize32 55M
1391 posts
12/5/2017 3:49 pm

 Unfortunately, I am not surprised - I received a message from someone to stop viewing their profile...the problem was, I never viewed it and stated as such, they replied with ys you are, blah blah, blah, then blocks me...comical.


Banana_Canyon replies on 12/14/2017 2:15 pm:
Ah yes. I get that accusation sometimes, too. You viewed my profile....no I haven't. Little do some people know that ( I use a pc ) so if my mouse just so happens to hover on a profile on the home page ( so a dropdown box displays a little more info. without actually looking at their entire profile ), what I have been told is that it's counted as a 'profile view' and will trigger a notification. Perhaps this is what you're referring to ( ? ).

MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
12/6/2017 9:09 am

 Im not sure whats going on but I am getting IMs from those that I have never and would never contact. The site is doing it on my behalf because it sure isnt me.


Banana_Canyon replies on 12/14/2017 2:19 pm:
Oh, so it's not just me going through this, I see. I also get people saying "you contacted me first". Umm, no I actually haven't and I'd have no reason to contact anyone outside of the specific details that my profile describes. Is it the site or the people? Maybe a combination of both? Have I crossed over into the Twilight Zone?

jboston725 50M
86 posts
12/26/2017 6:47 pm

 The IM and.email.on Polyamory Date is.really.going downhill. .like they havent invested any new $$ into it in 8 years.


Banana_Canyon replies on 12/27/2017 12:55 pm:
8 years? I have been on and off this site since the late 90's and it's been unstable as far back as I can remember. Several years ago they changed the visual layout of the system, but the operating platform seems the same, if not worse. For all we know, this could be an intentional thing. Never trust the men behind the curtain.

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