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A True Alpha
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A True Alpha There is a big parallel between a frat boy mentality and an alpha male wanna be. An alpha male doesnt need to be in a pack with his posse. He doesnt even need a wing man. There are many here, who think they are an alpha male but really are just a frat boy disguising themselves as an "alpha male". If you're a male and reading this and are already offended, then chances are, you are not an alpha male. You would have thicker skin if you were. You're so insecure that you couldnt live on your own in your college years without your frat buddies? Really. Try living the life on the road as a musician, cutting your teeth and really learning about being an alpha male or get eaten alive in this life. Please, there's a big difference between a jock/cave man mentality and an alpha male mentality. An alpha can get ridiculed and listen to lame gay references thrown his way by the cliche gold chain wearing group of steroided out, weak minded fools, ready to start a fight in their drunken stupor and be ready to back it up solo if need. But better yet, the alpha male gets the last laugh by downplaying and ignoring most of their over used "fag" comments and and manages to walk out with a woman he met the same night while walking past them with the last jab by asking who is gay now as you point out that you're walking out with a woman and they're still six ignorant muscle heads hanging together without women. A true alpha male does not need to put down somebody else in order to feel secure about them self. He doesn't lower his standards to go after the slightly drunk girl who is less attractive than the woman who you original had set your sites on. An alpha male doesnt need to compare himself to others. THERE IS NO COMPETITION if you are a true alpha male. You dont have to concern yourself with those of others, especially if not even near your level, let alone what they even think. They are irrelevant. An alpha has the inner confidence and could less as to what others think. If you're feeling a need to rate yourself based on others, that is not an alpha male. An alpha male already knows he has "it" He knows his body, soul and mind is in equilibrium with each other. He never lowers himself nor needs to talk down to someone in a public forum. He's not intimidated by other men, if fact he has no issue befriending them knowing he could take their girl any time he wants. He isnt intimidated by a strong, independent woman. In fact, he sees her as the ultimate counterpart. A true alpha male has enough confidence to take his lady to drag night in a bar and be the only straight guy in the room with a girl because that's where she wanted to go. Gay guys hitting on guy as you get your lady a drink, not even concerned w homophobia. She likes to go there because they play the best dance music that she wants to dance to. You let her get her way, for this, knowing the end game at the end of the night. An alpha male does not compromise with his beliefs and values. And alpha has enough confidence to be on stage and face the lame drunk person yelling for Skynyrd. He knows when to pick and chose his battle to the heckler based on how the rest of the crowd is. He has the same charisma on stage as he does at the bar getting a drink but not be a pompous ass. He knows when to put the Skynyrd yelling drunk in their place by using a "This is the song I wrote for Skynyrd. It's about your mom and how I fucked her good and how you might be my and that's why it's called "You ,Boy, Might Be My , " but only when the he knows the audience is also had enough of the fool and gets them to turn on him so he can continue to entertain those around. And an alpha male is confident enough to work in radio, where you talk to a wall but you make it sound like you're talking just to you personally, that I'm your best friend, make you laugh I tell you something funny tell you something poignant In some some current event or a factoid about a band you like. And yet everyone thinks they can, but choke when the mic is live. An alpha male is confident enough in himself that he takes a year and a half off of his life to take care of his ailing mother and understands and respects how our elderly should be taking care instead of some facility that isnt going to give them the care that they really need. And has enough strength internally to weather a year and a half long battle with cancer from their mother. Watching someone wither and knowing, even as an alpha male, cancer is just one battle, you cant win against on this one. He is confident but not arrogant. There is a big difference in believing in yourself and your strengths and just being a cocky prick. The reality is when somebody is being cocky, they're really hiding all the imperfections and trying to pretend to be something and they are not. They are confident in themselves that they dont have to brag about their experiences with women. Just because he's not a CEO exec, that doesnt mean he hasnt had a string of successful hits that he wrote for other artists. It doesnt mean that he's not respectful. Those who have nothing to prove, need no approval. Those who have a quiet calm dont need to shout to the World, look at me. They know that they cant use the same cookie cutter formula to walk up to a pride of lovely women in a club conversing among each other as he would when the ladies are walking up to him and starting conversation with him. He knows when he has to react and adapt, to be a survivor. So beware of the unassuming man who smiles at you as you walk by. He just may be the alpha male watching and observing and gathering all intel that he can before making his move. j. |
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