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How Many is TOO Many?  

anastasiamil 52F
48 posts
4/10/2017 2:15 am

Last Read:
11/27/2019 11:32 pm

How Many is TOO Many?


So, what's YOUR number? You know what I'm talking about. How many sexual partners have you had? 2? 10? 100? How many is too many? And, what is a respectable number?

Let's think about this....when deciding whether or not you are definitely a slut, do you take into account age vs. age when de-flowered? Or, Age when de-flowered minus years married multiplied by years you've been single since the divorce?

Are men given more lee-way then women? It seems acceptable for men to be promiscuous....they studs or ladies' men or players. Women who are promiscuous tend to be looked down on, although this trend seems to be changing. We are sluts or whores or tramps.

Would you ever tell anyone your honest number? And if you're partner was honest about there's, just how many is TOO many? Personally, I take my number to the grave! I was with 1 man for 15 years but I started young and I've been...."enjoying" being single. What can I say....I love sex! I feel like consenting adults should be able to have adult connections and relationships with no guilt. Or, maybe I'm just a slut!


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rm_cageman805 43M
5 posts
7/24/2018 1:38 pm

Keep having fun! Short life


ferrous_kitty 64M/64F

3/15/2018 9:08 am

I think, after high school nobody cares what the number is. I don't, do you?


6INSATIABLE9 63M

8/3/2017 3:07 am

SLUT is a term of endearment and admiration, the highest complement really. I don't have any use for "tramp" or "whore".


mc_justmc 64M

4/10/2017 2:07 pm

I doubt anyone would be happily lying on their deathbed knowing their number could be counted on one hand.


anastasiamil replies on 4/11/2017 11:31 am:
Good point!

LimerickJohn 70M
1046 posts
4/10/2017 12:18 pm

Quite an interesting post.

I firmly believe that a true number is ones way of boosting their own ego.

I believe that there is no such thing as as a slut or anything else people wish to use as a label.

The terms refer to their closed minds.

Be who you are and enjoy it.


anastasiamil replies on 4/10/2017 1:22 pm:
Agreed.

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