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Poly-Exclusive Fluid Bonded Group Agreement
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Poly-Exclusive Fluid Bonded Group Agreement We all want to maintain a level of safety from diseases that is on par with having a monogamous relationship with a non-cheating partner. Joining The Group When an existing member wishes to sponsor a prospective new member into the group the following steps must occur. 1. Everyone in the group must approve the prospective member. Approval must be unanimous because our Fluid Bonded group is built on trust. Everyone must feel certain that the prospective member is trustworthy and capable of following the rules. 2. The prospective member must provide their Full Panel of STD test results. Our Full Panel of tests is Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Syphilis, Hepatitis B, & C, Genital Herpes, HIV, Trichomoniasis and Lyme Disease (IgG). Since the average incubation period for some of these STDs can be 3 months, the tests should be taken 3 months after your last “A Level” sexual activity. A Level Sexual Activities Defined • Oral Sex • Vaginal Sex • Anal Sex Because condom use does not guarantee protection, it’s still an A Level activity even if you use a condom. The 3 month waiting period before taking your tests still applies whether or not you used a condom during your last A Level sexual encounter. Record Keeping and Re-Testing Test results are kept in a secure location by the Designated Record Keeper. Each member will be re-tested every year. Breaking The Bond If you have any A Level sexual contact with anyone outside of the Fluid Bonded Group, you should let your sponsor know immediately and refrain from any A Level activities with anyone in the Group until you have waited 3 months and been re-tested. Allowed Activities Outside the Group If you want to maintain membership in the group, you should only have A Level sexual contact with members of the group. However, you can still enjoy other less risky activities with people outside the group. The following activities are allowed assuming you have had the appropriate Safe Sex conversation with them beforehand. • Expanded Orgasm Dates or Genital Massage (manual stimulation e.g. fingering) • Kissing – but not on genitals • Anal play (with gloves) When playing with someone outside the group you must remember the following so you do not put yourself (and everyone in the group) at risk. • No genital-to-genital contact • No oral-to-genital contact • No mixing of genital fluids (so be careful with hands, which will have genital fluids after a genital massage) Appendix Why is there a 3 month (12 week) waiting period after your last sexual encounter before you can take your full panel of STD tests? Since the tests rely on antibodies, you have to wait until the antibodies are detectable in the bloodstream before taking the tests. Here are the recommended waiting periods after exposure before the results are reliable: • Chlamydia Urine Test: 4 Weeks • Gonorrhea Urine Test: 3 Weeks • Trichomoniasis Test: 4 Weeks • Lyme (IgG): 8 Weeks • Herpes Simplex 2 Blood Test: 12 Weeks • Syphilis Blood Test: 12 Weeks • HIV Antibody Test *: 12 Weeks • Hepatitis B Blood Test: 12 Weeks • Hepatitis C Blood Test: 12 Weeks Once you are in what if you want to have B level activities with someone outside the group? What Questions Should You Ask To Have A Safe Sex Conversation Before Deep Kissing i.e. Tongue in Mouth, or Manually Stimulating Someone Outside The Group? Have the safe sex conversation with anyone outside the group before touching their genitals or deep kissing them. If you are worried that they might have an STD or engage in risky behaviors (i.e. they are a sex worker or have sex with prostitutes, are a man who has sex with men, or are an IV drug user) then you probably should not deep kiss them or touch their genitals. You should also do a visual inspection before touching their genitals or allowing them to touch yours. Do they have any visible cuts or sores on their hands or genitals? If you see something that worries you, you should use<b> gloves </font></b>and/or ask them to use<b> gloves. </font></b>Are you seeing other people currently? What kind of sexual relating is involved? When is the last time you’ve updated your STD tests? Have you ever had an STD? Do you have one now? How do you ensure the safety of your other partners? “Risky Activities” Defined • Intravenous drug use or having sex with an intravenous drug user. • Having sex, especially unprotected sex, with someone whose sexual history and practices you know nothing about. • Being a “swinger”, especially one who enjoys anonymous sex, (nothing against swingers, just a higher risk profile). • Being a , or having sex with a , (nothing against sex workers but also risk profile). • Getting paid to sexually please someone (since this situation is filled with opportunity and motive for compromised integrity on both sides). • Being or having sex with gay men or bisexual men without any protection (Note: • unprotected anal sex is one of the most risky activities for the transmission of HIV). • Going to sex parties and playing without awareness of your play partners and their STD/Screening status. • Being vague or evasive about one's sexual history, personal hygiene, or how they ensure safe sex when they are sexual with others. |
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2/16/2021 12:03 pm |
Love that picture  xoxo Kelley
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