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Blogs > fantasywife1 > Philosophicals

Sex over 50?  

fantasywife1 63F
55 posts
12/18/2016 8:52 am

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2/20/2017 12:28 pm
Sex over 50?

My husband told me a story which I share with you.
One day a colleague of his was whistling full of joy, very unusual behaviour, he seemed extremely happy. When asked what is the reason for his happiness, he said it was his birthday (56th)and was looking forward to having a lustful night. He only had sex 3 times a year: on the wife's birthday, at Christmas and on his birthday.
Next day at work he was asked did he have a good night. No, he hadn't. His wife said "aren't you too old for it?" and that was the end of his sex life.

It sounds like a joke but if you think about it, it's very sad.
We have our first sexual encounter aged anything between 16 and 18, in some cases a bit earlier or later.
We have our first between 18 and 26, we have to watch out for the and inevitably our sex life becomes less regular.
Our become the priority and they stay with us for at least 20 years each. If we have 2 or more, the gap between them being in average 2 years, that means at least 22 years of sex-starved marriage.
By the time we are again on our own as a couple, we are in or very close to our 50's. Sex-life should restart then, but by then women got used to their headache and poor men have to settle for cyber-sex (or look for real sex somewhere else)

Of course, the scenario above doesn't apply to all of us. Luckily there are exceptions. I myself do enjoy sex life at full and I guess so do all of you who read my blog.

Thanks for reading, have a sex-full Chrismas!

kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
11/22/2019 10:56 pm

 I'll keep my response short and to the point. If counseling didn't work I'd look elsewhere for sex. At that age, you don't know how many years of viability you may have left.
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XHamburgDave 80M
10466 posts
4/2/2018 1:59 pm

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billydixy66 70M
180 posts
3/13/2017 5:29 am

 I can relate to your husbands colleague. My wife too decided she was to old for sex, no consideration for my needs. Perhaps thats why I'm here


budoday01 66M
365 posts
12/18/2016 9:01 pm

 My sex life ended at 46, with my wife. but now I am much older and having more fun in the last 20 years than ever before.


fantasywife1 replies on 12/20/2016 2:46 pm:
I'm glad you are happy. Everyone needs lots of fun and if they don't get it from their spouse they'll find it elsewhere.Like you did. People like you or me are here on Polyamory Date to give and/or have fun. We know how to enjoy life, don't we?

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