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How I became a MILF - It's all about me!
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How I became a MILF - It's all about me! I love to sit and watch the sunrise on a Sunday morning – great time to reflect. I question myself, answer myself and try to understand how I got to the point I am now. I have so many funny and naughty things to share that will make you laugh or think or both. But I feel like before I get into it, you should have a little background on me. So you will be blessed with two posts from me today! Quick recap of my life – married at 17 and divorced by 30. Dated, had a 3 yr. relationship which I wasn’t happy in so I cheated with the “love of my life”. After 12 years, found out there is no such thing as the “love of my life”. And here I am…newly single again and finally living every day for ME. The ass I was with for 12 years was 7 years older than me. The final year of our relationship I got a ton of excuses as far as sex went. He was too tired, too sore, too stressed, not feeling well, etc. and each excuse was followed by the words “I’m getting old.” I too have aches and pains every now and then, I too am getting old but never ever in my whole life have I used an excuse not to have sex. I am capable of fucking with a headache. I love sex. Some say it is because I am in my prime but I have always loved to fuck. So his old man excuses are probably a good part of the reason why I now prefer younger guys. No offense to anyone older, I know not all men are like he was but that is how I feel. I am 44 years old for another month yet and (knock on wood – praise the Lord) I have never had a gray hair yet. Still, because of boredom, I dye my hair about 3 times a year. I stood by that asshole while his brown hair turned gray and never once let it bother me. But because he made me bitter, gray hair totally turns me off now. Why are women expected to dye their hair and hide the gray but men can just let it go? Fuck that! You probably wouldn’t think I was hot if I had gray hair or hair coming out of my nose or ears so don’t expect me to think you’re hot. Yes, some say it makes you look distinguished but last time I looked, distinguished didn’t mean hot or sexy. Sorry…when I see gray, I think old - blame the asshole. I’m not 100% against older men or gray hair – some are hot and sexy but sorry – one man ruined it for you as far as I’m concerned. Bad relationships scar a woman in many ways. The asshole told me I was too fat to fuck at the end. I’m not a beauty queen and have many flaws but I did find out younger guys love older women so lucky me! If only he could see the hot young guys who disagree with his “too fat to fuck” statement. Life has been amazing! So the one thing that was quickly repaired after the break-up was my confidence. It’s not 100% but damn close. And when I sit and wonder how it is that I can fuck just about anyone I want, I realize it is because of my confidence. When a woman is confident – she becomes a sex magnet. I’d really like to be able to teach a class for women to help them build their confidence because it is so empowering. I am also a very honest person and sometimes that amazes guys, they claim to love the fact that I say it like it is. Whether it’s true or just a line to get in my pants – I don’t know. (although I always say you don’t need to use a line just to get in my pants.) So women – if you struggle with confidence or honesty within yourself, we will definitely talk more about this topic so keep with me. And men – a lot of you will fuck anyone lol. And you know you can look at a chick who is smoking hot Barbi-doll perfect and then you have chicks like me, normal everyday girl who you can look at and say well yeah I’d fuck her. So my question is – with the everyday chicks, do you ever notice confidence in them and is that what really makes them attractive? |
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9/19/2016 8:39 pm |
Gives us guys hope. Thanks!
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I suppose you can call it confidence. I call it being courageous. In our society, so many people (men and women alike) put down women for being sexual. It takes a certain amount of bravery to ignore that and seek out a man. I personally am not great at picking up subtle clues. (Example below) I like a woman who makes her intentions completely clear. I find that sexy. I also like a woman who is skilled with makeup. But I am a bit weird, because shape, not size, is my aphrodisiac. A woman can be skinny to BBW as long as she is hour glass or pear shaped. Apple shapes are an immediate turnoff. I also find friendliness to be attractive, while the "what is this shit on my shoe" look a turnoff. Example: I was meeting a woman I had discovered on Ashley Madison (before the hack) at a bar. The goal was to ensure both of us were teal, and neither used an old or fake photo, as we mutually agreed. We hung out for a bit, talking, and sizing one another up. About 45 minutes later, she said she had to go, but looked at me very directly and frankly asking "so, are we going to do this?" I said yes, I would like that very much, and that was the beginning of a beautiful friendship. Nothing changes faster than the speed of love. - Rush
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