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Preparing to pay for sex: Day 5, Man kegels and addressing comments  

CeriosEros 39M
615 posts
8/18/2016 1:41 am

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8/19/2016 10:46 pm

Preparing to pay for sex: Day 5, Man kegels and addressing comments


Let's talk about man kegels. Actually it's called Pc workout but man kegels sounds funnier to me so we're going with that. Did you know there's a way a guy can control his ejaculations by strengthening this muscle. Well I do. I've started this strengthening exercise that claims that you can cure premature ejaculations within 3 months. I don't have a problem with premature ejaculations because I've never had a partner. I always have simultaneous orgasms because they're with myself. Anyway I bought this book titled How to make love all night and I've started this program. Half of the exercises require a partner but I'm sure I'll get some benefits from the solo ones. Most guys who lose their virginity cum in a short amount of time. If I can extend that in anyway I will consider that a win . Especially if I'm paying for it. I want to get my monies worth.

Now to the other topic I wanted to discuss. While I appreciate all the concern and the comments I get I don't think I people understand me because I keep getting the same two comments. That I should let sex happen naturally and that I'm putting pressure on myself. Which I disagree with. I'll I explain. Lets start with the natural comments. I love my research so I've researched the average age a person in America lost their virginity. It's 17, I will be 32 next month . While the average person my age has had almost 15 years of sexual experience and hundreds if not thousands of sexual encounters I've had zero. Meaning I'm a outlier. I'm not normal. What works for most people doesn't work for me. So I have to take a different approach. I've tried the natural, just let it happen way for 15 years with no success. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. What I'm doing is trying to ensure success by taking away chance and attempting to close the gaps in my knowledge that usually takes years of trial and error to learn a condensing it in a small amount of time. Which my seem unnatural and strange to those who are normal because you never needed to take that approach or any approach. Sex just kind of happened and you moved on with your life but what if sex didn't happen and you had all the same urges and desires for sex without the release you get from sex with a partner, materubation only. I bet you've been single for a extended period of time. Now try to imagine that dry spell lasting 15 years. I'm just going to let that simmer in your heads.

The pressure comments are understandable until you realize I've reached "Fuck it". I want to make this experience as good as I can but I'm firmly in the Fuck it<b> camp. </font></b>Let me put it another way. Say I'm ways buying a car. I want to buy the best car I can so I do all research I can with the price point, safety ratings, torque, braking system, customer satisfaction, reliable, and crash test data. Even if I can only find a car that's shitty Fuck it I'm buying a car. Because at the end of the day it's about transportation not about the car itself. It's about sex not about my expectations. If it's a disaster...Fuck it I got laid. And with all the research I did if I'm ever in a position to buy a new car I have a base of knowledge.

CeriosEros 39M
642 posts
8/18/2016 1:46 am

I hope this clears things up and isn't to disjointed. I wrote it out of order.


nerdygirl721 34F  
1176 posts
8/18/2016 3:59 am

Well I got it. I can understand to a certain point. I can also understand about research. When I first started out I watch alot of porn to learn how to give a blowjob. Only because one of my friends had threw up during her first time and I didnt want it to happen to me.


CeriosEros replies on 8/18/2016 4:34 am:
Thanks for reading this,I could definitely be more clear with my posts. When I write it's usually just a stream of consciousness and I think weird. Also when I get into something I go all in which isn't a good thing sometimes.

That blow job story would make a great blog post. I would like to hear the rest.

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