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The Bait and Switch  

Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/13/2021 3:20 pm

Of course THOSE guys exist, except past eleven o'clock at night. 😎❗❗


boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
10/13/2021 9:53 am

They do exist, and yes they are on here! But like you they have just about given up hope too!!!


hogknot 57M
1059 posts
10/13/2021 7:42 am

It can be a long process to find a good person. Finding the "right" person is even harder. It does happen. Sorting through all the fake profiles and dirty whores can take years. Is it better to do it on a site like this or the old bar routine (that is almost impossible the last 18 months) There are good men on here and there are good woman on here. The problem is that the fucking nut jobs ruin it for normal people.
The first problem is finding a real person. Am I real? Are you real?


pagancountrygirl 66F
6466 posts
10/13/2021 6:08 am

I don't use the IM feature on here but I get some of the same "bait and switch" tactics through the regular message system. It's not unusual for some to get really angry when I don't comply with their wishes/demands for pictures. It seems my blocked list just keeps growing....

Pagan
Hmmmm....I know I left that wand around here somewhere!


69ereatwetpussy 61M
6774 posts
10/13/2021 5:59 am

Good morning sunshine hope your day is as beautiful as you.
So what are you sleeping in nightly lololol.
Wondering minds all like to know.
Since this sight is programed for sexy people to meet it only goes with the territory.
I myself sleep in just my shorts and a very warm blanket.
Ps socks too lololol
Ok sure there are some gentleman on this sight just not reading your blog
I love your blog it's clean every day life.
You Don't sell yourself out to be someone your not
Now that you moved you seam more at ease
More out going
You always been a pleasant person
And with respect for yourself and other
You know how to catch fly with honey
Just a few right world and all the horny me come out.
We human have such small brains when sex is on our minds
I know your at work so have a good day and keep your food off your chest other wise someone my want to clean it off (hint hint)....


PleasureUdeeper 47M

10/13/2021 5:58 am

Hopefully you find what you are looking for!


AnewWoman 65F
273 posts
10/13/2021 5:54 am

What is funny about this site is it never ceases to amaze me how many people believe everyone here should think like and be here for the same reason they are. What those people don't realize is there are people like you and the type of individual you seek on this site. Sometimes it just takes times to sort out the bad apples.


nsnguystill 71M
428 posts
10/13/2021 5:19 am

"But, it left me wondering.... Am I seeking out the type of guy who just does not exist anymore?"
i would like to believe that what you are looking for is the average guy... just the place you are looking for him is a "specialty" shop.
it is like looking in clothing stores for shoelaces, and shoe stores for slacks
you may get lucky once in a while. but on the average you will find what they specialize in
bonne vie

there is a world of difference between insane and stupid


spunkycumfun 63M/69F
41171 posts
10/13/2021 4:58 am

I've never chatted with anyone here. But if the chat is typical of what happens in the site's adult room, it's not a place I want to frequent!


positively4you 74F  
4605 posts
10/13/2021 4:54 am

I rarely engage im here. Especially if he is far away. Just wants some sex chat which I am not into with some random stranger. But, you may find that rare one here who is for you. Some will start out nice and then switch to the mindless boring sexual bs. Im done at that point. I can be sexual but not with the headless dick pic hundreds of miles away or in the same town either.


notsure1949 75M
10657 posts
10/13/2021 4:51 am

site is getting full of so many fakes male and female, had one where she used someone else's photo and had email listed, different person form the photo, worst case was someone contacting me with an address that either turned out to be a retail store location or a hotel behind it so was a scammer not from the area, then you have those with the nice photo, but the profile says yo get what you pay for


mc_justmc 63M

10/13/2021 4:13 am

I got bored, and started messaging with a woman here and it got real, real quick. She wanted a quick meent n fuck. I dodged her for several days then finally had to admit I wasn't ready to meet anyone. I've got to lose some covid weight and get some dental work fixed before I meet anyone. Now I take my boredom out on other websites.


secret_lade 49F
9227 posts
10/13/2021 1:58 am

Anyone who makes the attempt to communicate with anyone else from this site has fallen prey to this particular individual at least once.

It's the old....

'If you'd like to talk sometime, just to get to know each other' ploy, 'nothing sexual.'

Nothing sexual my ass!

I was feeling bored last night so I decided to test out the waters. I was not disappointed.

Five texts into the conversation the guy was asking me about my pajamas, hinting around that he would like to ask me for a picture but didn't want to 'waste his time and mine'.

Like usual, I avoided going down that road of conversation, I certainly don't plan on sharing that kind of shit with randoms I don't know and will likely never meet.

"You seem conservative."

And, I thought about his observation for a moment.

He was right. I guess I am kind of conservative. I had responded back to him that yes, I suppose I was conservative until I got to know the real personality of the person I was 'trying to get to know'.

Perhaps the continual, repeating cycle of coming into contact with the same kind of guy on here has tainted me in a way. I've gotten to a point where I feel like most of the men who reach out to me on here are like this guy....

They don't really want to get to know me, they just want an easy, random fuck and this is their new pick up line.

The problem is, I'm not an easy, random fuck that is content with just being used for sex.

The conversation ended not long after that.... Not in a bad way, it had just run it's course. He wasn't really interested in 'getting to know me' and I wasn't really interested in sexting with him.

But, it left me wondering.... Am I seeking out the type of guy who just does not exist anymore?

Thoughts to ponder.....

Happy Wednesday!


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